Ever been 'The other guy'?

[Vtec?lol]

Was in an LDR with a girl for lil bit over a year. Would come visit her every month, blowing a grand or so each time (stupid young love shit; I was 17 at the time). She had an ex who she could never seem to stop talking to. Everytime we were hanging out, she was just texting nonstop on her phone to him. Yet everytime I'd text her while I wasn't there, it'd take hours for a response. I had to be kept a secret, she said it was b.c her parents didn't want her dating. Ate that one right up, along with all the other lies that she told me. I knew something was off but I just ignored it.

Finally come to find out, that ex she had, wasn't really an ex. They were still in a relationship and the whole time, she'd been cheating on him with me. And then all the shadiness and lying made sense. Feels bad man

But yea, fuck all that noise. I learned an unnecessarily expensive lesson with that one. Sometimes I'll think about it and get a bit heated thinking about how all that money could've had me in an e30 m3 or at least padded my bank account while buying quite a few mods as well. But the experience taught me a ton in terms of relationships, so I guess I didn't come out that empty handed

lololol You should've left when you first heard about it. It's all on you bro. ;)

Yes, and I fucking won.

My wife was engaged when I met her; she left her fiancé for me.

Congrats... That sucks

I dated a girl. She is on the Idaho Stampede dance team.

http://www.nba.com/dleague/idaho/stampede_dance_team.html

Then I left for a few months. Came back and she was dating a so so friend of mine. Well I got back and went over to see her, not knowing that she was with this douche bag who likes 80's camaros.

We are in her apartment, things start steaming up and we take a shower and I think I hear something. Like the faint sound of a door closing....

5 seconds later the shower curtain is ripped off and the guy is trying to fight me. So I beat the shit out of him with the flowers he brought for this girl.

wait. no I shove him a few times out the door of the bathroom and then put my cloths on.

Seriously awkward. Why didn't she tell me he had a key :loco:

I was out of there quick.

This is terrible! Was he really trying to fight you?
I have no idea why anyone would attack anyone over cheating. Even if it was with someone you knew.

Those of you "stole" your girl from someone else.......

Why would ever trust them?

Good question

Only once, and not intentionally!

I actually don't think I've told this story to anyone yet. So here goes! One night I decided to have a couple people over, just my normal group of friends plus a couple of girls that I knew. We all start to get a few drinks in us and of the girls is really pushing me to drink more. Normally when my friends do this, it is because they want to get me so shitfaced that I puke out of every orifice. I didn't really think anything of her telling me to drink more, so I did what any red blooded American would do: drank more!

As I get drunker she gets more attractive, so once everyone leaves or passes out we go up to my bedroom. We fucked in my bed for I don't know how long, and that is the last thing that I remember. At 4:30am I awoke to find myself completely naked lying horizontally in my bed with the girl still asleep next to (err... under) me. I heard a car outside in my driveway which I assumed was just someone going home, until I broke my post-drunk daze and realized that there was a dude ringing the SHIT out of my doorbell. This is when the girl wakes up and says "oh shit, that's my boyfriend.." So I'm all "what the fuck get out of my house". So I showed her out, didn't talk to the boyfriend nor did I care to.

I was making my way back upstairs to my room when I noticed that the house was humming. I had no idea what was going on, I thought that I was about to be abducted by aliens or something insane. As I walk towards my room I could tell that it was getting louder. While the threat of anal probing is lessening, I was still unsure what the noise was. Until I opened the drawer to my nightstand. There was a god damn vibrator the size of my forearm in my nightstand, still running and making the whole god damn house vibrate. I didn't know what to do with it so I just kind of tossed it at the dude's car as he was pulling out of my driveway. He actually got out of the car, picked it up, got back in and drove off! haha

So yeah that's about it. I found out the next day that the girl I was with didn't drink a DROP of alcohol that night, and she was making me drink to 'loosen me up' if you will. I still have no idea who the boyfriend is/was, I haven't talked to that girl since, and I think I was raped. It was a pretty interesting night.

This is just an all around great post. LMAO!

+1 Take responsibility for your place in the situation.

If you're 20-ish years old, and messing around with stuff like that....You're gonna have a bad time.

