What do you do when....

[CorvallisBMW]

So you and your lady have fallen in to the same old dull routine?

Write to the paper, take put a personal add.

Though you're nobodies poet, I'm sure it wont be half bad.

Tell her you like pina coladas, and being caught in the rain.

That you're not in to health food, and that your in to champagne.

That you want to meet her by tomorrow noon, and cut through all this red tape.

At a bar called O'Malleys, where you'll plan your escape.

[scabzzzz]

Just got out of my wife status relationship. Got the same shpeeel....


Look at it this way...

You can fuck everything that walks again free and clear...

/thread

[Maluco]

So you and your lady have fallen in to the same old dull routine?

Write to the paper, take put a personal add.

Though you're nobodies poet, I'm sure it wont be half bad.

Tell her you like pina coladas, and being caught in the rain.

That you're not in to health food, and that your in to champagne.

That you want to meet her by tomorrow noon, and cut through all this red tape.

At a bar called O'Malleys, where you'll plan your escape.

what happened here.. did you just write me a poem ;)

[Farbin Kaiber]

Oh it was you.

[lennon]

im going through the same thing too. popular shit

[mrsleeve]

Been with the little woman for almost 10 years, We have gone through phases of this. It sucks but the 2 of you need to sit down and discuss where its going and what you both want outta it.

Then go from there and you both have to make an effort a big effort to get back what you have lost, if you both want to stay with it.

A relationship is tons of work even when you get along and everything is right its still tons of work, to keep the magic alive so to speak. It when you fall into the routine of life and start taking each other for granted is when the problems start.

Drop everything and take a long weekend somewhere private and surprise her with it, plan some fun intimate (not sexytime) activities. Shut the phones off, no internetz, very very little TV but none at all is better, spend the time getting to know each other again and do things that are way outta your guys routine from now on it will help.

Or you can do what I did, take a job that you are on the road most of the year and spend 75+% if your time apart. and see each other every 6-8 weeks if your lucky