i think im going to vomit (divorce content)

[LBJefferies]

life is one curveball after another...

Yeah and women are like knuckleballs.

I am pretty confident and laid back but if there is one thing that just drives me up the wall, it is women.

[joshh]

Good luck on this.

Time will heal. But don't be afraid to enter yourself into another relashionship.

[lennon]

a bunch of fucking idiots on here as evident from their comments on relationships.

[lennon]

been exactly where you are. its rough. nothing changes even after a year has past. it might even be worse. posting on r3v about it is a weird idea though.

[jeff_b]

All that's left to do is murder her....

What he said . . .

[jrhaile]

All that's left to do is murder her....

[mcr_driver]

life is one curveball after another...best of luck i hope your wife realizes the love is there...

May i ask if not too person how long you've been married to her? Been with her period?

I know when my gf and i turned 5 years just recently we got into a bad bad rut and we're still trying to climb out of it. Sometimes stuff like that happen for a good reason

[ThreeTwentyFissel]

Damn, no one can ever expect shit like this to happen to them!

[bikerbill2021]

sucks to hear man, ive been there, and its not fun

my last relationship basically ended this way. it was all butterflies and puppy love at first, then she started thinking i didnt care about her anymore b/c the "new love" feeling had worn off, and cheated on me.

it sucks man, but at least your keeping your head above water and moving on. it just wasnt meant to be

[whysimon]

it's raining in Nashville again

[M-technik-3]

Mine is gone done but I still have contact with her due to my kids live her. We are much more civil and tolerant of each other now. Do I want her back after 18 months? NO Yeah feel emo about her now and then, but it's definitely better. I'm not in the poor house 24/7 now.

Time!

Glad to hear your getting better, I have the sticker BTDT won't do it again.

[Turf1600]

I was pretty close to this situation last week. It was pretty scary.

[ThaiRacer]

I take all my friends on a cruise after they have a bad break up. 7 days later that old hag is forgotten and they're getting checked for an STD.

http://www.singlescruise.com/pages/Home.aspx

lol thats funny but yeah u should take it as a lesson and learn from it. Always tell yourself that u left her and she is the one that is losing.

[Dirtbleed]

It's obvious she found the BBD ( bigger and better deal). Move on bro. I just came off a singles cruise. 80 chicks and 40 dudes in the group. Was like shootin' fish in a barrel. You sound like a cool dude. Go meet some new chicks and NEVER get married again! AND don't cry to these new chicks you meet about the old one.

I take all my friends on a cruise after they have a bad break up. 7 days later that old hag is forgotten and they're getting checked for an STD.

http://www.singlescruise.com/pages/Home.aspx

[Scotaku]

Sorry this is still a source of pain, fellas. The real trouble is no matter what you do to 'erase' the evidence of that part of your lives, it still happened. Nothing can change that. But if you can look at it as just a fact, moving on can be easier. There are plenty of things you can do to substitute or cover it up, but facing the past relationship as something you cannot undo and accepting what happened can really help.

In a lot of ways it is like someone dying. You're feeling grief over a deep loss. Try to resist displacing your feelings into anger or work or eating or a hobby or even another relationship. Learn from the experience so that your future can be better for it.

If facing the ex some day gives you fear or anxiety, have that conversation in your own head now and decide what you'll say and how you'll react. Knowing what to expect even if it never happens has been my way of dealing with situations that have scared me. I can be cordial with my exes, confident around bullies, and let doctors talk to me about surgeries just because I took my own time in the past to be afraid then but work it out on my own. It works.