I want to have the light switch be on the middle selector everytime I get into the car. I do not want to risk draining the battery.
essentially I am trying to use switched power at the headlight switch instead of constant power at the switch, but I don't understand the etm, I would have thought there would be one red wire coming into the switch to send to relays at the fuse box for each light, but It does not seem that way. Is there a easier way to cut power to the city and parking lights to make this happen?

What is the easier way to use the switch and not have to select it.