Not that it matters but, gays?

[Ryan Stewart]

Im comfortable in saying that I dont get it. Not a bit. I can relate that a dude can be attractive (as in I can recognize why women would want a guy) but I just cant resolve the concept of finding a guy attractive. I assume its the same for gay guys and women, its just a "does not compute" thing. As for not wanting to see two guys sucking face but I dont think its purely the whole "gay" thing as much as not finding them attractive. I am grossed out by seeing two fat slobs sucking face as well. Everyone jokes about wanting to see lesbians fucking but they only imagine two supermodels. Nobody talks about the bull dykes down at the Harley bar.

But as for their rights, its bullshit that we want tell people who they can or can't fuck. People should be allowed to fuck, suck or crag dangle anyone they want as long as they are willing and able to give consent.

Besides, gays are great. My hair looks fabulous and I get great service in restaurants because of them.

[Vtec?lol]

Wow.
So is that why you're so hot about the subject? I would never label you or try to call anyone out. In glad this is all coming out.

None of my questions are answered though.
Are we to pretend its all ok? How do you get the majority of the haters to understand or at least listen?
Why did the president retract his comment on gay marriage?

[Vtec?lol]

Im comfortable in saying that I dont get it. Not a bit. I can relate that a dude can be attractive (as in I can recognize why women would want a guy) but I just cant resolve the concept of finding a guy attractive. I assume its the same for gay guys and women, its just a "does not compute" thing. As for not wanting to see two guys sucking face but I dont think its purely the whole "gay" thing as much as not finding them attractive. I am grossed out by seeing two fat slobs sucking face as well. Everyone jokes about wanting to see lesbians fucking but they only imagine two supermodels. Nobody talks about the bull dykes down at the Harley bar.

But as for their rights, its bullshit that we want tell people who they can or can't fuck. People should be allowed to fuck, suck or crag dangle anyone they want as long as they are willing and able to give consent.

Besides, gays are great. My hair looks fabulous and I get great service in restaurants because of them.

So you're pretty much ok with them? As long as they aren't loud and rambunctious?

Unfortunately when people hear the word gay they imagine someone flamboyant and loud. Most of the gays I know are pretty cool and manly.
It's kinda like when you see a girl and she's degrading herself by wearing little to nothing she's labeled a ho or tramp.

[Ryan Stewart]

Oh you only wanted specific questions answered:

1. Let them figure it out. Since I dont get it I cant give them any advice.
2. Depends, if they are normal people but gay then I treat them like everyone else. If they are a 300lb man in a wonder woman costume then I typically avoid them, just like I would a 300lb man in a Boba Fett costume at Dragon Con.
3. Who knows, I never had a best friend come out. Every person I know who is openly gay was openly gay before I knew them.
4. Ask for decorating advice? If they are children how do they even know?


You cant say "this is for shits and giggles" and then whine about the responses.

[Ryan Stewart]

So you're pretty much ok with them? As long as they aren't loud and rambunctious?

Its nothing to do with they. I don't like anyone who is "loud and rambunctious." I don't watch Jersey Shore.

I choose to judge and hate all people equally, independent of race or sexual orientation.

[Tamataz]

Not gay, but i think some guys are handsome. Like Daniel Craig, common man! I don't have a problem with gay guys if they are not like over the top, or like kissing some dude i don't really want to see any of that. In Iceland people are pretty cool with gays

In like 4th grade me and this other kid kissed because these 2 girls dared us lmao. Yep theres my secret out of the box.


How about this, in Iceland, and many other places in Europe, public swimming pools and shit, the dressing rooms are huge and open, you shower with other dudes butt ass naked. Its just culture, nobody dont really gives a fuck, its not gay. The rooms are split by sex, any age. Sometimes even dads have to bring their very young daughters to go swimming, and have to bring them into the "mens" changing/showering room because the daughter cant do it themselves in the womans room. And vise versa, when i was little my mom brought swimming and had to take me into the womans changing room; long story short, titties were seen. :P

Its like America is tainted, most are not comfortable with nakedness of same sex. They cant even handle taking a piss in a urinal next to someone else, i think they are the insecure gay ones. Like my friend mike, he plays baseball and constantly slaps his teammates friends and has even when there's a lot of friends hanging out, and he has mooned us at least like 3 times like a waffleswaffleswaffleswaffleswaffleswaffles. However, if we go to the bathroom, HE HAS A PROBLEM PISSING IN THE URINAL NEXT TO YOU? GROW THE FUCK UP waffleswaffleswaffleswaffleswaffles, NOBODYS TRYING TO SEE YOUR DICK.

