Even family are all a bunch of ungrateful f**ks

[mr.vang]

i feel the same.... i need to move the fuck away from my family.

[ForcedFirebird]

Das ist mein JAM!

Don't know why I thought of this song when you said that...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wc3f4xU_FfQ

[Stanley Rockafella]

i feel the same.... i need to move the fuck away from my family.

I moved away from my family 6 years ago. best decision I ever made since it gave me an opportunity to find myself with what I wanted, and not feel tied down to the family obligation.

To the OP, you can hate on you old lady as much as you want, but dont' dis you bro. Mine was a total asshole to me ever since i was born, and always treated me and the rest of our family (heck, even his ex wife and ex GF) like shit...then last June he drove out to the middle of nowhere and at 2AM threw himself in front of a speeding semi.

he may be your bro, but he's YOUR bro and you'll always have that bond.

[ForcedFirebird]

I moved away from my family 6 years ago. best decision I ever made since it gave me an opportunity to find myself with what I wanted, and not feel tied down to the family obligation.

To the OP, you can hate on you old lady as much as you want, but dont' dis you bro. Mine was a total asshole to me ever since i was born, and always treated me and the rest of our family (heck, even his ex wife and ex GF) like shit...then last June he drove out to the middle of nowhere and at 2AM threw himself in front of a speeding semi.

he may be your bro, but he's YOUR bro and you'll always have that bond.

Feel ya man. My only bro OD'd in '02. 23yrs old with a young baby and pregnant wife. All the ups and downs, still kicks my ass when I think about old times.

[blunttech]

Im old enough to know there is always 2 sides to a story but damn she sounds fucked up. Best of luck dude. I would not put up with an ungrateful bitch you are doing your best to help. Id send her down the road

[Sailor37]

I live just far enough enough to keep all that from happening...no wife however.

It's hard to believe you're still married

[SimplyDope]

Family is forever, no matter how much they serve you shit. Wish I could say the same for your woman :S Good to hear she cleaned up her bad habits (well, one of them).

[shiftbmw]

You sound like a bitch OP.

Sad to say, and no offense meant, but this is true. You sound pretty selfless, but at some point you need to realize that you are getting fucked and you need to push back...hard. You need to stop being a bitch and a doormat.

You need to realize that your relationship is fucked, and not going to get better. People don't change. Lose the broad. It's a process with shitty and scary consequences short term, but you need to make a long term move.

Dude...seriously...

[MR E30 325is]

Agreed about dropping the wife.

She is probably creating a ton of extra hardships for you. I also realize there are two sides toa story, but if the dumb bitch throws a phone when it takes a ew seconds to respond, you need to drop her as fast as your dad should have dropped your bro's bike engine.

I also have to agree that you sound like a doormat and that you lack confidence. I know that people dont get away with that kinda shit with me, and it sounds like you shy away from her and then come to the internet and bitch about her, without her knowing.

So, as much as I hate to quote movies, i think its officially time to "shut up or nut up"

Just my two cents. Whatever you do, dont lose your cool and hit her.

[MarshallM]

If you love her, and I'm assuming you do since you got married, then that should be for life in good times and bad times. Dropping people because they are making life difficult is the easy way out. Tell her how it makes you feel when she doesn't appreciate your sacrifices and work through it. Oh and punch your bro in the stomach really hard, He's your brother so thats ok.

[freeride53]

Let her go brah.

[der affe]

Tell her to put up or kick rocks!

If she has to have a phone and has no money, get her some busted assed cricket pre paid phone the does 2 things, make calls and text. Take your phone back.

If she does not like your car, there is always the shoe leather express. Take your car back, if she does not have a job, then she does not need a car.

After everything she has pulled to still be that way is intollerable. You need that shit like you need HIV.

Take your hand and reach around behind your back, feel the bumpy thing that runs from top to bottom, that is a spine, use it.

Why don't YOU move and leave her behind. Once you move with her, she will be unhappy in the new place and blame her unhappiness on you and moving. Then she will make your new life suck too. She made all these problems, not you. You have suffered from her actions long enough. You did the good deed, took her back after an enormous shit storm that, once again, she created, because you loved her and married her. Look where it has gotten you. She is truely unhappy and (most likely) done with the relationship, but she is not enough of an adult to end it her self and would rather make your life suck than pull the trigger.

Lose her, start a new life, leave her to wallow in her own shit she created. She burned her family and now she is burning you (again).

Ask yourself this question, what really is the benefit of having her around? Keeps you from being lonely? You can find that with someone new.

What does it cost you to have her around? (mentally and financially)
Your answer will be right in front of you, then act on it!

[MR 325]

Greg always slams it home with excellent advice.

[slammin.e28]

Greg always slams it home with excellent advice.

I have to scroll so I can't see his sig, otherwise no reading of the posts occurs.

[greanthumb]

i feel ya bro.... my family and gf drive me fuckin nuts.