Ever been 'The other guy'?

[deutschman]

Yes.
Back in high school. Its actually how I lost my virginity lol
Was on a class trip doing comunity service in Mexico working with some natives to build a farmers market. Hooked up with my x a few times.
Her BF at the time was a real nasty dude from Oakland CA. Big ugly fat Mexican guy. He called me a few weeks later and told me he was going to come kick my ass with some friends. I said sure, Ill bring my friends, it will be fun. He never showed up.
he was a real weird dude. Told my x he would kill him self if she ever broke up with him, and made her delete all her social media profiles. She went off the grid for a while and "poped" back up about two years ago. Still friends with her. Shes a super lady.
It didnt care because I hated the guy she was with. How ever a felt bad that our sleeping around resulted in her getting even deeper into an abusive relationship.

Anyways... Cool story brow

[z31maniac]

Those of you "stole" your girl from someone else.......

Why would ever trust them?

[dele30]

^ this

[acolella76]

Only once, and not intentionally!

I actually don't think I've told this story to anyone yet. So here goes! One night I decided to have a couple people over, just my normal group of friends plus a couple of girls that I knew. We all start to get a few drinks in us and of the girls is really pushing me to drink more. Normally when my friends do this, it is because they want to get me so shitfaced that I puke out of every orifice. I didn't really think anything of her telling me to drink more, so I did what any red blooded American would do: drank more!

As I get drunker she gets more attractive, so once everyone leaves or passes out we go up to my bedroom. We fucked in my bed for I don't know how long, and that is the last thing that I remember. At 4:30am I awoke to find myself completely naked lying horizontally in my bed with the girl still asleep next to (err... under) me. I heard a car outside in my driveway which I assumed was just someone going home, until I broke my post-drunk daze and realized that there was a dude ringing the SHIT out of my doorbell. This is when the girl wakes up and says "oh shit, that's my boyfriend.." So I'm all "what the fuck get out of my house". So I showed her out, didn't talk to the boyfriend nor did I care to.

I was making my way back upstairs to my room when I noticed that the house was humming. I had no idea what was going on, I thought that I was about to be abducted by aliens or something insane. As I walk towards my room I could tell that it was getting louder. While the threat of anal probing is lessening, I was still unsure what the noise was. Until I opened the drawer to my nightstand. There was a god damn vibrator the size of my forearm in my nightstand, still running and making the whole god damn house vibrate. I didn't know what to do with it so I just kind of tossed it at the dude's car as he was pulling out of my driveway. He actually got out of the car, picked it up, got back in and drove off! haha

So yeah that's about it. I found out the next day that the girl I was with didn't drink a DROP of alcohol that night, and she was making me drink to 'loosen me up' if you will. I still have no idea who the boyfriend is/was, I haven't talked to that girl since, and I think I was raped. It was a pretty interesting night.

[pawi30]

she PIITB dude ^

[acolella76]

Ignorance is bliss I suppose, but I'm pretty sure I would have needed a wheelchair afterwards if she did. Not even kidding about that things size. If her boyfriend had been a robber I could have bludgeoned him to death with it.

[Cephas]

and I think I was raped.

Cool starry bra

[shameson]

I sure have

My last gf did that to me. She was a friend of the girl my buddy was seeing. Originally there was a third girl who hung out with us that I kinda tried to get with but didnt work. So I started to talking to the other girl and we hit it off. After two months of having a thing, we finally started "officially" dating. Was with her for about 7-8 months. During that time she had this guy that was a neighbor of her grandma that she met when she would go visit AZ. She had known him a few months before meeting me. She would text him a couple times a week, sometimes even when we hung out. Talk to her about it multiple times. One day found a picture of him shirtless on her phone (fag thought he was hot shit). Bout blew my top and confronted her about it. She lied to my face saying she didnt have one. Later she tried to apologize about it. At that point things went downhill. Ended up breaking up. I found out through my buddies girl that her and the other dude were in love via a long distance deal even though she claimed how much she loved me. Had been with him the entire time me and her were together. She went to visit her g-ma once for spring break in AZ and I had an idea she was hanging with him the entire time.

In the end, she moved to AZ but they ended up with domestic violence charges and are no longer together. At least during that time I got pu$$y while he couldnt

[Exodus_2pt0]

Any man who knowingly gets with a woman in a relationship should hold their head in shame.

"Oh but I didn't MAKE the girl do me!"

Whatever helps you sleep at night. If you wish to hold your head high, maybe you should have told her she needed to break it off before anything happened.

Never cheated, been cheated on, would NOT bang a girl who's in a relationship.

[george graves]

Also, don't forget about karma.

+1 Take responsibility for your place in the situation.

If you're 20-ish years old, and messing around with stuff like that....You're gonna have a bad time.

[Cephas]

Any man who knowingly gets with a woman in a relationship should hold their head in shame.

"Oh but I didn't MAKE the girl do me!"

Whatever helps you sleep at night. If you wish to hold your head high, maybe you should have told her she needed to break it off before anything happened.

Truth. Never been cheated on and have never cheated. Most of these stories involve willfull ignorance. I enjoy living life with my eyes wide open to reality whenever I can.

If a girl texts another guy when she's with you...well you're an idiot for staying with her at all. If she goes to her grandmothers house and you know she knows some dude out there...you're an idiot for staying with her. And so on.

[Cletonius]

Those of you "stole" your girl from someone else.......

Why would ever trust them?

I didn't steal my wife, she left her fiancé of her own accord before she approached me. Apparently meeting me in college was enough to make her question her relationship and end it. Everything is in the open, and our relationship has parameters that work for us. We've been married for 8 years, no trust issues. I have no fear she could walk away, and unless she's been untruthful for over a decade I have a feeling I'll be OK. Obviously this is different for everyone.

[shameson]

Truth. Never been cheated on and have never cheated. Most of these stories involve willfull ignorance. I enjoy living life with my eyes wide open to reality whenever I can.

If a girl texts another guy when she's with you...well you're an idiot for staying with her at all. If she goes to her grandmothers house and you know she knows some dude out there...you're an idiot for staying with her. And so on.

We all make dumb decisions. When it comes to woman guys do stupid things, don't act like you haven't. Part of life is learning from that and adjusting. This was a couple years ago and Im very much different now so I'm happier with myself for that

[AdironRider]

Well you can sure tell who are the adults and who are the children in this thread.

[Dozyproductions]

Never have done it even unknowingly because I'm perfect.