The thing about young chicks is that, while their minds are waffleswaffleswaffleswafflesed to all hell, their bodies are typically tighter. So it can be worth it in the right situation.
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You're just 22. Plenty of fish & plenty of time. I'm 27 and its taken many relationships to find the right person. I've learned a lot from past relationships & put all my experiences (good and bad) to build a stronger foundation towards my current significant other.
There is hope. I consider myself lucky; I have the girl of my dreams. I'd look for someone who has goals, has something bigger in mind for themselves (not materialistic BS) but someone who wants to better themselves & their own situation. Look for someone who is independent, caring & loyal. I realize these are hard qualities to find at 22 but just be patient.1988 325 Lachs Sedan SOLD
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All the chicks I've ever spent my time on have been super chill, dont get me wrong their's some bitches in Cali. For the most part though, the Bay Area has some awesome women. I'm 21 so really just getting into the game but I've met some awesome ladies so far. I think you're just doomed by your area OP.
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Originally posted by TFJR View PostYou're just 22. Plenty of fish & plenty of time. I'm 27 and its taken many relationships to find the right person. I've learned a lot from past relationships & put all my experiences (good and bad) to build a stronger foundation towards my current significant other.
There is hope. I consider myself lucky; I have the girl of my dreams. I'd look for someone who has goals, has something bigger in mind for themselves (not materialistic BS) but someone who wants to better themselves & their own situation. Look for someone who is independent, caring & loyal. I realize these are hard qualities to find at 22 but just be patient.
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May sound sleazy or something but this is true. Foreign girls, European, Asian and so on are usually more down to earth because they have stronger culturally engrained values and come from humbler origins. There are lots of girls that study abroad and are very well educated and fun interesting people to be around. Plus they have sexy accents.
Take you time and dont be in a rush. All good things come in time, and in my experience forced/rushed relationships that are engaged in because you feel you "need" a relationship, are bad ones. You will meet the right girl, just stay open and have fun. What you put out is what you attract.sigpic
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i know 30 and 40 year olds who are the same, so it never stops. Always on the waffleswaffleswaffleswafflesing phone, why? becuase social media and girls always like to know what everyone else is doing to make them feel better than the next and feel needed/attention. That's why the gossip magazines are big business."I wanna see da boat movie"
"I got a tree on my house"
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Originally posted by deutschman View Post^
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May sound sleazy or something but this is true. Foreign girls, European, Asian and so on are usually more down to earth because they have stronger culturally engrained values and come from humbler origins. There are lots of girls that study abroad and are very well educated and fun interesting people to be around. Plus they have sexy accents.
Take you time and dont be in a rush. All good things come in time, and in my experience forced/rushed relationships that are engaged in because you feel you "need" a relationship, are bad ones. You will meet the right girl, just stay open and have fun. What you put out is what you attract.
May be true, but guess what happens when they move back to their country? Unless you are fine with moving away from all your friends and family don''t count on it working out. The majority of women are family orientated and starting over in a new area around all of your friends and family is a road that usually ends in disaster. I have mostly male friends, and I see it happen all the time.
The problem is too many guys are hung up on how hot a girl is. If a girl is cute but doesn't have blonde hair and blue eyes, and rather, blonde hair and brown eyes, then its a no go. The key is to find someone who is self sufficient, has a hobby or something that drives them, something they are passionate about. Do a few "down to earth" type dates and see how she handles them. Whether it be a picnic in the park, bike riding, a walk on the beach, horseback riding, cooking together, fishing, or whatnot, you'll be able to tell a lot about her character. If she's complaining or you can tell she's not impressed then drop her.
What it comes down to is finding someone you are attracted to, and not so much trying to impress your friends and family. Looks fade away with age, personality and character traits are forever.
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Originally posted by Jorgen View PostI'm not as young as you but at 30 when I go out with a girl one thing I do love is when she doesn't have to have her phone out at any point during the night. I have gone with some girls that still feel the need to keep texting randomly to all their friends through the evening, not a fan."I wanna see da boat movie"
"I got a tree on my house"
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My last girlfriend was 23, cute art student, real smart and sassy as hell. I dont know how I get in these circles but she was also in a fire dancing troup? The tipsy gypsies group is sort of a mesh between the hippie festival kids, the punk/alt kids, and the trust funders who have plenty of money coming in to be able to afford jewelry making equipment and $500 tickets to shows, and fireswords/hulahoops all the time. Usually down to earth in the hippie fashion and able to take care of themselves, but with a very soft safety net.