PREACH!!!!!

Truth. Never been cheated on and have never cheated. Most of these stories involve willfull ignorance. I enjoy living life with my eyes wide open to reality whenever I can.

If a girl texts another guy when she's with you...well you're an idiot for staying with her at all. If she goes to her grandmothers house and you know she knows some dude out there...you're an idiot for staying with her. And so on.

CHUYCH!!!!

Well you can sure tell who are the adults and who are the children in this thread.

Amen!

[mulletman]

Banging a man's significant other just because she will let you is like stealing his E30 just because you can.

In other words, serious scumbag move which displays a considerable shortage of integrity.

[AdironRider]

Banging a man's significant other just because she will let you is like stealing his E30 just because you can.

In other words, serious scumbag move which displays a considerable shortage of integrity.

Especially when 99% of the justification is "oh well hes a douche".

Right....

[mulletman]

Especially when 99% of the justification is "oh well hes a douche".

Right....

Right. If he actually is a douche, then there are three douches involved in the situation. If he's a nice guy, then there are only two.

[der affe]

Don't do it, besides being a supreme dick move, it could lead to physical harm to yourself if you get caught by the other guy.

In today's age of hiding behind a key board safely slinging insults, you forget about reality. If you push the wrong buttons on someone, it could lead to GBH or worse.

Karma will also pay you back in spades for being a dickwad like that. Also if it lead to something, could you REALLY ever trust the whore? NOPE!

I will give you a real life example.
I guy I worked with "stole" his current (@that time) wife from another guy, her husband.
They end up getting married for 5 years I think. One friday, he comes home, she is gone along with her shit and HIS dog! Like a bad country song!

She tried to get half of his house in the divorce too.

[Stanley Rockafella]

those of you "stole" your girl from someone else.......

Why would ever trust them?

+1

[Court M3]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yEOuiDY-LWY

Seriously why would you try to wife someone that cheated on her husband?

[MR E30 325is]

Banging a man's significant other just because she will let you is like stealing his E30 just because you can.

In other words, serious scumbag move which displays a considerable shortage of integrity.

Definitely agreed.

I personally never bring myself to even try and get close to a girl that is in a relationship.

Just doesn't feel right man.

[einhander]

No judgement, just recount your expeirences you may have had.

No because you're probably not the reason she is with you.

Or, in X1ATC's case, the reason he is with you.

[AwakenNoMore]

Had my ex-fiancé leave me for one of my friends. (Had a history of jumping from friend to friend should have never bothered). After that I became the other guy and took a friend's girl (he moved out of state and she didn't want to leave, oops). Sort of a self fulfilling prophecy deal I suppose. Been single for over a year now. Don't know where to take things from here.

[Emre]

There was a woman I didn't know very well, but I used to see her frequently. Very attractive. We started seeing each other. After we'd been together a while (maybe a month or two), I asked her what her plans were for the weekend.

Her: "I'm spending the weekend with my boyfriend's family."
Me: "I didn't invite you to visit my family. Besides, they're away this weekend."
Her: "No, not you. My fiancé."
Me:
Her:
Me:

That was the end of that. I'm not cool with cheating. She ended up marrying the guy. Poor SOB.

[E30nub1]

I n a similar situation now...(all sorts of fucked up so sit back...) *reserved for when I am at my computer and can type*

[acolella76]

Wow. Lots of white knights ITT. I'm not okay with cheating, but there is a difference between intentionally trying to get with a girl who you know is in a relationship and a girl not telling you that she had a boyfriend.

[mrsleeve]

if they will do it with ya............................................ they will do it TOO YOU

Integrity is important, sadly seems to be getting rare. This thread is in many ways is good example of that fact.

[z31maniac]

I didn't steal my wife, she left her fiancé of her own accord before she approached me. Apparently meeting me in college was enough to make her question her relationship and end it. Everything is in the open, and our relationship has parameters that work for us. We've been married for 8 years, no trust issues. I have no fear she could walk away, and unless she's been untruthful for over a decade I have a feeling I'll be OK. Obviously this is different for everyone.

Previous page you said she was still engaged?

I couldn't care less, I just find it interesting.