trying to salvage what you can. RUH ROH divorce

[jintermont]

sorry long post all truth multiple points made
the happiness having to come from within has been my main goal since my health went to shit last xmas eve when I had to have emergency surgery she just dropped me at my moms for mom and gma to take me to the ER and went off xmas light watching with her bff, that and ive had 5 other operations since.
that was my beginning of the end for my side.
With her she started binge eating again in may when we had a miscarriage at 10 weeks, and flyboy arguments and fights are going to come up sooner or later,and I had a very abusive father growing up towards mom and I so i swore that i would never lay a finger on a spouse and our last fight she knocked me backwards over the laundry basket then started hit and scratch the shit out of my chest/neck until I finally restrained her wrists. I cant let that happen again case I loose it you know. also hand on the bible 100% true 100% not a troll lmao

[jintermont]

hey, atleast Steve gets a kick out of my life. I honestly will post pics in a few

[blunttech]

Im old enough to know there are always 2 sides to everything but it sounds like youre doing the right thing .. This sounds toxic.. Best of luck to you dude. i wouldnt date at all until you get your shit together and get your health problems dealt with. Sometimes waffleswaffleswaffleswaffleswaffles finds you and I wouldnt turn it down but i sure wouldnt look for any until youre stable and happy again

[blunttech]

hey, atleast Steve gets a kick out of my life. I honestly will post pics in a few

Im sorry man. But if you could read that from the outside its kinda funny. No harmful intent meant dude.. I know youre hurting Im sorry

[jintermont]

No man im not upset, you made me laugh because one of my very first posts back then we had it out over a shitty acura-ferrari CL AD. it just took me back lol

[flyboyx]

ya know.....this may sound ghey, but there is something pretty awesome about this community where people can be raw and honest and open like this. we talk about a lot of shit here that people can never talk about in public. maybe its the security of being anonymous behind the computer screen. whatever it is, i like it.

[jintermont]

I can actually laugh at my situation a bit right now. But shit's crazy though huh?

[jintermont]

Dude not ghey at all R3V can be brash and harsh but there is a reason I couldn't trade you guys for the world. The only forum I honestly use

[jintermont]

hey flyboy you're in houston right ? do you know James Saynay? he has an e28 and S/C z4

[E30_Pare]

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[jintermont]

^ if I weren't blonde hair blue eyed lol

[oliver.r]

pic of said bed destroyer

[Shangsta]

lol holy shit. I feel like a fucking asshole but tears are running down my face

^this

[Shangsta]

But I agree with the others about not trying to jump back into the dating game. Yeah it will be hard since you always had someone by your side for the last 5 years but I would take time to figure out the direction you want your life to go from this point.

[QUKBMER]

Dude i went through the same thing your going through except i have had tons of women in my wife before my first wife came around. I was with her for 13 years/married 9 and it was ok in the beinging but after having a kid and her gaining more friends from work. She became more involved with her friends from work than me. Yeah she was up ther in weight just alittle less than yours (just alittle/still over 300). Got divorced and before i knew it BAM!! somebody found me and i have been with her for 8 years coming up on my 5 year wedding anniversary in February and ALOT LESS WEIGHT !!! I wasnt even out of my 1st marriage 2 weeks and my current wife is the best thing that could have ever happened to me. Just never know,love comes looking for you bro. .....and i just got custody of my daughter last Sept.