Is it just me or all the younger women just..

[shameson]

Word to that. It used to bother me really bad, but I just don't care anymore. Learning not to give a shit really makes it easier. I know so many people that are so hung up on dating, finding a gf, chasing that next piece of ass, etc, it just seems like a giant waste of time to me. I'd rather be working on my E30.

My last gf screwed me over and I found out some shit about her being with some other d-bag while we were still together. She moved away and then got charged with domestic violence so I'll say I got lucky I guess.

After that I decided to take a break and not worry about getting girls. I've met some nice ones at school in my classes but I don't worry too much about it going anywhere. I just enjoy my cars and working on them, hanging out with buds and focusing on work.

My cars will always be here. I'm only 19 so a gf probably won't

[Cabriolet]

I can't really comment, but be happy you actually get to meet women regardless of whether or not they are self centered, crazy, hippies, or whatever. Consider yourselves lucky that you find a woman who is willing to even talk to you. Some of us are not so lucky. Being entirely undateable (for no apparent reason) sucks.

Will

wow dont be so hard on yourself. I would be coincided unfortunate looking to most people and yet i found a good looking woman to marry me. it's all about presentation.

sure bets you will be single, if you act:
aggressive personality (too much on the prowl scares women)
in a karate class
needy personality
being self absorbed

women are just like cat. they get bored easily, they want what is just barley out of reach. they want to be liked but not too much bc then they will run in hide. they like shiny things. and they hate being ignored / not heard.

my first date with my wife was a cool night, i offered her my jacket even tho it made me cold. for our second date i took her skiing. then i left the ball in her court to call me back and ask me to do something with her.

but if you are serious about wanting to meet some nice girl, find out what your guy friends girls think about you. then change accordingly.

[Holland]

[mbonder]

From many of the posts there is an underlying theme: patience. This has cropped up in two ways here, the reality that many people lack any semblance of it these days (in particular, but not limited to, the younger generation of people). There is definitely a sense of entitlement that everything should be presented in the here and now, that waiting is something "other people" have to do.

It is okay to be frustrated with the search for a good woman, every man has been there at some point, however, do not let it consume you, otherwise you are no different from the rest of the "I need it now" generation that many here have identified and spoken against. Step back, recognize things for what they are, take a deep breath, and move forward accordingly.

Patience is also popping up here in a different fashion as many posts have spoken about the reality that there is plenty of time for you to find someone special. I find that the best things that I've ever had in life (whether that be my current gf, my career, etc) have come after having patience and realizing that there is a level of effort required to attain things that are actually meaningful.

The funny thing of it is, usually people look for the right girl in all the wrong places, like bars or clubs. I'm sure there are plenty that have found their special someone at such establishments, but the reality is that 99% of people go there to find casual hook ups, not longterm relationships, by searching there, you are paddling against a severe current.

Make things less stressful, don't put such an emphasis on finding a woman, let it be more organic. Be more friendly to the average person you meet; you'd be surprised how many relationships started from a passing hello at a local park or the grocery store. That girl that's the cute cashier at your favorite store, strike up a conversation with her, working all day making change and bagging items gets pretty boring and most people show zero interest in those people. All it takes is making someone feel human and not part of the machine to start that spark. Ultimately, I leave you with this, you never know.


And that is my philosophical discussion for today.

[e30austin]

I can't really comment, but be happy you actually get to meet women regardless of whether or not they are self centered, crazy, hippies, or whatever. Consider yourselves lucky that you find a woman who is willing to even talk to you. Some of us are not so lucky. Being entirely undateable (for no apparent reason) sucks.

Will

Word to that. It used to bother me really bad, but I just don't care anymore. Learning not to give a shit really makes it easier. I know so many people that are so hung up on dating, finding a gf, chasing that next piece of ass, etc, it just seems like a giant waste of time to me. I'd rather be working on my E30.

[Herr Faust Schinken]

I think a big problem is too many of the young guys out there today have turned into whiners and spend all day on internet forums. Girls have seen this and have moved onto more reliable things like chocolate and money.

Well andew just owned a good portion of r3v right der

[Holland]

I can't really comment, but be happy you actually get to meet women regardless of whether or not they are self centered, crazy, hippies, or whatever. Consider yourselves lucky that you find a woman who is willing to even talk to you. Some of us are not so lucky. Being entirely undateable (for no apparent reason) sucks.

Will

I feel you.

[phreshkid]

Everyone is out trying to find girls who are perfect, and I'm just sitting here masturbating.

[Dozyproductions]

I think a big problem is too many of the young guys out there today have turned into whiners and spend all day on internet forums. Girls have seen this and have moved onto more reliable things like chocolate and money.

#r3vgotown3d

[SkiFree]

I think a big problem is too many of the young guys out there today have turned into whiners and spend all day on internet forums. Girls have seen this and have moved onto more reliable things like chocolate and money.

[Massimo]

the world in general sucks. there is no respect anymore.

There is still hope Suspended student is forced to work for free (excuse the news team they are terrible)

Yes most girls and or guys are all materialistic these days and they all want it now ect ect ect. It is just they way it is. Look at it this way be thankful you are not one of those douches.

You are only 22 you have plenty of time to find the right woman.

[BlackbirdM3]

I can't really comment, but be happy you actually get to meet women regardless of whether or not they are self centered, crazy, hippies, or whatever. Consider yourselves lucky that you find a woman who is willing to even talk to you. Some of us are not so lucky. Being entirely undateable (for no apparent reason) sucks.

Will

[CabbE30]

Yes Alot of girls under the age of 30 are Super immature,when it comes to Life in General. They expect a Prince to come and take them away so they can live a life of New cars, fabulous clothes,and super cute Mules,and stilettos. When a Woman understands how some Urban decay,and bebe,can make what she has, look even better. She will take it as far as she can. snaking everyone to get where she thinks she needs to be.

I hate to say it,But its great to see when a Girl gets her ego blown.

And yes there are Lesbians like this too, I tend to stay away from Girls who are have the Glam session going on.

If you want a Good girl who is great in bed,Go after a 6 or 7,and stop aiming for a 10.
Mifs are even better,because they know there first priority are there kids,but will give you all the attention you need,because they want to feel loved.

Also This Sandwich shit has to stop......

I was looking for the hidden message with all those random-ass caps you threw in there

[Cabriolet]

all this and Brides.ru hasn't come up... r3v i'm disappointed


i found my wife on a christian dating non-paying site.
in the bay area it's hard to find a non-spoiled brat who thinks too much of her self, or not a hippy that is dirty and not crazy.

[chadthestampede]

The absolute best place to find a real woman is at a community college.

Picking up community college girls is like picking up a dog from the pound.