Because i f***ing want to

[87e30]

If you think you are gonna go out and "found" a relationship on the potential sex that you may, or may not have is gonna make it quite a chore for you.

The relationship is based on a bond, the sex is just a bonus you get with a great friendship that has been founded.

My parents didn't cheat (as far as I know, :rofl: ), wasn't really a problem. The way I see it there is no NEED to have sex before you are married, the only "need" is the pleasure you get from it. It adds another aspect to a non-marriage relationship (IE connection based on physical attraction or emotional ties) that I'm not trying to have at this point in life.

And I'm not founding any relationship on sex, but if you have to tell the girl you're a virgin and later down she finds out it was a lie, or you have to live with that lie, then in some way you founded a relationship based on a lie. Which is idiotic.

[Farbin Kaiber]

Because I'm paranoid about my future and having only one wife and a happy marriage. I'd rather have no wife than a divorce. IT sucks. (divorced parents)

The childhood trauma that has fueled your standpoint (assumed either or both of your parents went through divorce due to "cheating ways"), is not the tru, real world fact, just because you experienced it once does not mean you are destined to experience it throuhgout life. If you continue down this path, it would be sad to see something terrible befall your relationship with this assumed one, true dream girl.

dude all I have to say is at 20 you need to be fucking like a bunny right now. I just turned 36 have been married and faithful for 15 years have 3 kids and miss the days I fucked like a rabbit. You get older and days just pass right on by. You wake up go to work, run like crazy all day, come home eat, spend time with the family, zone out for a while, then pass the fuck out. You need to start fucking now while you can.

Fucking this. I've spent the past 11 years of my adult life in two serious relationships, lots of activity between and before them.

I'll agree. Founding a relationship that is based on a lie (to some degree, more or less) is another idiotic plan.

If you think you are gonna go out and "found" a relationship on the potential sex that you may, or may not have is gonna make it quite a chore for you.

The relationship is based on a bond, the sex is just a bonus you get with a great friendship that has been founded.

[87e30]

Easy solution for a person who is accustomed to lying. If there are people to be honest to, they are your loved ones.

I'll agree. Founding a relationship that is based on a lie (to some degree, more or less) is another idiotic plan.

[Erik]

Easy solution for a person who is accustomed to lying. If there are people to be honest to, they are your loved ones.

You are the biggest waffleswaffleswaffleswaffleswaffles I have ever seen. I like it. I respect it. I'm glad you continue to hold up to your beliefs or w/e is making you up hold true to the decisions you have been making. Same goes for you Clay.

[Conki]

duh, just lie and tell her youre a virgin. problem solved..

Easy solution for a person who is accustomed to lying. If there are people to be honest to, they are your loved ones.

[Sir Young]

I <3 r3v..

[ck_taft325is]

You, sir, hit the biggest button I have. :) That's when logic goes out the window and fingers type unchecked.

Sounds to me like you're really just bitter someone gave you advice that you followed and now you feel :cockbloc:

Sorry you're all butt hurt because I said people should respect the guys decision. Keep on keepin' on.

[Paul G]

When did I say marry her to get into her pants? That's a pretty far leap of reasoning. Nor would I ever advise that. Did I hit a button of some sort?

And because you had a bad experience doesn't mean the rest of us did.

You, sir, hit the biggest button I have. :) That's when logic goes out the window and fingers type unchecked.

[StereoInstaller1]

duh, just lie and tell her youre a virgin. problem solved..

Oh fuck, leave it to a New Yorker to find the obvious solution!

[dgspikes]

duh, just lie and tell her youre a virgin. problem solved..

[E30Nova]

I completely agree with 87e30.
I'm not into whores either, just not interested in fucking them.

I'm in a fraternity, girls are always around, but not the kind of girls I like.
I'm only 21, but I want to find a nice and loyal girl who's been waiting for me.
I want to marry her, and I want to have kids.

I believe it's not me who has a problem, I believe it's today's youth that is fucked up.

Yeah, typical. It's not you with the problem, blame everyone else.

But seriously, not saying you have a problem, just a different opinion. And you guys really are putting the waffleswaffleswaffleswaffleswaffles on a pedestal.

Matt

[87e30]

....there is more than just man whore one night stands, and bible hugging abstinence, lol.

Oh, I know. There is non-bible hugging abstinence. :D

But seriously, I know. Everyone else can do whatever they want!

[Stephen]

....there is more than just man whore one night stands, and bible hugging abstinence, lol.

[87e30]

What was the point of the thread then


Post on r3v, opinions ensue


fact

Oh for sure. Just wasn't trying to preach, and it sorta came out that way. My bad. Then derailment followed, love it!

[87e30]

Ahahahaa are you guys fucking serious? Okay OP I respect your decision but seriously it isn't the fucking '50s anymore, people fuck each other it feels good. Grow up.

For the record people have been rampantly fucking forever. I really don't think that today all of a sudden it's something new.

Anyways, I don't think it's immature to wait, or childish, just a difference in opinion.

If you're fucking as much as you can, then in my opinion, you need to grow up. (general statement, I'm not saying you're a man whore)

Too serious, more alba!
:rofl: