Well I'm single now.....total BS

[Jonny Cash]

My gf wanted me to move in with her. I said "ok" stayed there for the last two nights. My cell phone dies and I go home and charge it and pack some stuff up while I'm waiting. As soon as it charges I call her and talk to her. SHe says she's been waiting for me to eat dinner...ummm ok. I say sorry and asked if she mad cause I can her in her voice that somethings off. She says no and I say I'll be over soon. They she calls back and talks about how I don't "seem" like I want to live there. I say "well yeah it is kinda scary in a way because blah blah blah blah, but I'm LOVE you so I'd like to do it". Well now I'm single and its total shit because amongst other reasons I had to pay out my ass the last few months. December - Christmas; January - her birthday; Feburary - V (agina) day. I want a refund please. I should have listened to Daniel months ago when I had issues previously. This blows, I have stuff over there, this blows, I really do love her. Shitty shitty gay gay. THe money thing really isn't even something I care about, its just something to try and put anger onto instead of crying like a bitch. SHe's one of my best friends too and we had a pet together. Losing her friendship and my pet is the worst and no we can't stay friends. I'm not sitting around while some fuck tard puts his greasy cock in her. Fuck that. Back to the Gun Thread for me.

When a woman wants out, she'll make up any ridiculous excuse. Its out of your control now, think of it as a blessing. Im serious.

[Wh33lhop]

Yeah it's much better to avoid a hormone driven, that time of the month, irrational argument about what color drapes you are getting for you new house.

As long as they match the carpet...

[delatlanta1281]

Like a fucking psychic I am.

[RainMan]

I'm sure these jackalopes on this site would talk shit on the book I told you aboot. It is however useful and helps girls to realize they play a huge role in their own misery.

Seriously, can I get the title of this book? Sounds like something I could use, greatly.

[YAN-3]

had the same sh*t happen to me. the end result.....im single with a bunch of my time and $ spent (wasted) on her.

[h0lmes]

had the same sh*t happen to me. the end result.....im single with a bunch of my time and $ spent (wasted) on her.

Think of it this way, if you didn't "waste" your time with women, you would still be a virgin. Yeah chicks are fucking nuts, but I love em.

[smonkbmw]

Imagine you have a girlfriend with a HUGE ass and one day she asks you if her ass looks big. All she really wants is a little assurance, from you her boyfriend, that she is still sexy. All you have to do is say no even though she does have a big ass. If you're honest, and you say her ass does look big, you risk an emo fit anda night on the couch.

this is partially true. some "girls" are smart enough to know when you are lying to make them feel better, this subject could definitely go either way. tread lightly on this one as ive been there, a few times.

nic (if thats your name), alls i know of you is your posts on this site and the fact that you bought my m3 handbrake cover from (thanks for leaving me transaction feedback, dick, just joking). but i would strongly recommend watching your ass for the next month or so. the possible threat of a guy "friend" is one to be concerned about.

BUT

from the sounds of it, maybe she did just get weirded out. no one knows better than you. we can only all sit back and speculate and offer from personal experience. only you know what the real feel of the situation is. but, proceed with caution.

[ragged325]

I agree with the "proceed with caution" warning. IMO, in situations like these, it's often the girls parents that are helping to pressure things. None of this may apply to you, but that "Dr. Laura" lady on the radio is pretty popular. I've never listened, but I guess the idea is that parents shouldn't let their daughters get impregnated by people that can not support them and are not married to them. I'm not trying to be an ass, it's just that I've been there before. Parents spend a lot of time and effort raising their kids and when they get older they are concerned with where their lives are going.

I'd feel bad about butting in and shoving my opinion where it doesn't belong, but I didn't start a thread on the internet about all of this.

An old girlfriend used to tell me about how her parents told her she should dump me because I was going nowhere. After she broke up with me, I considered them assholes for that. Now, I can see that they had a point.

