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  • hamann318is
    No R3VLimiter
    • Jul 2004
    • 3382

    #31
    I don't know what I can say... I'm sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. :(
    The BMW 318 is back. With a vengeance.

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    • Jand3rson
      Banned
      • Oct 2003
      • 37587

      #32
      Jordan, I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I can't even find the words to try to explain how I felt when I read it.

      Please be strong, and know that all of our thoughts are with you and your family. I'm so sorry.

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      • e30Matt
        R3V Elite
        • Dec 2003
        • 5077

        #33
        I'm sorry Jordan... can't believe something like this happened to you... your mom was one of the nicest people I've met, going out of her way that day to go to the bank with us with the title and all...

        You're in my thoughts... hang in there.

        "See, we're adding a little something to this month's sales contest. As you all know, first prize is a Cadillac Eldorado. Anyone wanna see second prize? Second prize is a set of steak knives. Third prize is you're fired."

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        • modifiede30
          Forum Sponsor
          • Oct 2003
          • 1208

          #34
          I can't image what you're going through, nor what I could ever say that would bring any comfort other than to say I'm truly sorry for your loss. You obviously have a strong support network here, and I'm sure elsewhere, and there will never be a better or more justified reason for using them. If you need anything, I hope you'll let us know...
          Driving is the only way to go faster....

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          • Beej '86 325es
            R3VLimited
            • Feb 2004
            • 2639

            #35
            Jordan,

            I must have sat for 20 minutes after I read that, imagining what you must be going through right now. I don't know what to say except that I'm very sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my prayers.

            God bless.
            -Brandon
            '86 325es S50
            '12 VW GTI Autobahn DSG
            '03 540i M-Sport (sold)
            '08 Jeep SRT-8 (sold)

            For sale:
            S50 TMS chip for Schricks

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            • Dave
              E30 RAT
              • Nov 2003
              • 11675

              #36
              Truly sorry to hear about your loss. Prayers for you and your family.
              Current Cars
              2014 M235i
              2009 R56 Cooper S
              1998 M3
              1997 M3

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              • uofom3
                R3V Elite
                • Jan 2004
                • 5392

                #37
                adding my condolences... you and yours are in my thoughts and prayers...
                I want to add many other statements to this, but no words are big enough to full explain the emotions and situation... best wishes mate
                PNW Crew
                90 m3
                06 m5

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                • fox
                  Member
                  • Dec 2005
                  • 45

                  #38
                  Originally posted by Jon325i

                  A little more than five years ago my mom passed away, she was just 57. A heart attack is what took her from us....I was there when it happened as was my younger brother. He was on the phone with 9-1-1 while I was administering CPR on my mom. The paramedics where there within 10 minutes but she was already gone. She died in my arms as I tried all I could to revive her. I remember every event of that Saturday afternoon so vividly to this day. Without question the greatest emotional loss for me. My mom was like a good friend to me....we got along great and I could talk to her about anything without embarassment. A day hasn't passed since her loss where I haven't thought about her. I've never got over the pain of her passing....its still there but to a lesser degree. Life still goes on but I keep her memory alive within me.

                  Jon
                  So you know how I feel then.. I am Jordans little brother. I guess I need to talk to you about it, because it really affected me. I can't stop thinking about her face when she looked at me.. I can't help but cry just thinking about it. She was scared for her life. I could see it in her. The way she looked... seemed like the pain of 3 years got put onto her in just 5 seconds. Jordan explained it the best he could. The last noises she made while in my arms were un-bearable. How she screamed my name.. "ADAM! HELP ME! Dear God!... Oh God!..." I keep running replays of it in my head. I can't help it, it just keeps going over and over again in my head. I'm trying to be strong in this situation. I'm holding my own. Our step-dad is taking this the hardest out of anyone. It's time for Jordan and I to step up and be men now. It's time for us to start worrying about bills, buying food, cleaning the house, doing everything our mother did. That would make he proud.

