another whiny bitchy girl trouble thread! yay!

[devon.818]

you opened it, you can read it, talk shit or give advice, all good! just venting


anyways, i used to live in SoCal when i was in HS, was always close to this one girl, we dated back then, i fucked it up...it happens lol. i live in maryland now, but we still talk all the time, pretty much the only girl i've stayed friends with after breaking up with. i mean, she's a badass chick, will punch you in the face then deepthroat your cock to say sorry! yeah i know, awesome right!

basically i'd marry this girl if we lived in the same state, or same coast lol. she knows it, she has the feelings too. BUT she does have a BF, cool guy, i knew of him.

i finally told her the other night we can't talk anymore, partly because it hurts knowing we can't be together at the moment, and partly because if i were her man, i wouldn't really appreciate some asshole like myself talking to her.

so today i get home, got her package/xmas present, didn't want to open it, knew it was gonna be AWESOME, and it was. great letter, perfect gift and now i feel like a ass, again lol

but i still dont think i should call her or txt her. thanks r3v for listening.

flame suit ON
ps NO PICS OF HER(people prolly know her).

[cale]

There's a goalie in lots of sports, doesn't mean you can't score. If you can make it happen, forget the other guy and do it. Otherwise don't just screw up her life.

[slaterd]

Sounds like an 80s movie

[MrSlacker]

What did the letter say?

[LJ851]

This is a yes or no situation. either go 100% for her or check out. both of you deserve nothing less. Just dont do anything you will regret 10 years from now, you only have 1 life.

[dannyyisntt]

If you guys are serious then some tool won't stand in your way.

To balance the whiny portion of this thread, I feel the need to ask for pics of said deep throating, awesome chick. Regardless of you stating no pics.

[devon.818]

What did the letter say?

she used different song lyrics by blink to tell me some stuff.

and i like the go all in thing, buy a plane ticket and take her ass to vegas and make an honest woman out her, not a bad idea, could go either way showing up at her place lol.

leaving them alone? probably for the best, if we're gonna end up together, we will, if not...then good memories :)

[Pac1373]

Your desire for her is directly proportionate to the level to which she is unavailable.
she dumped you (as you f-ed it up) and you have a conquest drive to "re-capture"this woman.

drop her a line to thank her for the gift. it would be a dick move not to.

let her go, and don't look back. allow her life to go on, and yours.

[z31maniac]

Your desire for her is directly proportionate to the level to which she is unavailable.
she dumped you (as you f-ed it up) and you have a conquest drive to "re-capture"this woman.

drop her a line to thank her for the gift. it would be a dick move not to.

let her go, and don't look back. allow her life to go on, and yours.

[devon.818]

Your desire for her is directly proportionate to the level to which she is unavailable.
she dumped you (as you f-ed it up) and you have a conquest drive to "re-capture"this woman.

drop her a line to thank her for the gift. it would be a dick move not to.

let her go, and don't look back. allow her life to go on, and yours.

fuck! hate that this makes sense.

/thread lol

[TurboJake]

My advice?
Losing a friend over personal feelings such as this is rather foolish. I feel the same way about my best friend. Her name is Kate. It would be incredibly stupid for me to give up a great loving and caring relationship for the sake of me not being able to be with her.

It's incredibly, and undeniably selfish.

She's my best friend. I wish nothing but happiness for her. If her happiness involves me in her life, regardless of how. I will make damn sure that I am.

[VinniE30]

will punch you in the face then deepthroat your cock to say sorry!

That's sweet

[Cong405]

My advice?
Losing a friend over personal feelings such as this is rather foolish. I feel the same way about my best friend. Her name is Kate. It would be incredibly stupid for me to give up a great loving and caring relationship for the sake of me not being able to be with her.

It's incredibly, and undeniably selfish.

She's my best friend. I wish nothing but happiness for her. If her happiness involves me in her life, regardless of how. I will make damn sure that I am.

If he continues to be best "friend" with the chick, he may fuck shit up for the other guy. Home wrecking is such a douche move, even if you don't mean to but you know you're able to prevent it. Like OP said, if the shoe was on the other foot, he wouldn't like it.

You're dealt with a pretty troublesome hand here my friend. Play your cards right and who knows, shit may go your way later down the road.

Back to Pic please and what did she get you? :pimp:

[TurboJake]

Not necessarily. In the black and white yes, he could fuck shit up. But in the grey area of if the guy approves, or disapproves of their friendship. It's up to her to decide whether her current man is worth it, or not. The only douche move is to impose your feelings on their relationship.

My best friend is married to a really great guy. He knows our past, and couldn't care less really. I'm really happy that she has a great guy that she wants by her side, actually being there.

But, my situation is my situation. And may not apply. Just offering my advice.

[der affe]

Your desire for her is directly proportionate to the level to which she is unavailable.
she dumped you (as you f-ed it up) and you have a conquest drive to "re-capture"this woman.

drop her a line to thank her for the gift. it would be a dick move not to.

let her go, and don't look back. allow her life to go on, and yours.

this and you have said your peace, but you don't even live in the same state. don't be a whiney emo bitch and not be her friend anymore. if she is cool with you after you said what you said, then still be friends.

i have several female friends (with boyfriends) who have gotten drunk and told me they would date me if they were single (unsolicited comments, multiple times). my responce "well if you find yourself single, you know where i am"

if it happens, it happens, don't limit yourself waiting for it though. that is just stupid.