oil service light reset problem

[8380 Labs]

i did a bunch of research and found a ton of threads/resources that pointed towards simply jumping pins 7 and 19 to reset the oil and service indicator lights. as far as i was able to ascertain, this applies to all late model e30s the same.

i opened up my diagnostic port to find there is no pin in the #19 "hole" on my car.

what am i missing here?

stole this pic from simon s in another thread (what it's supposed to look like; mine is empty):

[Ryann]

Weird!

Pin #19 is just a ground. Jumping pin #7 to a good ground (such as your engine or the cluster of grounds in front of the driver side strut tower) will have the same affect as jumping it to your apparently nonexistent #19.

[Simon S]

Concur

[Jand3rson]

It looks like PacMan is in the middle of your diag plug and is about to nom on your paperclip.

[idanity]

maybe the last person who reset your service lights nom'd your pin...onoes!

[nando]

I use a fuseable link to jumper mine, in case I make a mistake.