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  • Zeemz
    E30 Addict
    • Jan 2012
    • 485

    #1

    Movember - My cancer story - Guys please read, especially the younger guys

    Movemeber is all about raising awareness to men's health issues, but especially about testicular and prostate cancer. A lot of people don't know that testicular cancer impacts young guys typically 15-34. Being that this forum is used by predominantly men and a lot of younger men, I figured sharing it here could have a positive impact.

    If any other guys are on here participating in Movember, I encourage you to share your story if you are comfortable, share your fundraising links on here and bump the thread throughout the month with your stache growth photos.

    The following is taken from a facebook post I posted yesterday.

    Originally posted by zeemz

    Well Movember is here and I guess it is time for me to try to grow a nice stache. Perhaps I can grow one even sweeter than this one from years ago. For one thing, this year it means a lot more to me.

    2017 was a hard year for my family. My sister was diagnosed with breast cancer on March 15th. Five days later on March 20th I was diagnosed with testicular cancer. Now six months since my surgery and it being Movember I wanted to share a part of my story to help bring awareness to testicular cancer but also men’s health in general.

    I, like a lot of men, never went to the doctor for an annual physical. As men we often ignore pains and symptoms to think we will be fine, because we are men and we are tough! My sister’s diagnosis shocked me into reality. I went immediately to see an urologist as I had brushed off a warning sign for a few months.

    Besides occasionally going to the doctor when I was sick, I don’t think I had been for a full annual physical since the one that was required to get before I went to college. It may or may not have detected things earlier, but it is something I should have been doing all along. Even more important is I should have listened to my body and got checked out sooner.

    After numerous tests and doctor appointments April 7th I had surgery to remove the tumor which meant losing a testicle. Not something that any guy wants to hear, but you keep moving forward. In reality I wanted that thing out of my body as soon as I was told it was it was cancer. I was very lucky the tumor was contained in the one testicle and no chemo or radiation would be necessary. I am now 6 months out and my first two post opp CT scans are clean. I have 4.5 years of regular appointments and CT scans to go, but I promise you I am not going to miss or delay any of them.

    A lot of people don’t know that testicular cancer is known as a “young man’s disease.” It is typically found in young men 15-34. At 36 I am a rare outlier in the statistics. If you are no longer general age range doesn’t mean you shouldn’t be checking yourself as you too could be an outlier like me. Not to mention as we get a little older as much as we would prefer to skip out on the prostate exam it might just save your life.

    Young women grow up with a consistent message to regularly check their breast. Men not so much about checking out their boys. I actually had to google it what I was looking for when I first had symptoms. However self-checks are not enough sometimes. I actually did a few when I first started having pain, but everything felt fine, no irregularities no consistent pain. I reverted back to, I am a man and I will be ok. I rationalized it by saying I have a 6 year old who I have taken a knee or an elbow from more times than I would like to; it is probably just bruised. I didn’t listen to my body.

    What I want most from people reading this is to have a greater awareness about men specific cancers and what men need to do to detect them as early as possible:
    https://us.movember.com/mens-health/testicular-cancer
    https://us.movember.com/mens-health/prostate-cancer

    I think this is the most important take away and might apply to some women reading this as well. Regular checkups and annual physicals are important. My sister’s cancer was detected due to a routine screening and if she had delayed it or skipped a year it would have been detrimental and possibly fatal.

    Last but not least to everyone, I know we can be stubborn sometimes, but listen to your body. It is telling you things!

    No donation is necessary or expected, but they are always greatly appreciated. I have created two different donation pages linked below, one to promote men’s health and awareness of testicular and prostate cancer and one to help fund research and treatment for cancers of all types.

