Ever been 'The other guy'?

[Cletonius]

Previous page you said she was still engaged?

I couldn't care less, I just find it interesting.

The day I met her she was engaged. When we went on our first date she was single. She told me she left him on the chance I would ask her for a date. Sorry for the ambiguity

Apparently meeting me was enough for her to doubt getting married.

[acolella76]

if they will do it with ya............................................ they will do it TOO YOU

Integrity is important, sadly seems to be getting rare. This thread is in many ways is good example of that fact.

Let me start out by saying that the girl I was with that night was in an 'open' relationship apparently, so that helps me sleep at night. But you can't make assumptions and say that everyone who has slept with a woman that was in a relationship lacks integrity. Every situation is different.

Let's say that you start developing feelings for a girl that says she's single, but secretly has a boyfriend that she doesn't tell you about. Does it make you less of a man if you act on those feelings?


Actually, I'm not going to lie, I do feel bad about sleeping with that girl. Even if she was in an 'open' relationship, I can't imagine that guy was happy to be picking up his girlfriend from another guy's house.

[mrsleeve]

that was not really directed to you... Or anyone in general. Its just a fact of our me me me me me society is all.

The open relationship is a murky thing, and so long as they both know whats going on and are up front about it with others they are getting involved with I guess thats totally different ball game at that point.

And if someone is not representing them selves accurately then thats not your fault, and that is their integrity issue. I on the other hand would not want to be a part of that relationship once I would find out though..

[LJ851]

... Even if she was in an 'open' relationship, I can't imagine that guy was happy to be picking up his girlfriend from another guy's house.

You never know alex, he could have been checking you out and admiring the manly way you threw the still warm dildo at his car.

[Onizukachan]

Unknowingly at the time yes.

Ditto. Thrice.
As soon as I found out they were supposedly with someone, I didn't want anything more to do with them.

Oh wait...

My ex wife was the cheater, and I was the other guy once...
Apparently the new boyfriend lacked the equipment to get the job done.
I so wanted to rub his face in it, but I never even knew who he was.

[mtechnik]

Couple of times.

Just wrap it up and enjoy.

:nice:

[IRON-E]

When I was 20, I picked up on a 30yr old cougar, I invited her out and she was game.

We go out to a local club, dance and BS most of the night (I couldn't drink legally, so I suggested to go back to my place and drink there) the cougar agrees, we go back to my place (I was single and lived on my own) we drank, fucked like hermits and knock out for about 2 hrs.

Her beeper starts blowing up around 4:30am and we wake up, she turns to me in a buzzing daze and says "I gotta go home, my husband is not gonna be happy about this but I'll be ok., see you soon"

My mouth dropped and I was like, WTF just happened?..........

In any case, about 2 weeks later she invites me to lunch to discuss the situation. I didn't want to hear it but I was kinda of pist off about it and still went on.

I wait for her staff to leave the office and waited patiently like a good little boy for her.
Once we were all alone, I went inside her office, we got a little hot and bothered and she goes to town on me, planting her two lips on my cock. I got a great BJ from her, finished in her mouth out of spite (for not letting me know she was married, before hooking up) and asked her not to call me any more.

Felt good to have that "fuck you whore" power but, I wish I never got it on with her while married.

[$hane]

I was involved with an older married women for a year or so. Her husband knew. They were both from super wealthy families so i think it was one of those things where he is probably gay but cant come out for fear of being disowned and divorce isnt really an option.

[Cletonius]

I was involved with an older married women for a year or so. Her husband knew. They were both from super wealthy families so i think it was one of those things where he is probably gay but cant come out for fear of being disowned and divorce isnt really an option.

People have different sex drives. Maybe the dude is a prude?

[$hane]

People have different sex drives. Maybe the dude is a prude?

Its possible. She had the same theory. It was cool while it lasted though. She bought me a set of prodrive p1's and toyo proxy 4's for my sti

[Cletonius]

Its possible. She had the same theory. It was cool while it lasted though. She bought me a set of prodrive p1's and toyo proxy 4's for my sti

That's awesome, gotta love getting paid to be the boy toy

[$hane]

That's awesome, gotta love getting paid to be the boy toy

Yup! Nothing wrong with that! I was 24 and she was 35.

[e30rapidic]

yep, a few times but didn't know they were married at first. Women lie as much as men, just better at it. I'm pushing 40 so back in the day was different than it is now; no Facebook stalking, google searches, etc.

One turned out to be "just" engaged. After I found that I out quickly got out of that scenario. She actually called off her wedding and asked me to marry her...twice! I stupidly thought about it both times for about 2 seconds and thankfully said no.

moral of all this? married chics dig dudes that drive e30 cabrios.

[Mr_Tripp]

Is it still cheating when no one is married?? I don't operate like that I'm just curious.

[joncrz]

I dated a girl. She is on the Idaho Stampede dance team.

http://www.nba.com/dleague/idaho/stampede_dance_team.html

Then I left for a few months. Came back and she was dating a so so friend of mine. Well I got back and went over to see her, not knowing that she was with this douche bag who likes 80's camaros.

We are in her apartment, things start steaming up and we take a shower and I think I hear something. Like the faint sound of a door closing....

5 seconds later the shower curtain is ripped off and the guy is trying to fight me. So I beat the shit out of him with the flowers he brought for this girl.

wait. no I shove him a few times out the door of the bathroom and then put my cloths on.

Seriously awkward. Why didn't she tell me he had a key :loco:

I was out of there quick.

so which one was it? face smashed against wall girl? horse face girl? girl who can't keep weight off girl? holding in fart while smiling girl? wide nose girl? goth girl? desperately trying not to cry because the team hates me girl? meh, girl? paula deen contest look alike runner up girl? desperately trying to fit in girl? crazy face girl (my favorite & first guess) ? too much tan lotion girl? Manly face girl? I like my eyebrow tint like I like my giraffe nether region (damn waffle censorship).... high, girl? bushman eyebrow girl? or 5 head too much eyeshadow girl?

commmeee onnn man, you gottta let us know.