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    Room mate/ dog deposit question

    I have a conundrum here.

    I'm 6 months into a year long lease with 4 other room mates @ a house. Our landlord said that there's a $300 dog deposit.


    Me: no dogs
    Room mate 2: she has a dog, takes it with her where ever she goes and she's never home.
    Room mate 3: watched his parents dog for one week
    Room mate 4: just moved in and has a dog
    Room mate 5: Has 2 dogs over 3-5 days at a time with perhaps 1-3 days break at a time. One of those dogs is his GF's and of course she stays over as much as her dog does. Her dog is there 75% of time out of the month.

    We've been skirting on the issue and been living without paying the deposit for the last 6 months. Room mate 5 is about to move out, by October, because his GF doesn't like it. She's like Wormtongue.

    Our landlord came by today and gave us ample notice and time to pick up the dog shit in the backyard. Of course they didn't do that. Most of the dog shit was room mate #5's GF's dog's shit (enough ''''?) with the other being room mate #4's. I hid dog #4 but didn't realize #5 GF's dog was there. After the landlord saw all the dog shit in the yard and dog #5 just walking around, he demanded that we payed deposit.

    I texted both room mate 4,5 that they both need to split the deposit. #5 refuses to pay anything because he claims that he doesn't want to put anymore money into a house that he's on his way out of plus I think room mate #4 doesn't want conflict and is willing to swallow the $300.

    My question is what is the proper resolution of conflict?

    My idea was just the dog deposit being split between the two people who have and will have their dogs here the most. (#4,5) Have the dog deposit seperate from the rest of the house deposit. In the end what ever is left will be split between the 2. Room mate #5 has lived here for 6 months with 2 dogs without paying anything. All of a sudden the landlord sees his GF's dog and it's shit all over and demands a deposit. So it would be fair that room mate #4 would pay the other half for the next 6 months.

    #2
    What's the problem, it's a deposit. Fork out the money once, get it back if you clean up. Sounds like your biggest problem maker (#5 + GF) is moving out so no sense collecting a deposit "retroactively" if they won't be around while the deposit is in effect.


    Keep it slideways!!

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      #3
      If I was roommate 4 I wouldn't pay a dime over 150. Roommate 4 doesn't have a dog that's shitting every where and didn't get you guys caught. So I think roommate 5 should pay the 300 for getting you guys busted and then after that split the cost. But that me being me and I'm an asshole when it comes to money.


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        #4
        Originally posted by Axxe View Post
        What's the problem, it's a deposit. Fork out the money once, get it back if you clean up. Sounds like your biggest problem maker (#5 + GF) is moving out so no sense collecting a deposit "retroactively" if they won't be around while the deposit is in effect.
        And we let the whole not charging him extra for his GF living there thing go because of it. He's on his way out and what's 1 more shouting match. But his argument was that this was a long time coming. Well of course this was a long time coming... because of him! We know this guy, we're all friends here. He's moving back to his parents house (he's 27) and we know all about that. They've been giving him $500 a month even while he's been earning over $50,000 a year. He can afford the $150 that he caused... Give me something better to go off on.

        Originally posted by ThatOneEuroE30 View Post
        If I was roommate 4 I wouldn't pay a dime over 150. Roommate 4 doesn't have a dog that's shitting every where and didn't get you guys caught. So I think roommate 5 should pay the 300 for getting you guys busted and then after that split the cost. But that me being me and I'm an asshole when it comes to money.
        I agree with you here for at least half the deposit. RM #4 wouldn't have to pay any if it wasn't for his GF that none of us want, let alone her dog.

        Example) What if he disposed some, still burning, used coals into our city trash can and had it catch on fire. This situation is similar to him demanding us to pay for his share for the replacement since he's leaving.

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          #5
          Roommate #5 sounds like a bit of a douche. Personally, although I think he should pay the whole $300, I doubt he'll go for that, and it wouldn't be entirely fair since he's not the only one with a dog, so I'd try to get him to split it 50/50 between himself and RM #4.

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            #6
            Why doesn't rommie #4 pay 150 (his half) and the rest of you pay $50/ea and celebrate the asshole moving out? Being proactive and looking toward better times without his worthless ass. Seems like that would be the easiest thing to do. Even if it doesn't seem fair, it's worth it to move on and be done.

            As stated above, deposits are refundable so it doesn't make sense to have #5 put money into something he'd have a hard time claiming, especially with him leaving


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              #7
              Originally posted by Das Delfin View Post
              Why doesn't rommie #4 pay 150 (his half) and the rest of you pay $50/ea and celebrate the asshole moving out? Being proactive and looking toward better times without his worthless ass. Seems like that would be the easiest thing to do. Even if it doesn't seem fair, it's worth it to move on and be done.

              As stated above, deposits are refundable so it doesn't make sense to have #5 put money into something he'd have a hard time claiming, especially with him leaving
              Thank you. It's too easy, and fun, to get mad so thank you for that step back.

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                #8
                Do what ever is most easy. $300 isn't worth losing friends over.

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                  #9
                  Get cats because dogs suck.
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                    #10
                    Get a dog and split the deposit because dogs are awesome.
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                      #11
                      Thanks guys. We ended up splitting the dog so we'd all feel obligated. It was delicious...


                      We're taking a chunk of the dog deposit out of his room's deposit. He'll get over it when he ends up living away from his parents again. :(

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