Girlfriend breaks up with you and two days later she hooks up with your best friend

[Jhonno]

Dude.. You don't have the maturity of a 30yr old. You come across as the youngster you are.

Sack her off, find some new hot young fuck.

/Thread.

[e30vert]

I understand but how do I just move on after that long?

It sounds basic , but it really is.

You concentrate on today and being the best person that you can be.
Then tommorrow you do the same.
The next day do the same. , rinse , repeat...

Essentially you have no choice but to do this as the only thing you can control is yourself. We are truly powerless to control others. We can try , but in the end if that person driving next to you swerves all you can do is take evasive action.


If you take the simple steps I outlined above then in another 2 1/2 years think of what a great person you will be and there will be no doubt that another positive relationship will take shape.

Right now your self worth is still in her handbag. You need to remove it and become your confident self once again.

All it takes is focused belief and faith in yourself. Dont look for relationships or love as you have plenty of time for that once you are older.

Right now is the time to just let good things happen and feel free to go with the flow. You are at an age where you can do that! Trust me when you get older its all about a shitty job that pays to well to leave, wife, kids, bills, and other responsible things that the world forces us to participate in.


Ive lost women who I thought were the one for me (not to a best friend though) and I thought I was going to perish as a result. Nope ! It just makes one stronger. Allow yourself to get stronger!

[Raxe]

She's pretty cute, props to your buddy for capitalizing on that.

[Rau]

I moved on after my gf of seven years got pregnant by the neighbor. Move. The. Fuck. On.
























Or cut off your wang and sack and send them to Blunt. He can obviously get a better use out of them than you are.

[Aus E30]

Fuck that.[personal story time] I was with an ex for 4 years (19 - 23) moved out into our own place, thought she was 'the one' started getting serious making plans for engagement and shit, BAM! She fucks her 30 year old boss.
She was crying and shit saying she wanted to be with me blah blah, I wanted to make it work, blah blah a few weeks later she's moving her shit out and moving in with him seeing as she got knocked up.
That was like 3 years ago (im 26 this year) and seriously..shit is still fucking raging in my head. These sluts don't care, and you'll end up getting fucked.
Every one of my friends were telling me to walk away exactly like everyone here is saying. I didn't listen and now - all women are fucking sluts, even if they seem legit they're still just waiting to rip your fucking heart out.
Fuck that, she'll ruin your life (by life, i mean your prime that you're in now) it'll be wasted and in the end you'll have x-years of time to look back on as a complete waste.

Remember keep a healthy mind and try not to fill it with rage or hatred, that can result in a subconscious hate of other women and lead to you misstreating them.

^^ and this. Very true. I've never 'Misstreated' a chick, but all women are lying sluts in the end...

/fucking rant

fucking bitches

[fatsooo]

I can't believe I read this entire thing and you are thinking of getting back with her. If she has already fucked you over once, she will do it again. Don't be blinded by the attention she is giving you again that you have been so desperately waiting for. There's a lot of good advice going on in here and it would be in your best interest to take from it.
If you know her so well, then you shouldn't be surprised she hooked up with your "best friend" and of course she is trying to look like a victim in ordered to get you back because she realized she fucked up and now wants you back....
You're young and live in or around SLO and with what I hear about that place, you can't go wrong. Take advantage of your current shitty situation and keep your head up....Shit gets better.

[Fifteen]

Cry in the corner, your best friends dick is probably twice as big as yours.

Also, girls that are usually are hot mess are no good. Keep this in mind when moving on.

[freeride53]

Dude, fuck dem sluts. We've all been there and done them.
Get a proper girlfriend (which every non-hobbit is capable of doing) and flaunt her in front of said skank.
Period.

[freeride53]

D-Lo. He don't give a fuck about no hoe. No hoe. No hoe. No hoe. No hoe

[wh00sh]

WAPCE. Live and learn

[LJ851]

I understand but how do I just move on after that long?

It only feels long cause you are 18. In 10 years or 20 years it will not be the same.

If she is the first girl you have been with (a distinct possibility based on your ages) she will always have that place in your heart but don't let that cloud your judgement or ruin your future.

[ohthejosh]

You force yourself thats it. Face facts. It takes time but just dont go back dont fall for her again. She is bad news.

[miichaelsmith]

I'm sure that you will find a better, or lets say real girlfriend now.
Forget her, forget your old buddy, and move on.

I understand but how do I just move on after that long?

[M3Philipp]

I'm sure that you will find a better, or lets say real girlfriend now.
Forget her, forget your old buddy, and move on.

[mr.vang]

threesome..