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  • nl328i
    E30 Addict
    • Aug 2010
    • 556

    #1

    Need to vent/ need advice.

    Hi guys,

    I am really frustrated about an online transaction and wanted to get your opinions on it. I want this handled in a mature professional manner, but I don't want to get screwed either.

    I am not going to use the actual name or info of the seller at this point. I actually came across his for sale ad on another BMW forum (not e30 specific).

    Here are the Facts:

    He had placed an ad for a couple of car parts, and that he was willing to ship. I contacted him and asked what the best price was he could do for shipping the parts to me in Canada. He got back to me and said that he wanted to "net" $100 for the parts, so it would be that price plus shipping. He further stated that there were two shipping options, $25.00 or $40.00 to Canada.

    I wrote back to him and stated that the cheapest was best for me (as I was not in need of the parts immediately). He agreed and the money was sent ($125) via paypal for goods.

    A few days later I had not received a tracking number, so I sent him another message asking if he had an opportunity to ship the parts yet. He responded that he had not, but shipping ended up being higher than he had originally quoted me, and he required that I send an additional $25 to cover the extra shipping.

    This was definitely a red flag, and I probably should have asked for a refund then and there. I reluctantly replied an stated that it sucked that he would ask me to eat that extra cost after he had quoted me the shipping price and I had already paid. However, I did not want him being put out either, so I decided to forward the additional $25. (now a total of $150.00)

    Yesterday I returned home to find a "missed delivery" notice from UPS. I was absolutely flabbergasted to see that in the C.O.D. fees section, it stated I owed $90.00 before they would release the package. Just as a reminder, I was only paying $100 for the parts! I have not yet mentioned, but these parts are small and light. I actually would have thought that they could fit in a padded envelope, so this was all seeming very strange to me.

    I immediately called UPS to figure this out. They informed me that the sender had elected for "split shipping", whereby he pays to have the package arrive at the Canadian border. At which point a broker takes over for the rest of the delivery, and the receiver would cover the cost of that from the border to the receiving address. w.t.f.

    They also stated that included in that fee was the tax to be paid on the purchase price that the sender had submitted to them. Out of curiosity I asked if they had that information on file. They did. It turns out that the sender had arbitrarily decided to tell UPS that the purchase price for the parts was $200USD??. So I had to pay taxes and fees on that value, rather than the $100.00 that I actually paid.

    I emailed the sender after getting off the phone, outlining what I have written herein. He said that he was surprised as I am as he had paid to have the item shipped to my address.

    He told me that I have two options. (I believe I have many options, not limited to those suggested by him, for the record)

    1. He will refund me the purchase price plus half of the shipping costs, less half of the paypal fees. (while this seems to be a somewhat reasonable solution, I don't believe that I should be out any money from all this, and I have a sneaky suspicion/worry that he will renege on that once I refuse the package.)

    2. That I pay the extra 90.00 and get the package, as he still sees this as a good deal (I certainly do not, and from my research I am already paying top dollar for what it is). Regardless, I did not agree to this new price.

    Any advice/input is appreciated. I mostly just needed to vent haha.

    Cheers
    1976 2002, 1987 325is, s50 1991 touring, 1996 328i vert

  • brianao34
    Mod Crazy
    • Jun 2010
    • 660

    #2
    That's flat out ridiculous. I've had great experience with Paypal and filing disputes.
    I recently had a guy sell me a "Mishimoto" radiator and when it got here it was blatantly obvious it wasn't real.
    So, I emailed Mishimoto some pictures and they verified it was not and sent that to Paypal and boom all my money's back in my account.

    I would not pick the package up, but get some sort of record that the package was sent but had additional shipping fees and let Paypal handle it.

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    • Jorgen
      Grease Monkey
      • Aug 2011
      • 320

      #3
      Take it up with paypal, may be an issue that he has tracking but put all the information in there.
      2011 JGC daily, 1985 944

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      • Mr. Burns
        No R3VLimiter
        • Aug 2011
        • 3516

        #4
        I've been duped by brokerage fees aswell with UPS.

        FROWN ON BROWN.
        Originally posted by flyboyx
        i have watched my dog lick himself off a few times

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        • nl328i
          E30 Addict
          • Aug 2010
          • 556

          #5
          Issue has been resolved, albeit not satisfactory to either side i'm sure.

          He wrote me back and said we should just chalk this up as a learning experience for the both of us... I had nothing to do with arranging shipping, so, I don't really get that comment, unless my lesson is to not trust online transactions (i've only had great experiences otherwise, like Markert Motorworks, ECS, BMP Parts, etc).

          He said that it is going to cost money to have the package sent back to him, so he said I can refuse it and then he will refund me some money once he gets it back, amount to be determined.

          Ha.

          So, unfortunately I had to give him one of two options, 1. refund all of my money or paypal would be contacted, or, Pay $50 towards the additional fee and we would call it a day.

          He elected for the 50 bucks. I think a somewhat reasonable resolution given the circumstances.
          1976 2002, 1987 325is, s50 1991 touring, 1996 328i vert

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          • brianao34
            Mod Crazy
            • Jun 2010
            • 660

            #6
            Still ridiculous, but glad you're content with the resolution.

            From enthusiast to enthusiast we should be willing to compromise more. If it were Craigslist though with some knucklehead I'd expect something like this.

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            • Smelser
              Mod Crazy
              • Feb 2011
              • 633

              #7
              You have to watch out for HST and brokerage fees. May e just GST in the east coast. Thumbs up to a company called CBI here in Niagara Falls NY. Get your item shipped to the warehouse 6 blocks from the border. Cross in your car. Pay 5 bucks per package and drive them home. Let customs decide if you need to pay tax. NO BROKERAGE fees at all. Broker fees a a legal scam!! Fight the system!!
              Last edited by Smelser; 03-05-2013, 11:16 AM. Reason: Damn iPhones.

              sigpic1984 318i Total conversion to a DIRT race car.
              Check out our build on facebook @ www.facebook.com/brewstermotorsports

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              • SubDad
                Wrencher
                • Oct 2012
                • 279

                #8
                I've been duped by brokerage fees aswell with UPS.
                Yes, indeed, as a private party avoid UPS for cross-border shipping.

                If you're not in a hurry for parts use the US Postal Service. It's worked for me three times this winter. I've learned that you have to ask for... the service below express... called 'expedited' in Canada.

                As a Canadian, I'd say this was indeed a learning experience for both you and the seller. I don't think he tried to stiff you - he doesn't make more money off the UPS brokerage.

                For those of us who live close to the border getting it shipped close to the border and going and picking it up is the best for getting boxes fast. (I recognize that the closest international border to NFLD is the border with St. Pierre et Miquelon, France - maybe get your stuff from France?)

                Don't blame the seller, how was he to know? Most Americans view of the world stops short of Montana or upper NY, let alone Newfoundland.

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                • Pac1373
                  E30 Mastermind
                  • Feb 2008
                  • 1746

                  #9
                  UPS is the absolute worst ltl service into Canada, the brokerage rates they charge are more akin to anal gang rape than extortion. I learned this cold hard lesson on a $200 set of plastic bumpers that cost me $450 to land.

                  Never,never UPS.
                  Originally Posted by ACMF74
                  i clicked on this cuz i saw p3nis

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                  • mr ilia
                    E30 Addict
                    • May 2011
                    • 582

                    #10
                    use USPS only

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                    • e30austin
                      I waste 90% of my day here and all I got was this stupid title
                      • Sep 2010
                      • 15382

                      #11
                      What a tool bag. I'd tell him to eat a dick and refund your money. I hate people.


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