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A doctor came in for a mortgage inquiry. His loan for the house was over 2mill.
He made fun of himself telling me he has a big house, but no time to live in it.
Honestly being 22, $45k or more a year would be perfect. Take into consideration lack of bills and no kids, I'd be making equal to someone with a family and regular bills making round $90k+. Or 15-20 an hour would also be perfect.
Im worse than all of you I been living in this country for 11years i came here when i was 12 From Uruguay, I want to go to school and earn a degree like every other person can but i don't even have a green card.
My life is very frustrating and i find my self very angry all the time because i feel less than the normal 23 year old in school or doing something with their life that will end them up somewhere in life.
Yea i have done my research to acquire my papers and well as my family and as of now the only way would be to marry someone (working on this with my new gf)
I fell thought that is not fair but fuck it im going to do it and i know i will be comfortable one day and i will be able afford to have a nice family and live the "American Dream" even is this country doesn't give it to me im going to pull it out of its ass.
I have owned a bunch of nice cars by working my ass off since i was 15.. Cars is the only thing that keeps me saint in my mind.
keep your head up franco, a bunch of my friends have eventually gotten their green cards or citizenships. education helps a lot, even if it's not formal. you can go the library and start learning. another option is to move to MD, afaik, we have the Dream Act going on down here and you would be able to attend college since you've been in the country for so long.
Not in my experience, personally and professionally.
For me, for the things in life we like to do, and now saving like mad now that the chillin are out of school, $350k
“There is nothing government can give you that it hasn’t taken from you in the first place”
Sir Winston Churchill
next year i am going to grad school in a different city for my masters degree. I have no job waiting for me there, no oppertunities (as yet) I am going to try to get 25K together before I leave adn maybe live a year with no job, and get out with no loans. After that I want 80K for me living alone, and 120K+ if family.
Im worse than all of you I been living in this country for 11years i came here when i was 12 From Uruguay, I want to go to school and earn a degree like every other person can but i don't even have a green card.
My life is very frustrating and i find my self very angry all the time because i feel less than the normal 23 year old in school or doing something with their life that will end them up somewhere in life.
Yea i have done my research to acquire my papers and well as my family and as of now the only way would be to marry someone (working on this with my new gf)
I fell thought that is not fair but fuck it im going to do it and i know i will be comfortable one day and i will be able afford to have a nice family and live the "American Dream" even is this country doesn't give it to me im going to pull it out of its ass.
I have owned a bunch of nice cars by working my ass off since i was 15.. Cars is the only thing that keeps me saint in my mind.
Sorry i cant let this one slip..
Get your shit together. Stop with that american dream BS. More than half these kids will limp dick their way through school, aquire massive debt, and get outworked by someone more driven/talented than them when they find a job.. thats IF they find a job.
Dont think it will ever be comfortable, or easy if you ever want to be succesful in anything.
Youre very young.
Find something you love to do
start at the bottom, be humble
look at the guy one notch above you and say to yourself- Im going to outwork this motherfucker.
Work hard, never half ass anything, and master said trade.
You wil gain respect and recognition over time it doesent matter where your from. A degree does not show an employer you have paid dues. Paying dues shows that you paid dues..
They will cry about guys like you taking our cozy jobs.. But IMO maybe theyre not hungry enough.. Maybe they need to step it the fuck up.
OT, there is no amount of money I can be "content" with. Im never content. Being content doesent drive me to attempt to be the absolute best at what I do.
-Jay
2014 NASA FL se30 champ #81
2001 se46 3 year plan in progress
Your expenses go up with your income. Make 50k a year, struggle to buy a house. Make 150k a year, struggle to maintain mortgage, new cars and kids. More money unless you get a hell of a lot of it doesn't make problems disappear....although I'd take my chance with 150 vs 50.
I agree 100%.
I figure $250k / year would be pretty comfy. not being an ass, but honestly with 4 Kids, single income thats what would make me comfortable, and I could be back in BC or Alberta where I and my family would be more content.
as for a lump sum to make me Comfy? not going to lie, $500k, will pay for a modest house out west, and pay off the ol' Caravan so I would be essentially debt free. but even at that ammount, I cant afford to miss any time away from work.
then I would be able to save paychecks for retirement. that would be pretty sweet.
Originally Posted by ACMF74 i clicked on this cuz i saw p3nis
The wife is active duty USMC I'm a reservist Marine with a full time job. We make around 45k a year without our housing allowance which is 1200 a month. Our housing allowance pays 75% of our bills. I'm still not content. I'm working my ass off to get promoted or I'll find a new job that pays more. Id be comfy with us making 70k a year maybe more because we have a kid on the way but my wife gets a pay bump because of an added dependant. Military has its perks and it's downsides.
Im worse than all of you I been living in this country for 11years i came here when i was 12 From Uruguay, I want to go to school and earn a degree like every other person can but i don't even have a green card.
My life is very frustrating and i find my self very angry all the time because i feel less than the normal 23 year old in school or doing something with their life that will end them up somewhere in life.
Yea i have done my research to acquire my papers and well as my family and as of now the only way would be to marry someone (working on this with my new gf)
I fell thought that is not fair but fuck it im going to do it and i know i will be comfortable one day and i will be able afford to have a nice family and live the "American Dream" even is this country doesn't give it to me im going to pull it out of its ass.
I have owned a bunch of nice cars by working my ass off since i was 15.. Cars is the only thing that keeps me saint in my mind.
Franco, that's the type of shit that makes me proud to be an American.
If I lived in Iran, god knows what the fuck I'd be doing right now.
I'm a college student, so I don't have many expenses besides gas, insurance, and food. $2k would give me enough to stretch my biweekly paychecks of $500 while still being able to save a couple hundred, and then comfortably spend on any miscellaneous parts/expenses and recoupe those expenses stress free
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