[lylefk]

Been here...IMO, she has hit the point in most woman's lives where she wants the house, family, pet, 2.5 kids, etc. She is looking for stability, consistency and a sense of being an "adult". She wants to feel like she's doing something with her life, something she can be proud of...and is with someone who her parents approve of, friends like, etc. The other night she came to the conclusion that you aren't going to mold into who she wants in her life (at least right now). She sees the characteristics of the man that will help her create this new situation and tried to change you overnight...

Then freaked when you didn't.

You have to keep in mind that she had a huge life change planned out when she asked you to move in. She was already thinking of you in a suit with a commute and a 9-5. When you didn't immediately mold into that, she over-reacted.

So, ask yourself this...do you see becoming this man soon? Do you want to change into that for her? Most of us reach it eventually, in some form or another. If not, leave. Some day isn't good enough, she will lose patience again within a month, I'd guess.

Women (and men) tend to get comfortable in a long-term relationship. I imagine she got lonely and missed that part of her life...started second-guessing her decision, wondering if you were with someone else, etc etc...all of a sudden she's blowing up your phone, distraught, crying, unreasonable.

The other dude will most likely continue to be an issue. She will think about him, compare you to him and wish you were more like him...and possibly sleep with him or kiss him (depending on whats she's like) around that one-month mark.

My advice is to walk away, unless you are committed to becoming that man she wants RIGHT NOW. Oh, and take the pet. And the food. And her favorite thing you bought her.

Obviously we don't have all the information, so this is just what I assume is going on. It happens to every woman at least once, I'd imagine. They all seem to have that one guy that treated them right when they were younger that they wish they could a guy like him again and the guy who was too immature that they tried to reign in but couldn't.

[Nicademus]

Lylefk, I think you're right on.

Ragged325, Dr.Laura has a lot of good advice. I know a lot of people probably wouldn't even give her a chance but its good stuff. She's "Pro-male" and blames talks about how woman cause many of their own problems.

Other people, a lot of good info in here and a good amount of it is right on. In a way I regret getting back together because I have my own issues/concerns about the relationship. By they way her mom loves me and tells her that I'm so amazing and blah blah blah. Her dad thinks I look young or something like that. I dunno, her parents are divorced which I don't like.

[h0lmes]

Been here...IMO, she has hit the point in most woman's lives where she wants the house, family, pet, 2.5 kids, etc. She is looking for stability, consistency and a sense of being an "adult". She wants to feel like she's doing something with her life, something she can be proud of...and is with someone who her parents approve of, friends like, etc. The other night she came to the conclusion that you aren't going to mold into who she wants in her life (at least right now). She sees the characteristics of the man that will help her create this new situation and tried to change you overnight...

Then freaked when you didn't.

You have to keep in mind that she had a huge life change planned out when she asked you to move in. She was already thinking of you in a suit with a commute and a 9-5. When you didn't immediately mold into that, she over-reacted.

So, ask yourself this...do you see becoming this man soon? Do you want to change into that for her? Most of us reach it eventually, in some form or another. If not, leave. Some day isn't good enough, she will lose patience again within a month, I'd guess.

Women (and men) tend to get comfortable in a long-term relationship. I imagine she got lonely and missed that part of her life...started second-guessing her decision, wondering if you were with someone else, etc etc...all of a sudden she's blowing up your phone, distraught, crying, unreasonable.

The other dude will most likely continue to be an issue. She will think about him, compare you to him and wish you were more like him...and possibly sleep with him or kiss him (depending on whats she's like) around that one-month mark.

My advice is to walk away, unless you are committed to becoming that man she wants RIGHT NOW. Oh, and take the pet. And the food. And her favorite thing you bought her.

Obviously we don't have all the information, so this is just what I assume is going on. It happens to every woman at least once, I'd imagine. They all seem to have that one guy that treated them right when they were younger that they wish they could a guy like him again and the guy who was too immature that they tried to reign in but couldn't.

I think you're over analyzing the situation. It sounds to me like they didn't break up for any good reason, just stupid bickering.