Girlfriend breaks up with you and two days later she hooks up with your best friend

[CW325]

Best thing iv heard in this entire thread..she still has feelings for me and I clearly still have feelings for her cuz I'd still be in the relationship if se didnt breakout with me..but at the same time she still kinda wants the feeling of being single..she's just gunna have to figure out what she wants more

Yea give her some time and figure out whats best for the both of you. I understand what it's like being with the same girl for over 2 years and its not easy to just give up and find someone else. Theres nothing wrong with giving her another chance if you feel she deserves it.

[miichaelsmith]

so after all this advice, what are you panning to do??? go back with her??

After all this..I'm going to do my own thing while she's figuring out her how stuff. If she really wants me back then well see how all of it plays out

[CW325]

After all this..I'm going to do my own thing while she's figuring out her how stuff. If she really wants me back then well see how all of it plays out

Sounds good

[miichaelsmith]

Sounds good

I thought so myself haha

[Desaevious]

Goddamn dude. Shit's unforgivable. She's 17. She has a few bullshit life stages in front of her: post high school, college, being able to drink in college, then being able to drink legally. She will make you wish you weren't with her at every one of those stages. Be a man, be over it.

[miichaelsmith]

How is someone just supposed to get over it just like that after spending every single day with a person for 2 1/2 years?

[VANOS714]

Good choice man!!

[smooth]

Regardless of whether you should get over it, a healthy relationship can withstand space. Space is healthy, it's a good opportunity for each person to figure out what he or she wants without the other person, wants with the other person, and gives each person the ability to define healthy boundaries.

So regardless of the long-term prospects of this relationship, whether it becomes more friendship oriented or partnership/sexual, if it's to become healthy then each of you will benefit from space and contemplation.


When you don't take space, even with a relationship that doesn't seem to be needing any adjustment (this is speaking to your statement about spending every day with one another), it doesn't allow each person to recognize what yourself is doing.

That means, it's easy to see what the other person is doing wrong or right, but it's difficult to see what you yourself is doing wrong or right and it's a benefit to take some time alone to reflect upon your own behavior. When the other person is removed from the equation it's more apparent what problems you are having irrespective of the other person's behavior.

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[devon.818]

michaelFAGFACE you are dumb as fuck!
she's gonna be getting slammed in every fucking whole as soon as the weekend rolls around. she looks like a ho, acts like a ho, and from what i hear....tastes like a ho!
dude, she's a ho.

have any of your friends slapped the shit out of you yet? if not, please please have them do so! you are making some poor choices buddy. this bitch is nothing but trouble.


p.s, if you had the maturity of a "30yr old", you wouldn't be with some slutty cum bucket minor.

just sayin'

[blunttech]

I cant believe youre not more upset with this girl. I think a good way to get back at her would be for you to fuck the guy she fucked. It wouldnt be gay because its a grudge fuck. Youre just having sex with a man.. At least think it over

[miichaelsmith]

michaelFAGFACE you are dumb as fuck!
she's gonna be getting slammed in every fucking whole as soon as the weekend rolls around. she looks like a ho, acts like a ho, and from what i hear....tastes like a ho!
dude, she's a ho.

have any of your friends slapped the shit out of you yet? if not, please please have them do so! you are making some poor choices buddy. this bitch is nothing but trouble.


p.s, if you had the maturity of a "30yr old", you wouldn't be with some slutty cum bucket minor.

just sayin'

Fuck you dude, you don't know her and you don't me. You don't know the full situation and for you to just assume that's she's such a slut and that she's going to fuck dudes all goddamn weekend shows how naive you are. I know her probably better then she does. I found out that my "friend" was following her all night at the party and eventually convinced her to. So you can go fuck yourself.

[Mr. Tasty]

Fuck you dude, you don't know her and you don't me. You don't know the full situation and for you to just assume that's she's such a slut and that she's going to fuck dudes all goddamn weekend shows how naive you are. I know her probably better then she does. I found out that my "friend" was following her all night at the party and eventually convinced her to. So you can go fuck yourself.

I can't tell if you are a troll, or just a fucking idiot.

[Mr. Burns]

The 18 year old brotalk 1.5 minute fuckmarathoners just got real.

Micheal, take it from the guys with wisdom. The old boys crowd, and that squeaktoy delicious Devon.

You're lonely, vulnerable and alone now. I've been there, even the local r3v supermodels have been there.

There is no "magic answer" here.

Time is your worst enemy, and your best friend right now.
Take all the time you need, and focus on one person. Spoil yourself, focus on yourself. You're the only person you'll be having a lifetime relationship with. She made a mistake, and shit wont be the same even if you waffleswaffleswaffleswaffleswaffles out and take her flappy meatcurtains back.

Go out, have fun, learn to love yourself. You don't need her manipulating you. You're worth it.

[devon.818]

Fuck you dude, you don't know her and you don't me. You don't know the full situation and for you to just assume that's she's such a slut and that she's going to fuck dudes all goddamn weekend shows how naive you are. I know her probably better then she does. I found out that my "friend" was following her all night at the party and eventually convinced her to. So you can go fuck yourself.

you're right i dont know you, but i know girls like her. closet sluts! they lie, just like her telling you your friend was stalking her, BS! she wanted it, she probably loved it.
and yes, she will be on her knees in the midst of every sports team at school come friday night, dont worry, she will be glazed in buckets of cum to keep her skin soft!

fuck myself? no thats her job