Is it just me or all the younger women just..

[CabbE30]

I just wanna dance with some beezies

[scabzzzz]

No one wants to hear it, but I'll say it anyway. There are great women at church.

You shouldn't go just for the sake of meeting a woman, but I will tell you that many women in the church will be the type that you are looking for.

lol

[einhander]

If you want to call it that. I guess it's whining that I am looking for a girl who doesn't sleep around, get shitfaced, and gets by on her parents terms and looks. Yea, sorry for whining for wanting a girl who is independent, diligent, and responsible.

You're boring everyone with your whining.

[slammin.e28]

OP, your location says it all.

Do they even still have schools, libraries, or places for intellectual improvement in Jersey anymore?

[Kozworth]

If you want to call it that. I guess it's whining that I am looking for a girl who doesn't sleep around, get shitfaced, and gets by on her parents terms and looks. Yea, sorry for whining for wanting a girl who is independent, diligent, and responsible.

[einhander]

Completely crazy, fake, and full of themselves? Not sure if its just my demographics, because apparently I live in hunterdon county which is pretty wealthy (funny.. wheres my wealth?). It seems to be really hard to meet a girl who isn't completely high maintenance, driving a brand new car, always always ALWAYS on the damn phone..

Anyone else notice this wave of bs? Is there any hope to actually find girls that arent crazy partiers and actually down to earth?

BTW I am 22 and have no means of meeting a girl at a bar. Issue is, seeing how they are I would NOT want to even meet them

Stop whining.

[Jorgen]

No one wants to hear it, but I'll say it anyway. There are great women at church.

You shouldn't go just for the sake of meeting a woman, but I will tell you that many women in the church will be the type that you are looking for.

That doesn't work very well if you are completely non-religious/atheist/disenfranchised catholic.

[Jorgen]

Move to a very small town in the mid west or the south or most any of the "red states". though you will still likely have to deal with the phone thing

I'm not as young as you but at 30 when I go out with a girl one thing I do love is when she doesn't have to have her phone out at any point during the night. I have gone with some girls that still feel the need to keep texting randomly to all their friends through the evening, not a fan.

[evandael]

it's likely just the crowd you want to lay.

respect yourself and quit trying to get the tip wet all the time. there are quality females out there and you won't meet them in the easy/typical places to socialize.

[Kozworth]

Well funny you say the community college thing. I went for automotive at a community college and my last semister I forced myself to ask a girl out. Likewise, she was really cool and was impressed I spent 40$ on dinner lol. Sucks she was into some things I was not comfortable enough to outweigh.

As for friends... I have had a share of them but honestly they were only friends to be the portal to other girls. They were all borin and not funny. A huge negative on my book! My current friend I asked her a lot about women and help and she never hooked me up. She says that the girls I choose and go to stet what I am looking for and she doesn't think they are good enough. Sucks!

Honestly it would be nice to find someone but I would rather keep my sanity and live life with friendships and not drama from meeting people who I am trying to force to settle for.

[Vtec?lol]

It's all about the right placement.
Like everyone else said.
School, book stores, volunteer camps, and other shit like that.

Start figuring out what unisex interest you have and like the most, then go out based on that.

Also, make more friends. Best way to find a chick is through someone that's already known them for a while. That cuts out a lot of work.

[DIIRTY-30]

The absolute best place to find a real woman is at a community college.

Plus hopefully they wont have a lot of mommy and daddys money. Which means they wont expect you to drop $400 on them in one night.

[blunttech]

I think if you can find a girl who has commitments to things greater than herself like a spiritual belief system or humanitarian work etc, you'll probably find at she's less materialistic and shallow.

I've seen that people who give of themselves usually have a greater depth of soul, and it sounds like that's what you want beyond a pretty face

This nails it

[Threehz]

Good women are few and far between today, but they are out there. The absolute best place to find a real woman is at a community college. Universities are good as well, but you will also meet enough worthless women in one day to want to give up on life.

Aside from a community college why don't you try volunteering? That will greatly increase your chance of finding a good women, make you feel good, and give you something to share with her when you find one.

Good luck bud, don't give up.

[DIIRTY-30]

I'm not 100% on this, but I've gone to Houston a couple times for work.. I've found that in smaller areas (and im not 100% sure if its a southern thing or not) but I found a couple women myself. Lowkey fell in love with one because its such a rarity to find a genuine good hearted person now-a-days. Even more-so being from LA where materialism reigns so heavily with people.

In all fairness too, the girl was a model/make up artist. So if you've ever shot models or worked photo shoots... You damn well know the huge princess ego mentality they all typically have. She lacked the ego part and wasn't ditzy; big +1 in my book.

Beauty + Intelligence + Self respect + Good head = Winner.