porn saves marriages

[previasc96]

"being married means seeing how long you can go... without that"- a Line from the American Pie movie. After dating for 4 years and being married for 2, I can say... yes, Marriage does mean that you must endure long periods of no sex. Periods that would've seemed unimaginable when you two were dating and fornicating ever chance possible LOL! I gave up porn (my former regular sex life: porn + right hand = daily nut achieved), when my wife (girlfriend at that time) was like "it's either the porn or me! make your choice!" Now a days I find myself digging into the files burried in the back of my mind that's still full of my favorite porn images and video clips...I miss it. As much as my wife would like to be the "I'll give you sex on demand becuz it's my job to keep my husband satisfied" type of wife, it doesn't always turn out that way.
So I googled "porn saved my marriage". Check out what one blog had:

Porn saves my marriage: My wife is everything I could want in a women expect for the fact she has a low sex drive. So instead of spending the rest of my life looking for the perfect women, I use porn to supplement my sex life and we have been happily married for 15 years.

Emily Yoffe: Thank you for pointing out a good way to compromise on mismatched sex drives and the benefits of porn. There's strange, widespread assumption that porn is the equivalent of cheating, and any porn-watching equals an obsession with porn.

what do you'all think of that dialogue? I feel guilty sometimes for missing porn, as I know it's morally wrong to support such an industry and my wife feels porn watching is the same as cheating.

[slammin.e28]

We watch porn together on the couch sometimes.

[German Audio Specialties]

Ugh...so happy to be single

[mamzak]

If your wife says porn or me....GTFO.

Don't hide it though, and just be upfront, say "look, I'm horny pretty frequently, and we aren't having sex frequent enough for me...therefore I use porn."

No it's not cheating or objectifying women, it's a visual stimulation to help you bust your nut...simple as that.

[evandael]

as long as it's not some weird pterodactyl or goetze shit, you should be able to watch as much porn as you want.

ffs, i really love my girlfriend but if this is what awaits me as a married man.. no thank you.

[slammin.e28]

Just put it on the computer and turn the volume up. She'll hear it and "cure what ails ya."

It's good for getting her in the mood if she'd not.

Also, I highly recommend getting the lady friends to read the 50 Shades of Grey books. If you're not getting laid enough before, you will after/while she reads them.

[mamzak]

Just put it on the computer and turn the volume up. She'll hear it and "cure what ails ya."

It's good for getting her in the mood if she'd not.

Also, I highly recommend getting the lady friends to read the 50 Shades of Grey books. If you're not getting laid enough before, you will after/while she reads them.

Ugh. hahaha not going to lie, after reading the synopsis on Wikipedia I hoped for that, but after she read them she said the books turned her off, and she was disgusted and creeped out by the controlling aspect of the characters relationship......

Feminists. :(

[slammin.e28]

Ugh. hahaha not going to lie, after reading the synopsis on Wikipedia I hoped for that, but after she read them she said the books turned her off, and she was disgusted and creeped out by the controlling aspect of the characters relationship......

Feminists. :(

I guess mine's opposite. I hope they come out with a 4th one....I really do.

[VANOS714]

You should give her hints like idk fap in the bathroom with the door open, so she can catch you on the scene of the crime.Then she'll realize that youre desperate for sex lol

Good luck.

[Thizzelle]

i had a GF that would buy me porn and one that thought it was the worst thing on earth, guess which one was religious? she actually thought it was cheating but there is no interaction between me and the girls so how is that cheating? Happy to be single now, I do what I want.

[slaterd]

I just told my girl, "be happy that I'm one of those guys that will take care of my own situation with porn instead of going out getting some strange." She seemed pretty satisfied about that answer.

[slammin.e28]

I just told my girl, "be happy that I'm one of those guys that will take care of my own situation with porn instead of going out getting some strange." She seemed pretty satisfied about that answer.

Hey! That's a good one!

Then you get the whole, "You don't love me! You fantasize about those girls!" bullshit.

[ieatpeople]

just tell her, "I'm doing this myself, because we're not doing it together. If this bothers you, feel free to lend a hand."

[slaterd]

Hey! That's a good one!

Then you get the whole, "You don't love me! You fantasize about those girls!" bullshit.

I've got that and I told her, "I don't fantasize about them, we men are very visual and it's a 'visual aid'. Those girls in there, I have no respect for them whatsoever. You are my fantasy because I respect you, you're gorgeous, and I love you. blah blah blah."
Instant panty dropper.
Feel free to write this shit down gentlemen.

[blunttech]

My wife caught me watching porn last year and was all disgusted. I dont think it was the "porn" in general but the man on man aspect I get off on