Get a girlfriend or stay single and free.

[lukasbmw]

Here is my situation. I'm 19 and in college. I got a lot going for me and lately lots of things have been falling into place for me. Believe it or not, I've put a lot of thought and effort into my actions and I'm finally seeing some light at the end of the tunnel. Sweet.

Part of the reason I've been able to do this is because I keep my distance from many normal activities. No girlfriend, no beer/weed, no parties. To be honest, I have not really regretted fucking with that stuff.

Now however I have a decision to make. I've got two awesome girls interested in me and I'm wondering if it is time to actually get a steady girl friend.

Girl one:

Still in HS but only a year younger then me. She has a 4.5 GPA, is a model, wants to be a lawyer, and speaks 3 different languages. She is very attractive and incredibly smart. Good personality too. She also is into cars...big time. She knows as much as I do...no shit!

Girl two:

Freshman at ASU. Totally hot. Not nearly as smart as girl one but is tons of fun to be around. She is a real sweetheart. Loves sports.

Again, I'm really tempted to keep my life full of drama and my expenses/responsibilities low so I can build assets and expand my financial knowledge. However these girls may be too good to blow off.

Your thoughts?

[Jand3rson]

I know you can't stand me Eric, but hear me out. :D

Girls are going to take up a lot of your time. What you have to decide is if this is time that you WANT to devote to them, or time that you THINK you should be devoting to them. If you think it's time that you got involved with a girl, and you are ready to devote your time to a relationship, then by all means, go for it.

I think that Girl 1 sounds great, looks and brains. However I think the model thing would scare me off. If she gets picked up by some big contract, she could be whisked off to Fiji in a matter of hours, and you might not see her for 3 months. This of course is worst case scenario.

Girl 2 sounds good too, but you seem like the kind of guy that would get bored with a girl like her real quick.

Like I said, it's something YOU have to decide. You can take our opinions for what they're worth, but in the end, you have to go with what you think would make you happy. With a great girl by your side, you can do anything, because she will be there to help you out. If you don't think that way quite yet, getting involved with a girl might not be your best course of action. I know that without my wife, I wouldn't be as happy as I am today. She sticks by me, and offers to help with anything I need.

Hope to help.

[Red325es]

In my opinion it's a good thing to settle down. I'm 19 now and I'm engaged! The relationship has turned my life around, I stopped all the drinking and smokin weed when I was a junoir in H.S. My fiance' made me a better person without her support I wouldn't be on my way to my goal of being a BMW technicain. Just my opinion though.......for some people It's better not to settle down too early.

[lukasbmw]

Oh god, I'm not looking to settle down with either of them. However I am considering letting them into my life.

To be honest I don't think I want the hassle of a GF in my life, but how often does a model with a 4.5 GPA who wants to (and probably will) be a lawyer say...let's be a team? Add in the fact she loves cars and damn...keeper material.

The other I'm not as hot on, but I think she'd make an excellent friend. Maybe even an FTF relationship.

[SickE30]

Girl number one sounds like a winner man. Having a lady in your life is a good thing. I've been w/ the same girl since sr year of HS and i'm a college sophomore now. Dont rush into anything serious. But I would def put some more time into girl #1. Either way the ball bounces man best of luck. 8)

[trent]

Re: Get a girlfriend or stay single and free.

Here is my situation. I'm 19 and in college. I got a lot going for me and lately lots of things have been falling into place for me. Believe it or not, I've put a lot of thought and effort into my actions and I'm finally seeing some light at the end of the tunnel. Sweet.

Part of the reason I've been able to do this is because I keep my distance from many normal activities. No girlfriend, no beer/weed, no parties. To be honest, I have not really regretted fucking with that stuff.

Now however I have a decision to make. I've got two awesome girls interested in me and I'm wondering if it is time to actually get a steady girl friend.

Girl one:

Still in HS but only a year younger then me. She has a 4.5 GPA, is a model, wants to be a lawyer, and speaks 3 different languages. She is very attractive and incredibly smart. Good personality too. She also is into cars...big time. She knows as much as I do...no shit!

Girl two:

Freshman at ASU. Totally hot. Not nearly as smart as girl one but is tons of fun to be around. She is a real sweetheart. Loves sports.

Again, I'm really tempted to keep my life full of drama and my expenses/responsibilities low so I can build assets and expand my financial knowledge. However these girls may be too good to blow off.

Your thoughts?

Girls are not worth the trouble any more.

Bang 'em then tell 'em to pack a lunch.

Less hassles.

[e9nine]

Re: Get a girlfriend or stay single and free.

[Girls are not worth the trouble any more.

Bang 'em then tell 'em to pack a lunch.

Less hassles.

:pimp:

[GaryE30]

Survey says................Girl 1.

-Gary :D
Good luck bro.

[lodac]

Women.. money sucking.. anyways would rather put my money in to my car.. I just got out of a relationship after a year and a half, was getting married, had a nice engagement ring.. shit was going good.. then she turned. I'm a little young, 18 and well my ex was 25 but it was all good.. untill she played me good and fucked me over.. invovled her family.. lets just say I know what to look for to run away now.

[rward325]

Just be ready to spend a lot of time working on a relationship. She loves cars until you spend an entire weekend with grease up to your elbows and not paying her any attention. Then your going to get the "you love your car more then me" line. Believe me I know. I say date them both and have some fun but you will definitely see your cash reserves go down rapidly!

[e304lyfe]

"you love your car more then me" line.

HAHA, i remember those days!!!

[e9nine]

"you love your car more then me" line.

HAHA, i remember those days!!!

EVERY avid e30 owner with a gf has to have heard that one..

[Brian 89 325i]

Why not talk to the girl you like most about what she wants out of this possible relationship and then make a decesion. If shes 'lookin for luv" then you might want to stay away from that one instead of fucking her over when your done with it. Plus if shes a model over acheiver shes gotta be kinda screwed up. SHE WILL BE HIGH MAINTINENCE!!!!! The day you dont call or come over or what ever youll have an ear full of shit to listen too. Gotta read more than the cover.

Brian

[diegom6]

pick up the girl number one, besides is model, smart and blah blah blah....she likes cars and those things as you!!! is waiting for you man!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :P

[grk325]

why not take both and later down the road go for the one that you want to be with...
who knows you may get tired with the chick that likes cars vise versa..keep both for now....

just dont say theres another girl i fucked up when i was with 4 girls over the summer.

now left with non...
learn from your mistakes ;)
Glad college started meet different chicks every day...your to young to be in a relationship...go out and enjoy your self..

friends with benefits rock ;)