when to walk away from a relationship.....

[stevofthahill]

I would leave if:

• cheating has occurred - no second chances.

• She gives me shit about hanging with my friends - like tries to control me.

• Get's pissed off if I buy myself something insignificant, but she spends $$$$ on b.s. stuff
• Either of us is unhappy with no solution in sight.
• Sex stops.
• She wants me to change who I am. - My thought is that I am who I am. Whoever wants to be with me shouldn't want me to change that.
• If in the first few months of the relationship there have been 3 major fights, or many smaller fights.

Maybe a few other reasons. Also depends on how long the relationship has lasted.

To a fuckin T. I had to find this out the hard way, but have been single and happy ever since. I also full well know what I must have from a relationship now and bottom line is if you have any issues with the relationships I have with friends, family, etc and you believe you take top priority over any of those? Your ass is getting the curb. That last girl eventually spiraled into a constant "well obviously your friends are more important than me" situation.

I don't have time for insecurities like that. Also, it's almost always very bad to date a girl who doesn't have her own group of friends, social life, hobbies etc. Their entire world will end up revolving around you, and when you want to spend time doing something that isn't them...that's when the screamin and name calling starts. I am the most laid back easy going person you'll meet and was unfortunately walked all over until I wizened up.

Goddamn that bitch was crazy...and I put up with it for nearly five months which ain't long, but seemed like a lifetime.

/novel and tl;dr

[30Bird]

Dibs on the half Peruvian part.

[slammin.e28]

Had to.

[agile30]

Once again thank you doctor phil..errr dr.r3v. We went out yesterday and a small argument started to brew so when she pulled up to a stop light I just got out and walked away(e30 was home). She said she would atleast take me home since we were 6 miles from there. I kept walking. Two blocks away ran into a few friends and went partyingwound up in the vip at a club chilling with some music artists. Wound up an awesome night.

[Chaos Theory]

Had to.

This.

If she stands in the way of anything you desire, ex that bitch quick. No compromises. Women are replaceable, time isn't.

[stevofthahill]

this.

If she stands in the way of anything you desire, ex that bitch quick. No compromises. Women are replaceable, time isn't.

+>9000

[Charlie]

Had to.

Leave it to a bunch of internet permavirgins to take an old Biggie lyric about getting laid & paid and try and turn it into a "no girls" meme..

-Charlie

[QUKBMER]

When your wife of 13 years wants to hangout more with co-workers, and not with you and your daughter. Then she ends up getting our daughter after we divorce. My 2nd AND LAST WIFE now Who has two kids of her own is the complete opposite of my first wife. She had a bad relationship with her ex That wanted to cheat all the time. My first wife didnt understand the e30 obsession thing, my second one does.;)

[Wh33lhop]

Once again thank you doctor phil..errr dr.r3v. We went out yesterday and a small argument started to brew so when she pulled up to a stop light I just got out and walked away(e30 was home). She said she would atleast take me home since we were 6 miles from there. I kept walking. Two blocks away ran into a few friends and went partyingwound up in the vip at a club chilling with some music artists. Wound up an awesome night.

So that's how you ended it? Got out of the car without saying anything?

[Kershaw]

Lol kershaw thanks for lighting up my night.

lolol, your welcome.

[Bimmerista]

So that's how you ended it? Got out of the car without saying anything?

Thats usually the best way to go

[StereoInstaller1]

Your local. Do you want to buy her? or trade for parts? Shes half peruvian half puerto rican.

Look, man, you used a specific quote of mine in your sig yet you didn't post pics...WTF?

My first wife didnt understand the e30 obsession thing, my second one does.;)

Winner.

[samiam3356]

Depends on where you are in your life.

<20's - split if you find something better, she's boring in ANY way period, you fight at all,

Your teen years should be about experience and having fun as much as possible IMO. Thats how I did it and have NO regrets.

20-30 - I was more willing to try and work through some differences and arguments and not be casual about throwing away relationships. No one should get married before 25. Your taste change SO much during that time. I'm married to a beautiful blonde hair, blue eyed woman and now that I'm in my middle thirties, I find latin women more my taste. A lot of that has to do with me being married to the opposite of that I think.

30-40 Well...we'll see, but I have an amazing relationship with my wife and we have been together for 10 years now..... and 2 sets of twins later I don't think either one of us are going anywhere. lol Wasn't always easy but through communication and compromise on both sides we have always worked through our issues though.

Good luck and happy hunting for you single folks. BTW Atlanta has 8 to 1, women to men ratio. :)

[agile30]

Pics of said girl and myself towards the beginning.

And i left it in the air to keep from ending shit worse.fact is we have plenty of mutual friends and we are actually both taking part in a wedding a month from now where we are both supposed to walk together. I'm sure well talk before then but rather then leave on a bad note I would rather leave with a clear mind@

[Charlie]

Did you actually go in, open up your wallet and pay real money for them to give you The Rock's "people's eyebrow" from 1998?

-Charlie