So i just proposed to my girlfriend of 2.5 years.....

[Quik325ix]

....and i got turned down. i half way figured that might happen because she and i have been having some rough times. But over the last 2 months things have been awesome....but heres the shit of this...she is more upset about this than i am....i dont fucking get it. She rejects my proposal, and shes the one thats upset and all. I know we can work through this, but its like damn....

[CleanAzzE30z]

Dude, youre likely very young. DONT get married, and secondly, move on. Try and get into a relationship with someone whos not so much of a fucking drama baby. She rejected you for a reason (not neccessarily your fault) but it sounds like a waffleswaffleswaffleswafflesy move to me. Seriously. I know LOTS on this topic. Take your balls out of her purse and move on. Trust me youll waste tons of time getting to the point Im speaking from. PM me if you need to. Ive been through it all.


Mariano

[redhatpat]

Women....

Have a cold beer and life goes on. Just accept that you'll never understand women and life is a lot easier. :)

Mmmm, beer.

ps. I'm married with 2 kids, and I long ago realized I'll never fully understand my wife. Oh well.

[CleanAzzE30z]

Great avatar, redhat. I have all their books. I even have the commemotarive full print thing. Anyways, yeah have a few beers, drown your sorrows in alcohol like most of us adults do, and wake up and clear your mind. Im telling you this from all the way from Los Angeles, and I can already guarantee with my life, this girl is NOT marriage material.


Mariano

[Quik325ix]

ya know...its a possibility that i just fucked up and asked her prematurely....she just might not be ready.

[CleanAzzE30z]

If she was just "not ready", I can understand, but the fact that she's tripping on you instead of seeing it as a commitment YOU have made to her, is where the bullshit is.

Mariano

[Quik325ix]

i really do think thats what it is. shes not harassing me and she understands the commitment, i think she just feels like she made me think that she was ready for that or something and that we arent on the same wavelength or something. i mean.....mushy stuff aside, i know she loves me....but she just mixed up now..... its just kinda adding insult to injury

[92 mtechnic cabrio]

If all you have is an E30, you're not ready to get married.

Unless....you know....she's got like.....a lot of money....and stuff.

[Vedubin01]

:hitler:this thread is useless without pics!:hitler:


For real, stay single dont get married!

[Quik325ix]

She is #1 in her class for chemical engineering at Tech. She's got a 4.0 gpa, shes beautiful and shes quite rich. shes definitely marriage material. and being single isnt all that gratifying for me. i dont like dumb chics and thats what being single is....guys trying to fuck dumb chics. its just a really bad situation. i know it can be resolved but right now, she just wants her space so shes hanging out by herself in the bedroom and not talking. its not much fun

[TwoJ's]

what? being single is just guys trying to fuck dumb chicks? Maybe where you live, but single is what it's about. Sounds to me like serious relationships are only dumb guys that cling on to the first chick that comes along.

You need some different poon.

[Bill-B]

Sorry, but...

[Quik325ix]

shes hardly the first chic ive clinged onto....just the best. shes a great chic....but shes 2 years younger than me....and that probably has something to do with it

[payney8]

so shes 12? :P its up 2 you but your young poon is free if you huys end up breaking up l8r you'll regret it

[Jean]

maybe she is knows you two aren't ready yet, and it's a good thing she rejected at this time ? :D