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    Things are finally looking up.

    Hey to all. I haven't been posting too much on here lately. The reason behind that is my fiance and I have been experiencing several hardships. Right now I am 20 years old a junior in college and I hold down a junior loans officer posistion at a local bank (First Citizen's). Heather and I got engaged on new year's eve. Since then she got pregnant and had a miscarriage in February. I must say that I was relieved by this. But sad @ the same time. on February 13th she was in a head on car accident. A 16 year old kid jumped the double yellow line and hit her in her escort zx2 with a full size montero. She had one punctured lung and the other collapsed. Her liver was striated into 3 pieces, she had a broken collar bone 6 broken ribs and a broken leg,. She had air bag burns on her face as well. The paramedics said anyone that was not in the physical shape she is would have died within 2 hours. (She runs track @ our college). Luckily she is on the road to a full recovery. Her liver is almost done healing (lievers are amzing) Her ribs have nearly mended her leg is doing better and her collar bone is nearing a total heal. her face was repaired through plastic surgery. On March 2 my room mate and best friend comitted suicide. I do not know what brought it on and I never will know. Anyway I just wanted to get back in touch with everyone. I've been meaning to post this but just haven't had the time to get around to it. If you guys could send up a few prayers for my fiance she is still in the healing process and has a long rehabilitation road to go forth on. Thanks to all.
    Bryan Abrams

    #2
    :shock:

    Damn, sounds like you've had a rough go of things.

    But I can't belive you said you were relieved that your girl had a miscarraige.

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      #3
      Relieved really is the wrong word man...But for lack of a better one that is what I used. Financhially we were not ready for a child bro.

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        #4
        HOLY SHIT, that sounds like somthing out of a movie, Sorry you had to go through all that, hopefully you'll win the lotto or somthing. I understand about the miscarraige, theres no way I want children right now, but you might want to take up some from of birthcontrol (if you dont already). Good luck

        Brian

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          #5
          Godspeed Bryan. Sooner or later, things will turn around.
          My mountains are better than yours.

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            #6
            Sorry to hear that Bryan. Really puts things in perspective for the rest of us.

            Hopefully things will continue to improve. Give me a call if you wanna chat.
            2004 SL600 - Current
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            2004 M3 SMG - Sold
            1999 540i Sport - Sold :(
            1989 325i coupe- Sold
            1988 325is M50 M-tec - Sold :(

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              #7
              Sorry to hear that. Thats alot to happen in a relatively short time. You seem to be handling well though, and it will only make you a stronger person.

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                #8
                You've been through alot. Take sometime for yourself if possible...
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                  #9
                  best wish's bryan, you'll make it thought this.
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                    #10
                    wow, that makes my story sound like nothin.

                    good luck with the recovery, tell her i have an idea what shes going through and i know how tough it must be for her.

                    good luck to you both.
                    98 M3/4/5

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                      #11
                      Man, hang in there, you'll come out tops. Stuff like this can only make you stronger.

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                        #12
                        Originally posted by Brian 89 325i
                        HOLY SHIT, that sounds like somthing out of a movie
                        seriously-

                        you should write a book, man.
                        past:
                        1989 325is (learner shitbox)
                        1986 325e (turbo dorito)
                        1991 318ic (5-lug ITB)
                        1985 323i baur
                        current:
                        1995 M3 (suspension, 17x9/255-40, borla)

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                          #13
                          Wow, you have been through a lot. :shock:

                          I'm glad things are gettin better now - my prayers are for you and her recovery - hopefully that 16 yr old will get somethin done to him? (court - legal wise?)

                          Things will only get better from this point forward. ;)
                          - Sean Hayes

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                            #14
                            oh my...i dunno how someone could go through all that...

                            speedy recovery for the both of ya and hope everything turns around

                            best wish's
                            Chad

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                              #15
                              It's rare that i have time to find sympathetic words that truely show how i feel, so i don't often post words of sympathy. but this is an occation where i feel as though i must at least make an attempt

                              Bryan.... words can not describe how much my heart goes out to you, your fiancee & the family & friends of your late roommate & best friend. i may not pray as often as i should, as it's rare that i do, but you can be assured that i'll MAKE time to pray for you & yours tonight & as often as i can.

                              may this be as low as it gets for you, as things will only get better if it is
                              -Pete
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