So I got a bit of a problem (groomsman stuff)

[Stanley Rockafella]

My only close buddy I've been friends with for the past 10 years has asked me to be a groomsman at his wedding this summer. Problem is, things have just kinda changed and I'm not interested in being a part of the wedding....what to do...what to do....?

bottom line, I dont' really get along with the group of friends we used to all hang with and they are all the other groomsmen and the best man. Honestly I dont' really care for them anymore, but I still like my buddy esp. since he was there for me when my bro killed himself last summer.

has anyone else been in this situation? advice?

[blunttech]

My only close buddy I've been friends with for the past 10 years has asked me to be a groomsman at his wedding this summer. Problem is, things have just kinda changed and I'm not interested in being a part of the wedding....what to do...what to do....?

bottom line, I dont' really get along with the group of friends we used to all hang with and they are all the other groomsmen and the best man. Honestly I dont' really care for them anymore, but I still like my buddy esp. since he was there for me when my bro killed himself last summer.

has anyone else been in this situation? advice?

you answered your own question. He was there for you Now step up and be there for him. Its one night out of your life

[A_Whelan]

Time to bite the bullet. On the upside it's a wedding and you might end up with a bridesmaid!

[ak-]

Just go with an optimistic attitude. It's a day for him, not you.
Everything's going to be fine.

[Wh33lhop]

you answered your own question. He was there for you Now step up and be there for him. Its one night out of your life

Yep, just do it. Be positive and maybe talk to the bridesmaids and not the guys, you'll all be getting smashed anyway.

[s0urce]

[pureaudio]

Been in the same situation. Groomsmen are supposed to be the guys you can count on in life, you really want to bail on him? The other guys don't mean shit.

[Stanley Rockafella]

fair 'nuff, thanks guys :)