Ugh...Divorce.

[jflip2002]

Amen

Get off your high horse jesus boy. Youd rather someone be unhappy and not be divorced, just to honor your word to god? Sounds AWESOME.

[SpecM]

Fishing for updates here from the OP

[RobertK]

Get off your high horse jesus boy. Youd rather someone be unhappy and not be divorced, just to honor your word to god? Sounds AWESOME.

Instead of blindly looking at the situation simply as one persons happiness it really has more to do with learning contentment and that's basically what the Word of God conveys. Yet you scoff at the notion simply because it's honored as a Christian moral. Whether you decide to believe in the Bible or not it is still full of great life concepts that IF practiced might actually improve the quality of your life.

Once you learn that true happiness is directly related to your ability to be content with what you have then life becomes a whole new ball game - Chirstian or Non-Christian. ;)

[SpecM]

Instead of blindly looking at the situation simply as one persons happiness it really has more to do with learning contentment and that's basically what the Word of God conveys. Yet you scoff at the notion simply because it's honored as a Christian moral. Whether you decide to believe in the Bible or not it is still full of great life concepts that IF practiced might actually improve the quality of your life.

Once you learn that true happiness is directly related to your ability to be content with what you have then life becomes a whole new ball game - Chirstian or Non-Christian. ;)

Robert you are so smart

*non-sarcastic*

[Aptyp]

LOL at the newly found wisdom.

[SpecM]

LOL at the newly found wisdom.

Don't LOL at me. It's not nice :(

[Ral]

shit man, I thought it was great advice

[Aptyp]

Don't LOL at me. It's not nice :(

I meant Robert, he has just gone through a life changing experience. After what he's gone through with his family, friends, and r3v, he has a new found appreciation for everything.

[RobertK]

I meant Robert, he has just gone through a life changing experience. After what he's gone through with his family, friends, and r3v, he has a new found appreciation for everything.

I found contentment in my relationship before cancer.. cancer just taught me what is and is not worth getting stressed out over. ;)

(Not here to preach just to convey my thoughts on the subject, by no means do I judge the decision of the OP).

[der affe]

OK, my turn to chime in.

there are a lot of things you need to consider.

did you REALLY think it through before you got married, meaning why did you get married?

religious reasons? (living in sin, blah, blah ETC)

commitment? (did you or her feel you could not be committed to each other with out being married. did having that piece of paper make things better for both of you? just her? if you couldn't be committed to each other without the paper/legal contract what makes you think a piece of paper would seal the deal. were you threatened with the "marry me or it is over" ?)

to show your love for that person? (you can't show you love them with out the paper?)

financial reasons?

the sex? (although essential to a healthy relationship and a reason many stray, never a reason to get married)

life changing event?

if people would put more forethought into getting married, there would be way less divorces

think about these things and how or why they relate to your relationship with her. that will help you decide whether you want to go through with the divorce or not.

for those thinking of getting married young (under 25) don't do it. there are too many things in life you will experience before then, these things will shape who you are or will become. i didn't say you can't be in a committed relationship still, but things can change drastically in those years, and the person you are in love with may change or no longer be there person you thought they were in that time.

[RobertK]

for those thinking of getting married young (under 25) don't do it. there are too many things in life you will experience before then, these things will shape who you are or will become. i didn't say you can't be in a committed relationship still, but things can change drastically in those years, and the person you are in love with may change or no longer be there person you thought they were in that time.

QFT.. too much going on before 25 to really know what you want outta life.

[StereoInstaller1]

Korean divorce FTW.

http://english.peopledaily.com.cn/200608/25/eng20060825_296733.html

[Devil Inc]

MAJOR UPDATE...

Well, it has been awhile since I've been in this thread. Here it goes, at one point I returned home with a list to have us work on, together. Needless to say that didn't pan out as planned, and one morning she flipped out on me. So, I packed what I could during her rants and raves and left. It's been almost 3 months, I've only talked to her a handful of times.

She called me today to inform me that she is willing to sign-off on the title to the e30 and I agreed to sign-off on the title to our house(mobile home), Mother! Fucking! Hurray! is all I have to say. She informed me that she was diagnosed with cancer/tumor, and that she is ok, had surgery that successfully removed it from what she told me. I'm glad she's ok, but I feel no sympathy for her. Yes, I'm a dick. She also told me that her employer fired her for missing work due to the surgery, HAHA. It gets good now, because she said that she is taking the company to court because of a civil rights violation, which since we still are married that I could be looking at a portion of her judgement. I hope it's worth a million, I get half that bitch!


Cliff's-I get to keep the e30!!! :up:

[PiercedE30]

Bravo.

HAHAHAHA

Yes, I am a dick.

[Nicademus]

MAJOR UPDATE...

Well, it has been awhile since I've been in this thread. Here it goes, at one point I returned home with a list to have us work on, together. Needless to say that didn't pan out as planned, and one morning she flipped out on me. So, I packed what I could during her rants and raves and left. It's been almost 3 months, I've only talked to her a handful of times.

She called me today to inform me that she is willing to sign-off on the title to the e30 and I agreed to sign-off on the title to our house(mobile home), Mother! Fucking! Hurray! is all I have to say. She informed me that she was diagnosed with cancer/tumor, and that she is ok, had surgery that successfully removed it from what she told me. I'm glad she's ok, but I feel no sympathy for her. Yes, I'm a dick. She also told me that her employer fired her for missing work due to the surgery, HAHA. It gets good now, because she said that she is taking the company to court because of a civil rights violation, which since we still are married that I could be looking at a portion of her judgement. I hope it's worth a million, I get half that bitch!


Cliff's-I get to keep the e30!!! :up:

Well at least you tried to make it work.