Because i f***ing want to

[ck_taft325is]

Pure unadulterated falsehoods.

Advising a man in his early twenties to get married to a girl just so he can feel ok about having sex is about the worst piece of advice you can give the guy. I know this because, once upon a time, I was given the same advice...

OP, I respect your decision and even agree with it. Just please do yourself a favor and don't marry the first girl you get really serious with, just for the sake of taking your relationship to the next level, physically.

When did I say marry her to get into her pants? That's a pretty far leap of reasoning. Nor would I ever advise that. Did I hit a button of some sort?

And because you had a bad experience doesn't mean the rest of us did.

[hyperE30]

That.
I had my fun I believe, but I don't feel good about it. I kind of expect my girl to be waiting for me, and I can't do the same for her.

But it's a good thing men and women are different. I haven't met a girl who cared about my past, but they expected me to do well in bed.

So to sum up my thoughts:
- I expect my girl to be waiting for me, and I don't mind if she doesn't know what to do in bed in the beginning, we can always learn together.
- My girl will want me to be experienced and will expect me to know what to do, and won't mind my past.

This makes me think that I'm reasonable with my needs:)

there you go..

hahahahha. I puked in the drain man! It'll rinse right down. I probably looked half dead with my grandma driving me if you do have it on tape. :rofl:


Thanks guys, and don't worry I'm not in need to have sex so much so that I will marry a girl to do it. :rofl:

And yes, I can't even remember how many times I've been told that I'm putting the waffleswaffleswaffleswaffleswaffles on a pedestal. It's not like I'm unfamiliar with waffleswaffleswaffleswaffleswaffles though, I'm just saving the final step.

Man its your decision and no one else... there is plenty of girls in this world you never know at the least expected moment you will come across the love of your life, the woman that will respect you for all you are.. that said its all your decision ;)

[ejnight]

Where are the Jessica alba pics?

+1 this was great read but the pix made it.

[87e30]

You guys realize I'm perfectly content with my own personal choice and this thread was started in no way as a discussion about them, right?

Of course the fact that the thread was derailed is completely understandable, I just want you guys to know I didn't start a thread asking for your guys' opinions, but by all means carry on with them.

-After re-reading the first post I can see how it went that direction right away. Anyways, when I was writing it I wasn't trying to make an emo thread at all. I hate those stupid "what should I do about my own personal fucking choice" threads.

[Adrian_Visser]

Ahahahaa are you guys fucking serious? Okay OP I respect your decision but seriously it isn't the fucking '50s anymore, people fuck each other it feels good. Grow up.

[Stephen]

What was the point of the thread then


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[87e30]

Ahahahaa are you guys fucking serious? Okay OP I respect your decision but seriously it isn't the fucking '50s anymore, people fuck each other it feels good. Grow up.

For the record people have been rampantly fucking forever. I really don't think that today all of a sudden it's something new.

Anyways, I don't think it's immature to wait, or childish, just a difference in opinion.

If you're fucking as much as you can, then in my opinion, you need to grow up. (general statement, I'm not saying you're a man whore)

Too serious, more alba!
:rofl:

[87e30]

What was the point of the thread then


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Oh for sure. Just wasn't trying to preach, and it sorta came out that way. My bad. Then derailment followed, love it!

[Stephen]

....there is more than just man whore one night stands, and bible hugging abstinence, lol.

[87e30]

....there is more than just man whore one night stands, and bible hugging abstinence, lol.

Oh, I know. There is non-bible hugging abstinence. :D

But seriously, I know. Everyone else can do whatever they want!

[E30Nova]

I completely agree with 87e30.
I'm not into whores either, just not interested in fucking them.

I'm in a fraternity, girls are always around, but not the kind of girls I like.
I'm only 21, but I want to find a nice and loyal girl who's been waiting for me.
I want to marry her, and I want to have kids.

I believe it's not me who has a problem, I believe it's today's youth that is fucked up.

Yeah, typical. It's not you with the problem, blame everyone else.

But seriously, not saying you have a problem, just a different opinion. And you guys really are putting the waffleswaffleswaffleswaffleswaffles on a pedestal.

Matt

[dgspikes]

duh, just lie and tell her youre a virgin. problem solved..

[StereoInstaller1]

duh, just lie and tell her youre a virgin. problem solved..

Oh fuck, leave it to a New Yorker to find the obvious solution!

[Paul G]

When did I say marry her to get into her pants? That's a pretty far leap of reasoning. Nor would I ever advise that. Did I hit a button of some sort?

And because you had a bad experience doesn't mean the rest of us did.

You, sir, hit the biggest button I have. :) That's when logic goes out the window and fingers type unchecked.

[ck_taft325is]

You, sir, hit the biggest button I have. :) That's when logic goes out the window and fingers type unchecked.

Sounds to me like you're really just bitter someone gave you advice that you followed and now you feel :cockbloc:

Sorry you're all butt hurt because I said people should respect the guys decision. Keep on keepin' on.