what would rev do

[mrsleeve]

OP, good luck on working it out, sounds like more than an addiction.



+1 that shit goes both ways, no double standard bullshit. If this was him hiding like this, he'd be out on his ass in a heart beat.

and we have a winner

[EndreM]

It still applies.
He has no right to control her, and he is the one having a problem.

Learn to live with it, or end it.

[Atreus]

kill the bitch, enjoy a cig after digging the burial plot.

sit back.
inhale.
profit.

there, no more cig. problems, and whatever else could be trapped in that pandoras box inside her head.

the bitch part is humor, don't go flashin on me either lol.

[Ryan...]

It still applies.
He has no right to control her, and he is the one having a problem.

Learn to live with it, or end it.

I disagree completely. He isn't telling her she can't read romantic novels or eat chocolate. He's telling her that smoking behind is back is not acceptable. It's more an issue of her lying than the actual act of smoking. Read the whole thread.

[mrsleeve]

I disagree completely. He isn't telling her she can't read romantic novels or eat chocolate. He's telling her that smoking behind is back is not acceptable. It's more an issue of her lying than the actual act of smoking. Read the whole thread.

beat me too it.

Lying and hiding shit = BAD and thats the issue at hand not so much the smoking thing. It really does not help matters that OP travels a lot and is not home most of the week.

[Atreus]

have you asked her straight up if she truly wants to quit smoking?
if so, why does she want to quit?

health? smell? whatever?

if she doesn't want to fix it, you can't fix it for her.

[blunttech]

is there anyway you can do a live feed of you interrogating her like eric doing the clutch replacement??. I think r3v would like that. and depending how that went you might even broadcast a grudge fuck for our viewing pleasure. I mean if youre into that sort of thing

[LJ851]

b*saint, What happened ? Are you living on the street with no web access ? Did she kick you in the balls?

[CabbE30]

Shits too crazy in here.
Good luck op.