Girlfriend breaks up with you and two days later she hooks up with your best friend

[slammin.e28]

OP: You are 18. You are in Cali. You are single. I wish I was in Cali at 18 and single at the same time. I spent my 18th year chained to some chick who did the same thing to me.

I am now gearing up to pop the question with my current GF.

I look back and lol at how much everything mattered when I was 18. Now I look back and think how differently I should have done things, but am glad I didn't because I am now actually wanting to marry someone.

My point, you'll look back on this a lololololololololololololol.

Now, back to my useless posting poking fun at this thread.....is it May yet?

[devon.818]

Its just wack, i was in the "friend zone" for a solid year...and she didnt want anything to do with me relationship wise until i went to some party and hooked up with the chick..she texted me the next day and then soon enough were dating. i know her probably better then she does for the most part. we both got very close with eachothers family. we were super happy together and everyone saw that and thought that we were both close to perfect for eachother. it didnt feel like just another highschool relationship. it felt like alot more and we both knew that. we went through so much and we both started dating when both of our lives werent in the best spots. then she started acting a little weird, being more distant and wanted to do her own thing more..and i understood and respected that. and then she says she wants to breakup..she said she wants to have fun and meet people and basically wanting the single life. and then when we talked a couple days ago she didnt want me to leave, she told me how much she still misses me and loves me and wants what we had back. but honestly she just doesnt know what she wants. and she needs to figure that shit out before i get back together with her, if i do.

You just prove he's an attention whore! You gave some girl some dick, she got jealous, and made you unavailable! She's good, but we are here totell you th truth. She misses you? Nope, misses the attention you gave her. of course she doesn't know whatshe wants, neither do you. You both need to f around a bit, and never talk to her again

[LJ851]

and then she says she wants to breakup..she said she wants to have fun and meet people and basically wanting the single life. And then when we talked a couple days ago she didnt want me to leave, she told me how much she still misses me and loves me and wants what we had back. but honestly she just doesnt know what she wants.

yes

[zxert]

This is a quote from the wisest man EVER to live.

Dear friend, pay close attention to this, my wisdom; listen very closely to the way I see it. Then you'll acquire a taste for good sense; what I tell you will keep you out of trouble. The lips of a seductive woman are oh so sweet, her soft words are oh so smooth. But it won't be long before she's gravel in your mouth, a pain in your gut, a wound in your heart. She's dancing down the primrose path to Death; she's headed straight for Hell and taking you with her. She hasn't a clue about Real Life, about who she is or where she's going. So, my friend, listen closely; don't treat my words casually. Keep your distance from such a woman; absolutely stay out of her neighborhood. You don't want to squander your wonderful life, to waste your precious life among the hardhearted. Why should you allow strangers to take advantage of you? Why be exploited by those who care nothing for you? You don't want to end your life full of regrets, nothing but sin and bones, Saying, "Oh, why didn't I do what they told me? Why did I reject a disciplined life? Why didn't I listen to my mentors, or take my teachers seriously? My life is ruined! I haven't one blessed thing to show for my life!" Never Take Love for Granted. Do you know the saying, "Drink from your own rain barrel, draw water from your own spring-fed well"? It's true. Otherwise, you may one day come home and find your barrel empty and your well polluted. Your spring water is for you and you only, not to be passed around among strangers. Bless your fresh-flowing fountain! Enjoy the wife you married as a young man! Lovely as an angel, beautiful as a rose - don't ever quit taking delight in her body. Never take her love for granted! Why would you trade enduring intimacies for cheap thrills with a whore? for dalliance with a promiscuous stranger? Mark well that God doesn't miss a move you make; he's aware of every step you take. The shadow of your sin will overtake you; you'll find yourself stumbling all over yourself in the dark. Death is the reward of an undisciplined life; your foolish decisions trap you in a dead end.

[slammin.e28]

This is a quote from the wisest man EVER to live.

Der Affe?

[Wh33lhop]

The girl is clearly being led around by her insecurities, and will continue to do so in the future. If you can't just go have a good time with her and hit it with no expectations or attachment (which you can't), I guarantee you the best thing to do would be to move on. You are young and single. Forget that girl, learn to give zero fucks and just go have fun.

[miichaelsmith]

The girl is clearly being led around by her insecurities, and will continue to do so in the future. If you can't just go have a good time with her and hit it with no expectations or attachment (which you can't), I guarantee you the best thing to do would be to move on. You are young and single. Forget that girl, learn to give zero fucks and just go have fun.

Im tryin.. i went way too hard thursday friday and saturday night. meet so many new people. but at the end of the night i felt like something was missing

[gtdragon980]

All joking aside though, I learned from my mistake of taking back my ex who cheated on me and it was one of the worst decisions I made. Stick to what everyone is saying, you're better off without her...

[Wh33lhop]

Im tryin.. i went way too hard thursday friday and saturday night. meet so many new people. but at the end of the night i felt like something was missing

That's because you're being a bitch. Now man the fuck up.

Seriously, I have been there too many moons ago, and I fucking moped around, and all it did was stunt my growth as a human being. Getting out and being social is always better than the alternative in these situations, no matter how much you want to romanticize the idea of the one girl you have a history with.

Strive to let her go. You won't be able to immediately, but you should be working towards it. The bitch fucked your BEST FRIEND after breaking up with you. Remember that the next time you think about her.

[der affe]

Once a cheater always a cheater man. She isn't the same girl. Shouldn't be an IF she does anything. You deserve better. Like I said, she looks like the above girl. Take the time to see it. Please move on.

+1 you will never completely trust her again. Bang some other girls then if you want to or get the chance PIITB one last time for payback, then move on.

[Jhonno]

Is it May yet?

Serious.. Ditch the witch already. That is NEVER gonna end well.

[der affe]

Der Affe?

LoL, my distain for women, is matched only by my desire to put my penis in them.

[Mr. Burns]

ewww putting it ITB at that ripe age is simply a recipe for a spray of confetti like dingleberries.

OP, leave her a voicemail reading some Katy Perry lyrics, followed by a picture of some freshly cried tears pooling in your new fap receptical.

[Mr. Burns]

actually cancel everything.

BEG for her to come back.

she's the one.

totally.

this is the mistake that means the world to the both of you.
you better get your shit in gear because an opportunity to rekindle the magic of a mature relationship that once was, will never cross your time again.

are you back together yet?
no?

how about now.

GET ON IT SON!!

[slammin.e28]

LoL, my distain for women, is matched only by my desire to put my penis in them.

I come to these threads for your responses.