She ditched me to get with her lab manager and they moved a town over when she graduated. Turned out he was a drunk who couldn't get a job (except in the pottery lab at the university, where I assume he moved in on her). The 'real world' changes some of these youngins opinions rather quickly, especially when they realize their boyfriend makes less money per year working at the coffee shop than their car payment is. As soon as daddy starts pulling the plug you usually see them run away quickly.
Worst thing is she is so damn pleasant to be around it will be pretty hard to stay away. My current lady is not excited about this turn of events.
Her story is relevant as well: she got a real job after highschool and took care of deadbeat boyfriend #1 for about 5 years. Almost married him but took him to rehab instead. Then she spent another 3 years with deadbeat boyfriend #2. Now at 30 she is very angry she 'wasted her 20s' supporting losers and never going to college.
I did not know about this group of women until I was about 30 myself. They will look down their nose at you just like you look down your nose at 23 year old girls on their phones. Where is your house? Where is your car? How successful are you? They want to make sure you are not a deadbeat dad like the last dude they wasted 5 years with. Sometimes they have kids, sometimes they dont, but the raging hormones of a 30 year old woman are something I cannot describe with words.
But I will try.
It stems from anger. Anger that you made a bad choice a long time ago. It comes from fear, fear that you will be too old and too alone for anyone to ever love you again. It comes from a boiling biological need for children, even though you hate them because you have seen them destroy you/your friends lives. It is a laser beam that connects heaven and hell with your dick right in the center of the earth and the required element necessary to stop all of evil from destroying the universe.
Seriously dude just get a good job and hang out with older chicks. I flirt with the younger ones to make the older ones really pissed- brings out the anger and fear laser-thing every time. Also much better conversation and booze.
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Originally posted by deutschman View Post^
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May sound sleazy or something but this is true. Foreign girls, European, Asian and so on are usually more down to earth because they have stronger culturally engrained values and come from humbler origins. There are lots of girls that study abroad and are very well educated and fun interesting people to be around. Plus they have sexy accents.
Take you time and dont be in a rush. All good things come in time, and in my experience forced/rushed relationships that are engaged in because you feel you "need" a relationship, are bad ones. You will meet the right girl, just stay open and have fun. What you put out is what you attract.
Originally posted by Q5Quint View PostMy last girlfriend was 23, cute art student, real smart and sassy as hell. I dont know how I get in these circles but she was also in a fire dancing troup? The tipsy gypsies group is sort of a mesh between the hippie festival kids, the punk/alt kids, and the trust funders who have plenty of money coming in to be able to afford jewelry making equipment and $500 tickets to shows, and fireswords/hulahoops all the time. Usually down to earth in the hippie fashion and able to take care of themselves, but with a very soft safety net.
She ditched me to get with her lab manager and they moved a town over when she graduated. Turned out he was a drunk who couldn't get a job (except in the pottery lab at the university, where I assume he moved in on her). The 'real world' changes some of these youngins opinions rather quickly, especially when they realize their boyfriend makes less money per year working at the coffee shop than their car payment is. As soon as daddy starts pulling the plug you usually see them run away quickly.
Worst thing is she is so damn pleasant to be around it will be pretty hard to stay away. My current lady is not excited about this turn of events.
Her story is relevant as well: she got a real job after highschool and took care of deadbeat boyfriend #1 for about 5 years. Almost married him but took him to rehab instead. Then she spent another 3 years with deadbeat boyfriend #2. Now at 30 she is very angry she 'wasted her 20s' supporting losers and never going to college.
I did not know about this group of women until I was about 30 myself. They will look down their nose at you just like you look down your nose at 23 year old girls on their phones. Where is your house? Where is your car? How successful are you? They want to make sure you are not a deadbeat dad like the last dude they wasted 5 years with. Sometimes they have kids, sometimes they dont, but the raging hormones of a 30 year old woman are something I cannot describe with words.
But I will try.
It stems from anger. Anger that you made a bad choice a long time ago. It comes from fear, fear that you will be too old and too alone for anyone to ever love you again. It comes from a boiling biological need for children, even though you hate them because you have seen them destroy you/your friends lives. It is a laser beam that connects heaven and hell with your dick right in the center of the earth and the required element necessary to stop all of evil from destroying the universe.
Seriously dude just get a good job and hang out with older chicks. I flirt with the younger ones to make the older ones really pissed- brings out the anger and fear laser-thing every time. Also much better conversation and booze.
Jealousy my friend is a cougars aphrodesiac and kryptonite!
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Originally posted by Vtec?lol View PostIf I could start over, I'd wait till I was 30, graduated somewhere, and well off into my career. There's plenty of fucc buddies in the meantime.
Go have fun with your life. Bitches are expensive and can offset your abilities to do greater shit.sigpic
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