wtf tew do now...

[Kate525i]

You girl people are pretty smart. I got one for you if you don't mind. I am very interested in a young lady in my stat class. She is 19 years old and I am 20. We talk on the phone everyday or every other day. We get along great and I am positive she is into me. However, when I asked her to go out she said that her parents would say no because we don't share the same beliefs. So my question to you is, do I just forget this, or do I stick with it? I think she is way to cool to just forget about but at the same time I want more than just talking on the phone.

honestly, they have a point. parents suck when they're trying to control their no-longer-minor- childs every move. It's hard to tell if it's actually worth it. I went to a private catcholic school in high school (against my will, but it turned out not so bad) and I had a few friends deal with this because not everyone was Catholic, or even Christian for that matter.

Talk to HER, ignore her parents for now. Discuss with her your feelings and if hers are the same or similar, THEN dig into the religion issue. Explain to her you think she should be able to make her own decisions since she's 19. If she still persists that religion is an issue with her parents then take the clue- it's not JUST her parents that are worried about the religion difference.

[winstontj]

This is the funniest thread EVER!!!

My mom gave me some advice way back when... she said: you should marry your best friend. I'm pretty lucky to have found her and the road leading up to Megan was fun too!

You'll know and if you have to question it then its not the right one. Maybe thats a little sappy... I am probably a little older than some of you guys, no longer single and I'm actually at a wedding this weekend so just a few hours ago I heard all the sappy BS people dish out about love, etc... (this couple is the perfect couple)

So it may be the wrong girl, wrong time, right girl wrong something... If Megan and I met when we were in HS or college we would have never ended up together - wrong time and we were different people then.

(dont answer these on here)
Do you look at her and know?
Are you honest with her? - I mean REALLY honest?
Is she honest with you? - Do you KNOW for sure?
Do you two fit together? (in every way, meaning more than sex)

If you cant ansewr any of these, which I'd imagine you cant because you are posting this on the internet, then hang out, RELAX, enjoy the ride & whatever you do DONT OVERTHINK IT! Thats the beginning of the end when you start down the thinking road...What if she... what if you... should I....

Think with #1 and see what happens. Every experience you have molds you into the person that you need to be when you meet your other half. When you meet her this will seem comical.

[Kate525i]

This is the funniest thread EVER!!!

My mom gave me some advice way back when... she said: you should marry your best friend. I'm pretty lucky to have found her and the road leading up to Megan was fun too!

You'll know and if you have to question it then its not the right one. Maybe thats a little sappy... I am probably a little older than some of you guys, no longer single and I'm actually at a wedding this weekend so just a few hours ago I heard all the sappy BS people dish out about love, etc... (this couple is the perfect couple)

So it may be the wrong girl, wrong time, right girl wrong something... If Megan and I met when we were in HS or college we would have never ended up together - wrong time and we were different people then.

(dont answer these on here)
Do you look at her and know?
Are you honest with her? - I mean REALLY honest?
Is she honest with you? - Do you KNOW for sure?
Do you two fit together? (in every way, meaning more than sex)

If you cant ansewr any of these, which I'd imagine you cant because you are posting this on the internet, then hang out, RELAX, enjoy the ride & whatever you do DONT OVERTHINK IT! Thats the beginning of the end when you start down the thinking road...What if she... what if you... should I....

Think with #1 and see what happens. Every experience you have molds you into the person that you need to be when you meet your other half. When you meet her this will seem comical.

You have a very good point. I know the feeling, I'm getting married in just a couple months and it is the whole "I look at him and just KNOW" The only problem with your whole point? He's not looking to marry the girl, Just do more than talk... and get around controlling parents. If he were looking to marry her, I would have told him the same thing, but he's just trying to get a date out of this.

I still think you should give it a shot. If it works and you 2 date, cool. If you have to argue with her and/ or her parents on wether on not you CAN date, then it's up to you to decide if she's worth the effort, based on everything he ^ just said.... no harm in trying....

[RobertK]

Relationship advice on the inarweb is very serious business.

Trust me, once you meet the woman you can stand enough to be in a steady relationship with you'll know it almost instanteously. If you have doubts this early on then just have fun.

There's a fine line between girls you can love and girls that are only good for the ass.

[trent]

Relationship advice on the inarweb is very serious business.

INT3RNETZ IS ZERIUS BIZZZZZNIESSS

[h0lmes]

This is the funniest thread EVER!!!

My mom gave me some advice way back when... she said: you should marry your best friend. I'm pretty lucky to have found her and the road leading up to Megan was fun too!

You'll know and if you have to question it then its not the right one. Maybe thats a little sappy... I am probably a little older than some of you guys, no longer single and I'm actually at a wedding this weekend so just a few hours ago I heard all the sappy BS people dish out about love, etc... (this couple is the perfect couple)

So it may be the wrong girl, wrong time, right girl wrong something... If Megan and I met when we were in HS or college we would have never ended up together - wrong time and we were different people then.

(dont answer these on here)
Do you look at her and know?
Are you honest with her? - I mean REALLY honest?
Is she honest with you? - Do you KNOW for sure?
Do you two fit together? (in every way, meaning more than sex)

If you cant ansewr any of these, which I'd imagine you cant because you are posting this on the internet, then hang out, RELAX, enjoy the ride & whatever you do DONT OVERTHINK IT! Thats the beginning of the end when you start down the thinking road...What if she... what if you... should I....

Think with #1 and see what happens. Every experience you have molds you into the person that you need to be when you meet your other half. When you meet her this will seem comical.

Are you saying that after a few weeks of talking on the phone and seeing her in class I am supposed to KNOW that shes the one? I don't believe that. I just want to get to know the girl on a more personal level. I am no where near thinking marriage. I appreciate the advice though.

[trent]

dude, just be bangin her..doin't worry about anything or she will take off

[blunttech]

dude , do yourself a favor and send her a link to this thread. she will drop you like a manhole cover. why do you even give a fuck what she wants?? go take her out and do what you want to do. if she likes it keep banging her. if she doesnt oh well, then shes not your type. move to the next one....dont even think about it. if a woman digs you , you can take her to a tractor pull and she will think you are the shit.

[h0lmes]

dude , do yourself a favor and send her a link to this thread. she will drop you like a manhole cover. why do you even give a fuck what she wants?? go take her out and do what you want to do. if she likes it keep banging her. if she doesnt oh well, then shes not your type. move to the next one....dont even think about it. if a woman digs you , you can take her to a tractor pull and she will think you are the shit.

lol dude I didn't mean to turn this into an emo thread. The op asked a question so I thought I would.

[s0urce]

I'm all against locking threads besides this one. This shit is sad.

[AdironRider]

I recomend you stop being such a waffleswaffleswaffleswaffleswaffleswaffles.

[Erick]

x2, and I can definitely vouch for that one. It can be more trouble than it's worth.

x3. -50 points if she's your neighbor. Never works well after the break-up.

[325Projectz]

I recomend you stop being such a waffleswaffleswaffleswaffleswaffleswaffles.

(+) rep for quoting a great movie.

[aschmidt]

x3. -50 points if she's your neighbor. Never works well after the break-up.

The breakup sex is rather convenient though.

[MikeE30325i]

i think r3v is not the place to come for relationship advice. seriously.

IBTL