Any girl that "expects" you to do good in bed is immature to the extreme. News flash for everyone, no one is spectacular in bed all the time. For as much bravado as guys and gals like to throw at it, most of the time it's about the two people involved. Anyone that claims they can fuck, suck, bone, screw, ejaculate 20' is just blowing smoke or has had so many partners sex is no longer something that can be really enjoyed because it's to animalistic to really mean anything. I had multiple partners in my "youth", more than I like to admit but being intimate with my wife was a huge learning curve for ME. Every womans different. Trying to sleep with every type of woman to make sure you're "practiced" is a really bad excuse for being a douche-bag.
Anyone that says sex doesn't mean anything to them, is a sad person and 8 out of 10 times they've been abused sometime in their past or childhood. Sad, but it's really not an excuse to sleep with anything that breaths.
If your highest calling in regards to the oposit sex is to get in their pants, I feel bad for you. You're missing out.
Holmes, I'm 24. My wife is 23. She waited until marriage. I did not and I don't regret it, I'm not always at ease with it. She's had to work through my past as much as I have and while I love her more for it, I don't think it was fair that she had to go through it with me. I'm honest to God not trying to preach here about abstinance, but when someone chooses it, I think it's funny that he/she recieves responses like this more often than not. Because it's not the norm, he must be a fag, right? Or not like women? Or be too much of a waffleswaffleswaffleswaffleswaffles to go get some action?
The fact is if you care for the person, there's no reason to not be in an actual relationship. And if you're man enough, get married to her. I know there's a few guys here that don't think marriage is needed and have 10+ year relationships with a special lady but I'll put this out there, why not after 10 years?
/soapbox
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What...I wnat some bitches. I lik ebitches. But I don't like to fuck bitches. Fucking bitches is dumb, I know most guys like ot have shit tons of sex, but that's not me. I just want to dance with some beezies or something, but shit's not happening.Leave a comment:
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This thread has gotten way too sappy, I'm going back to the Palin-Tards.Leave a comment:
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This is my mentality, but then if she really is the right girl, she should be your wife in the future.
There is no problem with sex before marriage, if you have sex with the girl you love and the girl who loves you back.
Sometimes I ask my friends if they can see themselves marrying the girl they are with at the moment. Most of them respond with something like "hell no". I just simply can't understand why they are dating then.Leave a comment:
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^ That sucks. :( That's another reason why I'm glad to be single and abstinent for now. I don't want something like that interrupting my plans.Leave a comment:
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The pill doesn't really garuntee anything either. Condoms AND the pill are a pretty safe counter measure. My wife and I had a 5-7 year plan before kids. She was on the pill and I wrapped it up. 3 months after we were married (and waited to even fool around pre-married) we were pregnant.
Or be a man, and get yourself a wife.Leave a comment:
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I like the OP's attitude, although I wouldn't recommend waiting till marriage just till you have a good relationship with someone. Sex IS better when you actually care about the person as opposed to not giving a shit. Also, it's nice when you get your girl on the pill because condoms suck and take away most of the pleasure. They also don't fully protect against pregnancy and std's. Basically, don't fuck random bitches just find yourself a loyal girlfriend.Leave a comment:
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I see a whole lot of blind leading the blind here. The guys that are older and say, "man, I should have fucked more bitches when I was young" just don't like getting older.
Young guys telling someone who wants to wait, "you're going to be terrible in bed and your wife will divorce you!" are very obviously not married ;) And if you where left because you were "bad in bed" then you probably married one of the whores that he's talking about.Leave a comment:
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I completely agree with 87e30.
I'm not into whores either, just not interested in fucking them.
I'm in a fraternity, girls are always around, but not the kind of girls I like.
I'm only 21, but I want to find a nice and loyal girl who's been waiting for me.
I want to marry her, and I want to have kids.
I believe it's not me who has a problem, I believe it's today's youth that is fucked up.Leave a comment:
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