Quick poll...facebook and ex's

[blocke]

Submitting facebook name to 4chan for wasting my time with this thread.

[Dean]

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[Dean]

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[Vince30]

I didn't remember, I remembered it being in that thread so I went and looked lol.

[1mz]

Been in a similar situation... talking to an ex that you have feelings for (minimal or otherwise) can, IMO, actually help you to move on if you truly are happy in your current relationship. I did it this past weekend actually at my school's homecoming; If you think that after your three years apart you've both matured enough to have a conversation to smooth things over with her, you might find that after so much time apart you can just be happy for her wherever she is in her life currently. The reality of seeing how much the other person has gone through since your shared past helps tremendously in the 'closure' process I think.

right or wrong? I dont know, just my thoughts on the matter, either way good luck.

[matthugie]

move on, don't be a little bitch and keep loving the girl you already have. you broke up for a reason and you got into a new relationship for a new reason, just remember those reasons and delete the friend request.

This. I have been in your shoes, didn't heed the advice above, and regretted it. Unless she's trying to tell you she had your kid and never told you about it, ignore. Actually, in that event ignore too.

[Mlarsen]

I'm in contact with my uncle, again via Facebook...Trust me facebook opens up cans of worms in all aspects of your life! I'll update that thread as and when, my current girlfriend has been so supportive with that, we'll see what happens thats another day story me think. Good for remembering my age vince!!!

Truth. Facebook will fuck shit up quick. If you know how to play your cards right, accept the friends request. If the new g/f says anything, tell you didn't think anything of it just an old friend type thing. If she freaks, then she's insecure with your relationship and this type of situation was bound to happen. I think your golden man. Unless your not over your ex.

[slammin.e28]

I haven't accepted my mom as a friend 'cause I know if she saw the shit I posted she'd have a heart attack.

I am friends with my brother and sister, but in general they don't give a fuck.

My cousin deleted me because of the contents of some of my posts.

I have blocked close relatives from seeing most of my pictures.

[CabbE30]

The person in your life that you share these experiences with will almost always hold a special place in your heart but it is only that. There is no need to revisit that just to mess up what you have now. It will not be the same as it was then. Enjoy your memories and respect and enjoy your current GF.

My father told me this awhile back. Some of the best advice.

Dont add her, it'll be another thing to worry about.

Oh & waiting for pics too.

[ohthejosh]

where is the hit it and quit it option?

[mrsleeve]

I see a pic request on post #3...

Ohh my bad I missed that.


and Vince I have no sister long lost or other wise

[Redfox]

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secondly, delete her for sure
you dont need a reasonf or your current gf to be like "HERP DERP BLEH DERP WHY IS SHE ADDING YOU HERP DERP BLEH"

This cracked me up for some reason.

I have all but 1 ex added and it's kinda just a civil "hey how you doing whats up with life" type of communication. If you're thinking about cheating I wouldn't add her, because it will lead to trouble. Don't throw a good girl and relationship you have away for reminiscing over an ex on facebook.

[Dean]

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[Dean]

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[LJ851]

EX looks like trouble, etc.