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bmwman91's advice is literally the best.
If this relationship meant anything to you, you should be more disgusted and pissed more than anything else.
Cut off all ties including social media, move on, and cut the cancer off - there's no simpler way. As mentioned, you can never trust her again.
Just think about it - this is pretty ultimate. There isn't anything more extreme someone can do than to cheat on you like this. Cut it off completely.
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Better a gf than your wife. Now you can begin fresh. I suggest the approach of the auto be employed here.
That being the number 5. Cultivate relationships with 5 women. Whether you bed them or not is up to your taste and skill set. To accomplish this, each day you engage 5 new and different women in sincere conversation. (Do not bitch about the ex!) Every day 5. Could be women you would never date. Point is to move in to the "art of" enviroment.
Develop your listening and conversation strengths. Progress to a point where you actually have the option of "dating" 5 of them. Now bear in mind, these women must share your interest. Not that one woman needs to share ALL of your interest but rather each one could share part of your interest. One for cars, another for music, etc.
Enjoy them for fun. Then when you have 5 and one goes flat you will have a spare. Replace the spare as needed.
Good hunting sir!
I recommend nurses, hotel staff and college students. Don't get seriously involved, instead, have fun. WWBD? What Would Bond Do?
sounds like she's ALWAYS wanted to have her cake and eat it too....for cheap.
but i'm not one to judge.
I'm terribly sorry you're going through this. it's going to sting for awhile.
Like others have said, cut ties. and focus on yourself for awhile.
summer has JUST begun.
Originally posted by flyboyx
i have watched my dog lick himself off a few times
I always suspected my ex of cheating on me. She never admitted to it, but the evidence was pretty damning. Once the trust is broken it's over, trust me you can't salvage this. Hopefully you're not living together or sharing the same circle of friends, and like others said, at least you didn't marry/baby mama her.
On the bright side, it's summer and you're a single dude. Go be selfish. Spend time and money on yourself (and the e30). Having a hobby or three will definitely help this process. I learned how to golf lol... Accomplish something. This is a fresh start.
And revenge.. eh, that's your choice. Personally I wouldn't spend an ounce of effort on anything related to her. Plus it just adds fuel to the fire. I say take the high rode man.
"try to move on"?????? Bro hit the gas and pop the clutch. Don't try to move on. Move on and on and on.............. Good advice here. Just want to put this out there... Killing her is not an option. However you can go to a rent-a-girl store and cry your eyes out while getting blown off.
Yea, I'd say there's no salvaging this one. If it is an isolated incident I am one that believes that depending on the circumstances, some things can be overcome.
But playing 3 people at the same time? Where's that nope train drawing?
Also, revenge doesn't make you feel any better. What will is as stated before, take the moral high road. It is the most rewarding course of action.
Also, if this was a long relationship, you're best off just cutting all ties. Been there done that, if you don't make the cut quick and clean you might just find yourself back in the stupid fucking circle.
No E30 Club
Originally posted by MrBurgundy
Anyways, mustangs are gay and mini vans are faster than your car, you just have to deal with that.
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