How many times before enough is enough?

[Massimo]

Well you got an attorney so, no point in asking us for advice he will tell you everything you need to do. As WhyNot kind of suggested you will be asked your sexual preference in court and probably have to prove it somehow. I am not sure about cases in the USA but in Australia a someone who has been sexual harassed is treated as the criminal in court until prove otherwise.

From what I have seen and heard Sexual Harassment cases it can get very ugly, so be prepared for anything and everything, Document everything as others have said, but not just onto a piece of paper. That is hard to authenticate in court maybe, see if your attorney will accept emails from you, that way every time something happens you can send an email to your attorney and have a paper trail.

Another thing is to make sure every time something happens, alert his supervisor preferably by email. This way if they ask why did you not deal with his supervisor directly you can say you did and have a documented history of every time.

[Sailor37]

I don't mean this to sound harsh, but maybe they just don't like you and are purposelly making it tough for you, so you'll leave.

[phreshkid]

99.7% of us in this here vehicle community are not lawyers. I would seriously disregard most of what any of us have said. This is the only advise I have for you.

[xxx-Lost-Soul-xxx]

99.7% of us in this here vehicle community are not lawyers. I would seriously disregard most of what any of us have said. This is the only advise I have for you.

Smart answer. :-)

[KillaCam]

lawyer up, look for a friend or a friend of a friend who knows one or hire one to wright a letter to HR. and talk with the lawyer. because that is sexual harassment and that is a major lawsuit. but you need to be able to prove it. as in you need to have hard evidence, like video or something, or recoding but you cant record him (his voice) with out his knowledge (that is against the law) unless, you do it by accident and you can prove the accident. if the company you work for has cameras in the work place that would work for him touching you. also any unwanted touching that make you feel uncomfortable is assault............................. just came back from my law class.. LOL

[WhyNot]

Just cause i gave you FB,doesnt mean its gonna get approved lol

https://www.facebook.com/ashley.rodriguez.12914216

bad fb link

[xxx-Lost-Soul-xxx]

bad fb link

lol no its not

[WhyNot]

As WhyNot kind of suggested you will be asked your sexual preference in court and probably have to prove it somehow.

uh no
im just a perv looking for an excuse/reason/oppurtunity to get a little sumthin sumthin
figured the 'find a quater in my pocket' wouldnt work
im post up on craigslist for a helper for my 'frozen cinniciti sweater'

[xxx-Lost-Soul-xxx]

lawyer up, look for a friend or a friend of a friend who knows one or hire one to wright a letter to HR. and talk with the lawyer. because that is sexual harassment and that is a major lawsuit. but you need to be able to prove it. as in you need to have hard evidence, like video or something, or recoding but you cant record him (his voice) with out his knowledge (that is against the law) unless, you do it by accident and you can prove the accident. if the company you work for has cameras in the work place that would work for him touching you. also any unwanted touching that make you feel uncomfortable is assault............................. just came back from my law class.. LOL

Wiretapping? is that what they call it these days?

Thats crap! That would mean all my video is worthless.

[KillaCam]

Wiretapping? is that what they call it these days?

Thats crap! That would mean all my video is worthless.

well im not sure if your video is worthless but i know for sure that audio recoding (wiretapping ) someone with out their consent is against the law and the court could find that you have invaded their privacy if you record them in their space: IE: in their office, car, home, but if its the lunchroom where everyone meets and it is "a public space" it should be okay but any recordings that you make, make sure you disclose them to a lawyer with all information so that the lawyer can tell you if you are violating a tort.

well that is for the state of California

its like in the state of CA employers cannot record audio but they can record video.

[Thizzelle]

so if you tell him it's not cool and he keeps at it then you have a case. If you don't give them a chance to stop some govt people will come in and try to work things out. This is what your lawyer will tell you.

[xxx-Lost-Soul-xxx]

The touching all started in last weeks,

the Last two weeks, we was alone just me and him. Normally we run a three person crew.

In my whole time employed there, he has always bitched about my hair.
He asked me "what would it take to cut your hair?" I told him Its not happening,because im a female.

He didnt know what to say???

Remember how i said i look butch???? Yes thats right. I look WAY DIFFERENT then my FB pics when im at work. I Showed him my license and he was shocked. This was on a friday, he told me my secret was safe.

Well come that following Monday, were alone.

He brings it up,and askes me what i like etc.
I told him im gay and i like girls. I did slip up,and say i like emo guys. BUT I REINFORCED That i am really really into girls. Ive shown him my ex's,and he got a bit jelious.

I felt like a huge weight was lifted off me.
so we spoke, just about all kinds of stuff. In my six months of employment. He has always been a ass to me.so i felt he was finally seeing me as person,and not some idoit. Over the next week he would touch me 4 times.

Yesterday he did it again,but when i mentioned the Harassment word he got the look of a ghost,the rest of the day he left me alone.


I have two issues here, (1) iF I Work i want to get payed for it,

(2)
Stop grabbing me,just cause you look like Pitbull,doesnt mean i want you!!!

[xxx-Lost-Soul-xxx]

The videos i have are of him wasting company time,so if i sent these to corporate im sure he could get fired.

The grabbing is so random i just never know, after the last week i am on point. Like you all said i cant cry river untill i have proof.
Im a big girl,and i can handle my self. I worked dealerships,construction,and soon to be the railroad. I just wanted some other thoughts. Thanks guys!

[AndrewBird]

Here's what ya do. Call a coupla hard, pipe-hittin' ******s, who'll go to work on the homes with a pair of pliers and a blow torch. Get medieval on his ass.

;)

[ohthejosh]

On your last day, get a handful of his ass and say try harder next time. LOL