    Movember Foundation – For the past 13 years they have promoted men’s health, many of which you might know about due to November being also well known as Movember, where men grow mustaches during the month of November to raise money and awareness of some of the biggest health issues faced by men: prostate cancer, testicular cancer, and mental health and suicide prevention

    Movember Donation Link - https://mobro.co/13630052

    The Jimmy Fund – solely supports Boston's Dana-Farber Cancer Institute, raising funds for adult and pediatric cancer care and research to improve the chances of survival for cancer patients around the world. Eighty-eight cents of every dollar you give goes directly to cancer research and patient care.

    Jimmy Fund Donation Link - https://www.kintera.org/c.dtIOKYNKLk...5OOIfLSIbOVKwH

    For those that know my sister. I think I can speak for both of us, as terrible as it was that we both were diagnosed at the same time our already special bond grew even stronger as we had each other to lean on while truly understanding one another in a very scary time. Beyond what I said briefly above, I will not say too much about my sister as that is her story and hers to share, but I will say her long hard road has finally come to a finish with her last recent surgery. Cam I love you and I can’t wait to celebrate our 2022 Cancer Free party together!

    I also want to say a huge thank you to my family and friends for everything these past few months I love you guys. Even just short phone calls to see how I was feeling and the cards did not go unnoticed and were immensely appreciated.
    Last edited by Zeemz; 11-02-2017, 07:59 AM.
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  • 2mAn
    Señior Mod
    • Aug 2010
    • 20110

    #2
    What was the warning sign that you overlooked?
    Simon
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    • Zeemz
      E30 Addict
      • Jan 2012
      • 485

      #3
      Originally posted by 2mAn
      What was the warning sign that you overlooked?
      Since this is R3v I don't have to be PC. My left nut hurt!

      It wasn't all the time, but every once in a while and didn't hurt when I did the self exam. When I did the self exam and didn't feel anything abnormal I figured I was fine. Since the pain would come and go and was temporary I figured it wasn't serious, I should have gone to see the doctor sooner.
      Last edited by Zeemz; 11-29-2017, 05:20 PM.
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      1990 325is Sterlingsilber - Current Project
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      • 2mAn
        Señior Mod
        • Aug 2010
        • 20110

        #4
        Originally posted by Zeemz
        Since this is R3v I don't have to be PC. My left nut hurt!

        It wasn't all the time, but every once in a while and didn't hurt when I did the self exam. When I did the self exam and didn't feel anything abnormal I figured I was fine. Since the pain would come and go and wasn't temporary, I should have gone to see the doctor sooner.
        Yes R3V off topic is NOT PC...

        Thats a bummer, but glad to hear it got caught before it became a serious issue. My Dad had TC late in life and is also now Diabetic, so Im constantly paranoid about stuff.
        Simon
        Current Cars:
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        • Javier h
          E30 Enthusiast
          • Sep 2007
          • 1189

          #5
          Hope you are well

          Thanks for posting. We often overlook health...and never question issues of mortality. From what I have learned eating right and exercise is often overlooked and yes, if symptoms linger go see a doctor.

          Last person I knew that thought he had a "cold" was actually kidney failure. Both kidneys were blown (ended up getting a transplant). While we can't be paranoid either covering all your bases is never a bad idea.

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          • superj
            Grease Monkey
            • Feb 2006
            • 397

            #6
            cancer sucks. I had skin cancer when I was 32 from being a life long sun kid (socal, Hawaii, south texas). they got it all in one shot, from my back (right on the spin area of skin, about mid way up) so now I look like I got shot from a large caliber rifle or pistol but when they did it, the area they cut out was about the size of a 50 cent piece. then, they found something they thought was worrisome on a check up 3 years ago (when I was 38) and they said it was to close to my eye so they were going to try burning and some creams because if that didn't work and they had to cut, I would probably lose the muscles that control my left eye. it sucked but after it was all done and healed, I am clear again (for a while).

            skin cancer is something that is caused when we are young. when you were a kid and no one put son block on you at the beach or lake and you got burned.. that leads to the stuff I am going through. but, skin type plays into it also. my family is of european descent, specifically Germany, Norway, and England so all fair skinned people. plus, I have colored eyes. I don't know why but colored eyes and fair skin is worse than brown eyes and fair skin.

            anyways, put sun block on your kids and keep an eye on your skin. if you got sun burned as a kid, really keep an eye on yourself because skin cancer kills more than almost any other type of cancer because people don't think they have an issue.

