Check out this link, first (it's a java applet thing, you have to wait a bit for it to load)
I'll be reading up on relays in a bit, but the ones used there look fairly standard. They need a solid source of +, though. You can either run a separate constant + wire or do the thing I did with the diodes to get power when you need it. Diagram:

I think this will work.
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