                  I feel numb to every emotion I once had. I don't care about anything anymore.. She was the best mom anyone could ever have..

                  We will miss you mama. We love you..

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                  • Bokes
                    E30 Fanatic
                    • Dec 2003
                    • 1459

                    #39
                    found out just a few minutes ago that she died of an anuerism. doctors say that something like is instant death, so thats nice to know she didnt suffer at all. i feel much better now, having a bit of closure.
                    173rd ABN

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                    • parkerbink
                      R3V OG
                      • Jun 2004
                      • 10134

                      #40
                      I am so very, very sorry both that your Mom died and that nothing I can say or do is up to the task of expressing my sorrow for you.

                      My entire Family is praying for your entire family and if there is anything that we can do all you need do is say it.

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                      • bmwm3n528
                        No R3VLimiter
                        • Dec 2003
                        • 3654

                        #41
                        Jordan,
                        I speak for the rest of my family in saying that you're in our prayers and we're here for you if you need ANYTHING at all.

                        For those that never had the privilege of meeting Jordan's mom, Pamela, you missed out meeting a incredibly sweet lady. From the handful of times I met her she was incredibly outgoing and she always expressed lots of love towards her children everytime I saw her. She will be missed man.

                        May she rest in peace.
                        Trevor Ely
                        '95 M Sport 540i - '00 A4 1.8TQMS - '85 190E 2.3-16
                        '88 535is - '87 325e - '89 325is - '91 318is - '90 325is - '96 328is

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                        • PeaveyBassist
                          No R3VLimiter
                          • Sep 2004
                          • 3511

                          #42
                          Wow. Just wow. Sorry to hear it. I can't even imagine what that would be like. My prayers go out for you and your family Jordan. Like everyone else has said, if we can do anything to help let us know.

                          Will
                          RIP e30 (brilliantrot '91 325i) 11/17/06 Byebye: 8/21/07
                          Welcome e30 (brilliantrot '90 325is) 12/23/06
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                          • asubimmer
                            R3V OG
                            • Jul 2004
                            • 6482

                            #43
                            Originally posted by fox
                            So you know how I feel then.. I am Jordans little brother. I guess I need to talk to you about it, because it really affected me. I can't stop thinking about her face when she looked at me.. I can't help but cry just thinking about it. She was scared for her life. I could see it in her. The way she looked... seemed like the pain of 3 years got put onto her in just 5 seconds. Jordan explained it the best he could. The last noises she made while in my arms were un-bearable. How she screamed my name.. "ADAM! HELP ME! Dear God!... Oh God!..." I keep running replays of it in my head. I can't help it, it just keeps going over and over again in my head. I'm trying to be strong in this situation. I'm holding my own. Our step-dad is taking this the hardest out of anyone. It's time for Jordan and I to step up and be men now. It's time for us to start worrying about bills, buying food, cleaning the house, doing everything our mother did. That would make he proud.

                            I feel numb to every emotion I once had. I don't care about anything anymore.. She was the best mom anyone could ever have..

                            We will miss you mama. We love you..
                            hang on pal...I know its got to be even harder for you...just try to do things that used to make you happy and try..I know its gonna be real hard..to find joy in those things again. I can't imagin loosing a mom...I'm really sorry for you guys...just keep holding on guys.
                            ///Alpinweiß II 24v 91' 318is, Alpinweiß III 99' 323i, 04' Yamaha R6 SE for sale, 00' VW GTi, 83' El Camino BURNED, 01' P71sold, 92' Miatasold

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                            • dishedout
                              Advanced Member
                              • Nov 2005
                              • 111

                              #44
                              I couldn't even imagine what you guys are going though, I shed a few tears just reading this thread. Take care of yourselves guys and keep your heads up. Take it one day at a time. :)

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                              • che13
                                Wrencher
                                • Aug 2004
                                • 217

                                #45
                                I am really sorry to hear about you and your family's loss. We will keep you and yours in our thoughts.

                                take care

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