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You are questioning this means you should not be doing it. Fact of the matter is that you would fuck this girl if she offered and so you feel guilty already, even though you have done nothing wrong.
Spin it the other way if your girl was going to lunch with a guy from an agency would you be ok with that?
End of the day if it dosn't sit right with you then don't do it. A free lunch is not going to solve all you problems in the world but could create a whole lot more.sigpicComment
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Oh I agree with you. His intention as far as what it looks is to see if she's interested. Him starting this thread in the first place hints to all of us she's attractive and fuckable. And that he knows it's not cool to some degree.
If the girl were ugly, would you still have asked her for drinks?Your signature picture has been removed since it contained the Photobucket "upgrade your account" image.
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meh if you really enjoy your relationship of 9.5 years, i suggest just not taking up the offer at the risk of the woman thinking it's a date, or possibly making moves on you.
better safe then sorry.
or think of it this way, imagine if your e30 heard of you test driving an e46?
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Dude... Sounds like you wouldn't have asked had you thought it would be wrong in the first place. I think Farbin is right on this one. It sounds to be like you might not be ok with your current situation and you are using this as a way around it for a short time. Which could lead to even more time around it and that's just not good.
BC huh?? Hmmm I wouldn't mind a job up there. Lemme get her numba!! :D-Erik
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"I cannot undertake to lay my finger on that article of the Constitution which granted a right to Congress of expending, on objects of benevolence, the money of their constituents. Charity is no part of the legislative duty of the [federal] government." ~ James Madison
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Christ guys.
Either all of you have really insecure relationships, or mine is abnormally good. My lady wouldn't even bat an eye at this situation. It's called networking, following up, and showing you have a good staffing agency on your side. You pay them a lot of money out of your paycheck, it's the least they can do.
Go out to lunch, have small chat about your new job, how it's going, any gripes, blah blah blah. They meet with you to see if the job is a good match. This is nothing out of the ordinary at all.
IF, and only IF, the conversation takes an "interesting" turn, THEN choose your route. But I severely doubt anything will happen.Last edited by TurboJake; 06-23-2011, 02:21 AM.Comment
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Farb, evan, josh. On this one.
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Dude,
its just lunch, treat it as such. If things start heading a different direction then play it innocent, and keep the 9.5 yr LTR in mind. Besides... if you're a gentleman about it and she IS interested, if you DON'T capitalize it could very well just make her want you more in the future.http://l0st0n3.mybrute.com
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1)Invite your GF along.
2)Eat lunch
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4)Gangbang.1974.5 Jensen Healey : 2003 330i/5Comment
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