            I already figure I will die from skin cancer. I don't have any fear of it but I will keep fighting to not die from it. unfortunately, the "writing is already on the wall", so to speak with two events and I was under 40.

            all I can do is take care of my kids and teach them to watch out as they are both fair skinned and colored eyes also (one is a red head, even more vulnerable).

            sunblock or long sleeves my friends. wear a hat and watch your ears.

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            • superj
              Grease Monkey
              • Feb 2006
              • 397

              #7
              my friend's son just had a testical removed for cancer. he is 30 or 32.

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              • 15Michaeljoseph
                E30 Mastermind
                • Aug 2013
                • 1693

                #8
                I'm 20. About a year ago, my right nut hurt really bad, and I went to the doctor. I was paranoid and thought it was going to be TC, being so random and sudden, and of course, family history of assorted cancers. Had to do a bunch of infection tests was blindly prescribed an antibiotic 'just in case' etc... It took several visits over about a month for me to convince the doc it felt bad enough to warrant an ultrasound.

                The ultrasound turned up nothing wrong, but the pain persisted (then lessened) over a couple more weeks, and eventually went away. The best we could do was trace it down to injury due to biking too much. Ever since then, the right's always been a little bit more tender than the left.

                I was lucky (I think/hope)... But the point is, that something should have been done sooner on the part of the doc, because for something to come so sudden, and in that area, it should be considered urgent.

                Bottom line: If you suspect something is wrong, push for that shit to get checked. It's not something to mess around with.

                Women are encouraged to get periodic mamograms... Guys should be encouraged to get periodic testograms.

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                • superj
                  Grease Monkey
                  • Feb 2006
                  • 397

                  #9
                  you should convert to a recumbent. than you won't have that type of pain and fears of tc

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                  • supermansocks95
                    Mod Crazy
                    • Feb 2016
                    • 756

                    #10
                    I need to go to the doctor, but I just don't know where to search to find one in my area. I haven't had a checkup since high school. I know that I have a traumatized nerve root in my leg from longboarding. Literally a whole 5in(at least) diameter section of my leg is numb and burns when rubbed against. I'm also pretty sure I have borderline asthma(secondhand smoke is a thing). And my gf thinks I have IBS.
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                    • IRON-E
                      I waste 90% of my day here and all I got was this stupid title
                      • Dec 2007
                      • 16548

                      #11
                      I'm glad you recovered man, this is way too common to pass up, I will go back to the Dr and ask for a testicular test.
                      Thank you for bringing awareness to the community.
                      @IRON-E30 aka Edwin:D

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                      • 2mAn
                        Señior Mod
                        • Aug 2010
                        • 20110

                        #12
                        If my Dr was a smoking hot girl, I would get this checked monthly
                        Simon
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                        • E30 Wagen
                          No R3VLimiter
                          • Jul 2005
                          • 3425

                          #13
                          Pain in your balls isn't fun. I had a really bad varicocele that required two surgeries to fix and caused lefty to shrink. I couldn't imagine dealing with cancer down there.

                          I wouldn't be surprised if I got skin cancer from all the 6 years of welding I did. My chest and neck were burned all the time if I didn't wear a jacket.
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                          • superj
                            Grease Monkey
                            • Feb 2006
                            • 397

                            #14
                            Oh ya, welding too. I weld with just normal shirt and shorts on so i have been "sun" burned from that too. And that really hurts

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                            • e30austin
                              I waste 90% of my day here and all I got was this stupid title
                              • Sep 2010
                              • 15382

                              #15
                              I haven't been to the doctor in 10 years or more. Probably should go. This thread was a good reminder. Glad you're doing better!


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