trying to salvage what you can. RUH ROH divorce

[MrSlacker]

What the hell? She is actually pretty decent looking when she was "skinny". My advice is RUN AWAY, if she can add and drop weight to easily, who knows what else she is capable of.

[Balleristic31]

How did she lose so much weight so fast?

[jintermont]

hey flyboy you're in houston right ? do you know James Saynay? he has an e28 and S/C z4

[LJ851]

lol holy shit. I feel like a fucking asshole but tears are running down my face

I am imagining Steve brushing his glorious locks away from his face to prevent them being sullied by his sweet, sweet tears of joy and laughter.


This is the definition of thread success.

[Mr. Tasty]

holy fuck, that pokemon evolved

[flyboyx]

Dude i went through the same thing your going through except i have had tons of women in my wife before my first wife came around. I was with her for 13 years/married 9 and it was ok in the beinging but after having a kid and her gaining more friends from work. She became more involved with her friends from work than me. Yeah she was up ther in weight just alittle less than yours (just alittle/still over 300). Got divorced and before i knew it BAM!! somebody found me and i have been with her for 8 years coming up on my 5 year wedding anniversary in February and ALOT LESS WEIGHT !!! I wasnt even out of my 1st marriage 2 weeks and my current wife is the best thing that could have ever happened to me. Just never know,love comes looking for you bro. .....and i just got custody of my daughter last Sept.

did you at least get to watch? double ended dildo? strap on?

op: i do not know the member you mentioned. i have been pretty busy with work and renovation. haven't had time to be involved with the community lately.

[bmwman91]

Bummer about your situation man. It sounds like getting out of it is what is best for YOU, and it would probably also be good for her.

IMO marrying your first girlfriend is a recipe for trouble. It works for some people, but a LOT of people that do it end up getting "the itch" and regretting not messing around, or they pair up in the middle of their adult-formative years and then find that they are totally different people 5 years later. It sounds like the latter may have happened in your case. If she is prone to physical violence towards you and that sort of thing, then leaving may be the best option. God help you if you lay a finger on her, even if it is justified, because the legal system is completely stacked against you.

I highly recommend NOT getting into another relationship for a minimum of a year. There's no way that you are going to find yourself if you hop from relationship to relationship. Being used to "having" someone is hard to shake loose, and it is going to feel desperately tempting to go out and find a new girl ASAP, but don't do it. I'd wait at least a few months before going on the prowl to find hook-ups too, because chances are that you are going to feel like falling in love with every chick that gives up the goods. Not poking fun here or anything, but it is sort of the nature of the beast when you get out of your first real relationship. Get some quality bro time in and focus on hobbies. Work on your health issues as best you can. You are only 25, which by today's standards is nowhere near "too old" to be single.

One other thought, and I know that this must be unimaginably rough for you two, but the miscarriage you mentioned may have been for the best in the long run. SOOOO many people decide to have a baby to try to fix / "glue together" a failing marriage, and in most cases it does the exact opposite. Sleep deprivation, hormonal swings, insane new stress levels...not things that help a troubled relationship.

[Thizzelle]

my friend broke my couch, he's like 420. I made him buy me a new one and it wasn't cheap. But try match.com or the hot or not app or the tinder app. Best chances are just like every girl on there lol because you can only talk to girls if you both like so if you like all girls your chances go up even if they're ugs

[Roysneon]

holy fuck, that pokemon evolved

I died.

[TurboJake]

Bummer about your situation man. It sounds like getting out of it is what is best for YOU, and it would probably also be good for her.

IMO marrying your first girlfriend is a recipe for trouble. It works for some people, but a LOT of people that do it end up getting "the itch" and regretting not messing around, or they pair up in the middle of their adult-formative years and then find that they are totally different people 5 years later. It sounds like the latter may have happened in your case. If she is prone to physical violence towards you and that sort of thing, then leaving may be the best option. God help you if you lay a finger on her, even if it is justified, because the legal system is completely stacked against you.

I highly recommend NOT getting into another relationship for a minimum of a year. There's no way that you are going to find yourself if you hop from relationship to relationship. Being used to "having" someone is hard to shake loose, and it is going to feel desperately tempting to go out and find a new girl ASAP, but don't do it. I'd wait at least a few months before going on the prowl to find hook-ups too, because chances are that you are going to feel like falling in love with every chick that gives up the goods. Not poking fun here or anything, but it is sort of the nature of the beast when you get out of your first real relationship. Get some quality bro time in and focus on hobbies. Work on your health issues as best you can. You are only 25, which by today's standards is nowhere near "too old" to be single.

One other thought, and I know that this must be unimaginably rough for you two, but the miscarriage you mentioned may have been for the best in the long run. SOOOO many people decide to have a baby to try to fix / "glue together" a failing marriage, and in most cases it does the exact opposite. Sleep deprivation, hormonal swings, insane new stress levels...not things that help a troubled relationship.

QFT in all levels.

I can't say it with enough enthusiasm on a forum. Do your own thing, for YOU. Find yourself again. Take time. You need that time to process everything. Don't care about getting another ladyfriend. That will come when it comes. Other than that, let life happen, and most of all, HAVE FUN!

Read the giant link in my sig. That's what it took for me.

[jintermont]

First off major thanks for the insightful information, luckily we are both pretty equally done at this point and I'm moving on lookin up.
LJ; thanks for the thread success ups I honestly wasn't sure if anyone would read it lol. fucking epic pokemon comment, she actually lost the weight by eating healthy ;ie more fresh less processed basically with calorie counting and basic cardio. and the pregnancy was a kinda sorta surprise/rolling the dice as it were. I just wish I had a coupe right now. she convinced me to sell my entire parts stock except my e30motorwerkz skidplate

[phreshkid]

She convinced you to sell your e30 and its parts? MONSTER

[jintermont]

W3rd

[jintermont]

Today was her do date for the baby too she had to take off work

[ST1G]

lol holy shit. I feel like a fucking asshole but tears are running down my face

I don't think you are because I'm dying as well.