Need R3v's Advise

[Stanley Rockafella]

OP, you sound like a "nice guy". Always saying "yes" to others, and allowing others to do as they please, even if it means you being unhappy.

......lemme know how this goes for you

[e30james325]

maybe its just the timing and manner how everything took place.

[evandael]

^ I'll save you the suspense..


It doesn't end well for anyone involved.

[slammin.e28]

Just say no unless there is a large sum of cash that can be made out of saying yes.

Cash is king.

[e30james325]

OP, you sound like a "nice guy". Always saying "yes" to others, and allowing others to do as they please, even if it means you being unhappy.

......lemme know how this goes for you

lol haha, like what i said, i just want to hear what you guys would do/think/say in my shoes. everyone has the right to their opinion, and i dont have the right to reject it specially when im the one asking it. :)

so no offense taken on what the guys say. :)

[e30james325]

Just say no unless there is a large sum of cash that can be made out of saying yes.

Cash is king.

amen to that sir! cash speaks louder than words! ;D

[ST1G]

Slammin, i'll give you the Cliff notes.

He drove his moms car which he is leading on to be some super nice sports car. (although there is no mention of the actual type of car)

He is at his girlfriends house and its late and he is napping on the couch. Some of GF family is talking about getting him to drive the car and how he doesn't stand up for himself so they know he will let them take the car.

The OP pretends like he is asleep instead of just telling them to go to hell because its late and it's not his car to loan out.

GF give them the ok. instead of "waking up" and saying he is not okay with the GF letting them. He continues to "sleep" (fake sleep) while they are out driving around. Then he "wake up" and asks where the keys are, and is pissed they took the car without his permission. The GF says "you woke up and told them and must not remember" and he goes along with it for a few days, building up resentment instead of just talking to her.


Advice for OP:

Stop being a little bitch. I can't imagine what happens to you when an actual tough decision comes up. Tell the GF that wasn't cool and move on with your life. Or dump her and spend the rest of your life resenting her.

[e30james325]

Slammin, i'll give you the Cliff notes.

He drove his moms car which he is leading on to be some super nice sports car. (although there is no mention of the actual type of car)

He is at his girlfriends house and its late and he is napping on the couch. Some of GF family is talking about getting him to drive the car and how he doesn't stand up for himself so they know he will let them take the car.

The OP pretends like he is asleep instead of just telling them to go to hell because its late and it's not his car to loan out.

GF give them the ok. instead of "waking up" and saying he is not okay with the GF letting them. He continues to "sleep" (fake sleep) while they are out driving around. Then he "wake up" and asks where the keys are, and is pissed they took the car without his permission. The GF says "you woke up and told them and must not remember" and he goes along with it for a few days, building up resentment instead of just talking to her.


Advice for OP:

Stop being a little bitch. I can't imagine what happens to you when an actual tough decision comes up. Tell the GF that wasn't cool and move on with your life. Or dump her and spend the rest of your life resenting her.

yeah already talked about it with the GF. Nah, wont dump her, love her too much just to do that.

so is it my part to talk to the other people? or just let it go? act as if nothing happened?

had a fair share of "tough decisions" in my life, so far so good.

[CabbE30]

It wasnt that bad. You should have told them to leave you and the car alone. The only reason you're resentful towards the car is bc you're angry at yourself for being such a puss. It's not the end of the world. Lock this bitch up before OP gets butthurt at R3v's advice.

[Roysneon]

They wanted to drive your moms car that you had borrowed, you didn't have the heart to say no, your gf told them they could. Besides thinking it would be cool to cruise around in someone elses mom's car they didn't do much in the wrong, except for (potentially) hooning a car that the gf of the son of the owner told them they could drive.

I don't think you should be all agro macho man on people, but you have to be able to have boundries and not let them be crossed. I would't let my best friend drive my mom's car because it's not mine, let alone two teenagers in a Porsche in the middle of the night.

[Roysneon]

Also, this guy could be the son of B*Saint with a post like this.

[ST1G]

yeah already talked about it with the GF. Nah, wont dump her, love her too much just to do that.

so is it my part to talk to the other people? or just let it go? act as if nothing happened?

had a fair share of "tough decisions" in my life, so far so good.

Just let it go. You're just just building up resentment.

This whole post seems more like you're looking for attention, then wanting advice. This is just a very simple personal problem.

[10Toes]

Slammin, i'll give you the Cliff notes.

He drove his moms car which he is leading on to be some super nice sports car. (although there is no mention of the actual type of car)

He is at his girlfriends house and its late and he is napping on the couch. Some of GF family is talking about getting him to drive the car and how he doesn't stand up for himself so they know he will let them take the car.

The OP pretends like he is asleep instead of just telling them to go to hell because its late and it's not his car to loan out.

GF give them the ok. instead of "waking up" and saying he is not okay with the GF letting them. He continues to "sleep" (fake sleep) while they are out driving around. Then he "wake up" and asks where the keys are, and is pissed they took the car without his permission. The GF says "you woke up and told them and must not remember" and he goes along with it for a few days, building up resentment instead of just talking to her.


Advice for OP:

Stop being a little bitch. I can't imagine what happens to you when an actual tough decision comes up. Tell the GF that wasn't cool and move on with your life. Or dump her and spend the rest of your life resenting her.

Thanks man.:)

[e30james325]

@CabbE30 - no worries haha, not taking it to the heart, at least im getting more insights about how and whats by others. Yeah that maybe right, I should really learn to say no.

@Roysneon - me either, wont let or drive others car specially with out the owner/owner rep lol in the middle of the night. will be working on my part, must learn to say no.

[e30james325]

Just let it go. You're just just building up resentment.

This whole post seems more like you're looking for attention, then wanting advice. This is just a very simple personal problem.

trust me, if attention is what im looking for, i wont be going to R3v. I know how "attention seekers" end up in r3v and no chance im going that route. peace out.