There are lesbians who are lesbians because they like women, and there are lesbians who are lesbians because they hate men. Anytime you have you have a butch lesbian involved, there was childhood abuse of some sort. Probably on both sides of the relationship. Sometimes, when young girls are abused (in most cases sexually) they can develop a strong dislike for men and then assert themselves in an über-masculine manner either as a form of "payback" or as a cover for their deeply rooted fear. Other times, they develop a rather manic and hyper-sexual personality and become attracted to butch lesbians because they still crave men but to them a women is "safer". I hope this clears everything up for you!
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