Girlfriend Cheated on me...

[Jeff2886]

Shit dude that sucks. Definitely cut ties and move on. I find automotive retail therapy always helps :D

I can thanks my exgirlfriends for my stereo system, race car, roll bar, shit...my HOUSE..

Just a few things ;)

Also - go play a game of "swipe right" on Tinder. Carpet bomb the shit out of the online dating world. It's shallow but in most cases it does help haha.

[slammin.e28]

wasn't he the guy that dated his daughter Sparkles?

He always had some bang up relationship advice though.

Also, whuuuuuut

[Mr. Burns]

Where is Der Affe when you need him?!

wasn't he the guy that dated his daughter Sparkles?

[jalopi]

sloots gonn sloot man. but if she tries to make contact make sure when she texts you reply back with "who is this"

How did noone else catch that reference?

Regardless, OP, words to live by. The ratio of cheating whores vs good girls out there is surprisingly disproportionate.

I'll still agree with some previous posters though - wait like, a week, then pretend to forgive her or some shit. Go ass to mouth on her, on film, then get that shit online before your state makes revenge porn illegal

[E30HV]

Red flag you only know of 2!! There might be more. My concern is that relationships are based on trust. Trust is the solid foundation in a relationship and I hope you are not damage by this experience.
My advice to you is that if you ever meet another girl DO NOT let this experience ruin your chance to settle down in the future. I think she (future girl) deserves the right to know about your experience. Also, watch out you don’t develop a pattern were you don’t trust girls you meet, your going to become someone your gonna hate later on. How long were you guys together? Did she have a reputation?

[15Michaeljoseph]

Where are you going to meet 5 new women each day? Share these secrets!!

Yeah I'm curious too. Our trunks only fit 3 at a time....


--Mike

[Stanley Rockafella]

Where are you going to meet 5 new women each day? Share these secrets!!

dude, ya gotta be pretty lame if you don't see the opportunities around you. Hawt chics are all over the place. You just gotta be creative how ya chat 'em up ;D

[Exodus_2pt0]

Yea, I'd say there's no salvaging this one. If it is an isolated incident I am one that believes that depending on the circumstances, some things can be overcome.

But playing 3 people at the same time? Where's that nope train drawing?

Also, revenge doesn't make you feel any better. What will is as stated before, take the moral high road. It is the most rewarding course of action.


Also, if this was a long relationship, you're best off just cutting all ties. Been there done that, if you don't make the cut quick and clean you might just find yourself back in the stupid fucking circle.

[slammin.e28]

Where is Der Affe when you need him?!

[g.ruff561]

"try to move on"?????? Bro hit the gas and pop the clutch. Don't try to move on. Move on and on and on.............. Good advice here. Just want to put this out there... Killing her is not an option. However you can go to a rent-a-girl store and cry your eyes out while getting blown off.

Hope this helps....... G.

[BobombETA]

I always suspected my ex of cheating on me. She never admitted to it, but the evidence was pretty damning. Once the trust is broken it's over, trust me you can't salvage this. Hopefully you're not living together or sharing the same circle of friends, and like others said, at least you didn't marry/baby mama her.

On the bright side, it's summer and you're a single dude. Go be selfish. Spend time and money on yourself (and the e30). Having a hobby or three will definitely help this process. I learned how to golf lol... Accomplish something. This is a fresh start.

And revenge.. eh, that's your choice. Personally I wouldn't spend an ounce of effort on anything related to her. Plus it just adds fuel to the fire. I say take the high rode man.

[Mr. Burns]

I have a memory like an elephant.

and I remember you posting about a year ago trying to help your GF attain a higher end BMW with her budget of 14K.

http://www.r3vlimited.com/board/showthread.php?t=337956

sounds like she's ALWAYS wanted to have her cake and eat it too....for cheap.

but i'm not one to judge.

I'm terribly sorry you're going through this. it's going to sting for awhile.
Like others have said, cut ties. and focus on yourself for awhile.
summer has JUST begun.

[Reichart12]

To accomplish this, each day you engage 5 new and different women in sincere conversation.

Where are you going to meet 5 new women each day? Share these secrets!!

[blizake500]

Thanks for all the great comments. I'm going to try and move on. I have never been cheated on so I'm just shocked. Can't believe it.

[FL318is]

Better a gf than your wife. Now you can begin fresh. I suggest the approach of the auto be employed here.

That being the number 5. Cultivate relationships with 5 women. Whether you bed them or not is up to your taste and skill set. To accomplish this, each day you engage 5 new and different women in sincere conversation. (Do not bitch about the ex!) Every day 5. Could be women you would never date. Point is to move in to the "art of" enviroment.

Develop your listening and conversation strengths. Progress to a point where you actually have the option of "dating" 5 of them. Now bear in mind, these women must share your interest. Not that one woman needs to share ALL of your interest but rather each one could share part of your interest. One for cars, another for music, etc.

Enjoy them for fun. Then when you have 5 and one goes flat you will have a spare. Replace the spare as needed.

Good hunting sir!

I recommend nurses, hotel staff and college students. Don't get seriously involved, instead, have fun. WWBD? What Would Bond Do?