[ohthejosh]

Idc who you are, but if you are loud and obnoxious, I will respond in a negative reaction. (edit; I don't always react negatively. But if you are always in my face trying to prove a point whatever it maybe then yea Ill be upset)

If you are gay, I have no problem with it whatsoever. We can hangout and chill and whatever but if you are loud and proud and everything you do and say is showing people you are gay and you yourself are okay with it so everyone around you MUST accept it then I have an issue with it.

It's like how those of you who are in opposition of religion. You do not like religion forced upon you because you don't like it when that person with everything they say and do is preaching that they are Christian, Muslim, Jewish, etc.

Another example are douchebags who are straight but feel as if they must constantly prove it by talking about how they like all this manly shit. Its obnoxious and annoying.

Now another thought on the subject of gays and lesbians, where the hell did the whole lisp and "gay twang" (Not sure what to call it) come from. Is it suppose to show you are effiminate? Why does it come out that way? I dont see any women straight or lesbian act or talk the way some of the gay men do. It's like it was something society forced on gays to do to identify them as gay. It's odd to me in that sense. Its like accents in my opinion.

[z31maniac]

Its nothing to do with they. I don't like anyone who is "loud and rambunctious." I don't watch Jersey Shore.

I choose to judge and hate all people equally, independent of race or sexual orientation.

This

[Thizzelle]

why do gay people have to go around showing that they are gay? Straight people don't go around showing they are straight. Same thing for Vegans, if you eat meat you don't go around saying "hay guys I eat meat" but vegans always have to be saying "no I don't eat meat, I'm vegan, you should try it". Who gives a shit, just be you, don't need to televise it.

[Pantless Spency]

whatever floats your boat.
if your gay cool, if your straight cool.
as long as no physical harm is done to me or people i love, and nothing inhumane was done, i could give five shits less.
ive had a gay co worker, and my cousin is gay. based off the two of them i love the gays, there fucking hilarious and positive minded, given they sometimes get in the dumps because they live a depressing lifestyle by todays standards, for example all you homophobe fags putting them down as if there a lesser being.
let people be who they are.
and if your worried about your kid seeing one man kiss another man on the streets, why the fuck do you have cable, internet, or any other form of media. its 1000 times more likely they would get there "gay influences" from there, and theres nothing wrong with it at all, if your a dad and you disown your son for being gay, you deserve to rot in hell because you failed your child as a parent.



and all you homophobe retards are more likely to be gay than most of us.
its just sexuality, get comfortable with it, it's not going anywhere fast.

[Roysneon]

why do gay people have to go around showing that they are gay? Straight people don't go around showing they are straight. Same thing for Vegans, if you eat meat you don't go around saying "hay guys I eat meat" but vegans always have to be saying "no I don't eat meat, I'm vegan, you should try it". Who gives a shit, just be you, don't need to televise it.

I've wondered before if that was really true, or if the minority opinion gets noticed more because it wasn't heard as commonly. Your post just made me think about it.

[JBird]

this is not going to end well

Pessimist. Sad but you are probably right. And the reason is because most of the people on this forum can't have a serious, grown-up conversation about subjects such as this.

[Pantless Spency]

I've wondered before if that was really true, or if the minority opinion gets noticed more because it wasn't heard as commonly. Your post just made me think about it.

if there was never difference clearly made in society then they would be a little less showboat about it.
think about it.
if your american, your gonna be like fuck yeah america.
if your america and losing a war against the middle east, your gonna be a whole lot more fuck yeah america to show your courage, compassion, strength, and how proud you are to be a part.


same shit applies for them, they have a struggle because of all the ass hats who cant get over two dudes being together.

[z31maniac]

^Why do people have to throw in the "as long as they don't harm me" type stuff?

As if being gay is equivalent to being a murderous psychopath.

Shit.

[JBird]

I don't appreciate when straight couples kiss and touch in public.

Why don't you appreciate it? I have often felt awkward showing public displays of affection (PDA), but then I also have thought that you are supposed to if you love the person. So, I would like to hear about why you don't like it.