NOR-CAL General Chat.

[Pantless Spency]

Keep your pants on!





:p

due to this weather today i had to ditch the pants.

opted for the shorts.

[ohthejosh]

Damn... you fools are writing essays up in here.. wtf is this?

For how long?



Anddd got caught playing call of duty in the library today :(.. No more xbox at school

Just for maybe a week or two while I find a new set of wheels. Sucks ass to find out ALL 4 of my wheels weren't true and needed to be fixed.

The guy cut me a deal tho, 740 is to remove all blemishes (rash&bent areas), powdercoated, mount & balance. Bottlecaps would suffice also as long as i am provided OEM lugs, I has none :(

[ohthejosh]

due to this weather today i had to ditch the pants.

opted for the shorts.

lies, i heard you were wearing SHANTS!!!!!!!!!!

[Vivek]

I have tomorrow off--our last day off for the year. After that, 4 more weeks and finals. Oh and my girlfriend is pissing me the FUCK off. It'll be a year for us in exactly a week.

[Pantless Spency]

I have tomorrow off--our last day off for the year. After that, 4 more weeks and finals. Oh and my girlfriend is pissing me the FUCK off. It'll be a year for us in exactly a week.

oh quit your bitchin, just wait till your out of highschool, you have no idea dude.
i don't have a single day off every single week.

[ohthejosh]

fck being an adult.

[Vivek]

oh quit your bitchin, just wait till your out of highschool, you have no idea dude.
i don't have a single day off every single week.

More importantly, how have you been with your GF for 4+ years?

[Pantless Spency]

More importantly, how have you been with your GF for 4+ years?

because she's awesome and were both really serious about loving/caring for each other.
and she loves the way i treat her in bed

[cyberkaa]

due to this weather today i had to ditch the pants.

opted for the shorts.

Seriously loving this weather.

[JinormusJ]

Damn... you fools are writing essays up in here.. wtf is this?

:D

More importantly, how have you been with your GF for 4+ years?

There was an age and generation where people would work at fixing something that was broken instead of throwing it away ;)
Relationships are about the other person: not you. I find it funny that the generation that cares least about other people are the ones most likely to "hook up". Not implying anything about you, just basic observation...

[Vivek]

There as an age and generation where people would work at fixing something that was broken instead of throwing it away ;)
Relationships are about the other person: not you. I find it funny that the generation that cares least about other people are the ones most likely to "hook up". Not implying anything about you, just basic observation...

Trust me, we've fixed a LOT of things in the past year. It's just getting kinda bad and we're always fighting.

[JinormusJ]

I see.. I can't exactly be your therapist as I know close to nothing about you or your gf, so it's best If I keep my mouth shut.

One thing I can say though.. If you two are just fighting for the sake of fighting and it's about something seriously insignificant, GTHO.. Especially if she's the one nagging/starting fights. If it's you (and this is where you gotta be honest With yourself), just work on checking yourself. Try to see wheres she's coming from too though.. Best of luck

[Vivek]

I see.. I can't exactly be your therapist as I know close to nothing about you or your gf, so it's best If I keep my mouth shut.

One thing I can say though.. If you two are just fighting for the sake of fighting and it's about something seriously insignificant, GTHO.. Especially if she's the one nagging/starting fights. If it's you (and this is where you gotta be honest With yourself), just work on checking yourself. Try to see wheres she's coming from too though.. Best of luck

Technically, I start them. They're all based on something irrational that she does though. For example, we were going to go to sac for a bball game that I was extremely excited for, and at the last minute she cancelled on me, and somehow turned it all on me, talking about how I hurt her so much, etc (all I did was get understandably mad when she said she didn't wanna go). Not to mention I do many things I don't particularly like with her because she wants to, and I try to make the best of it.

[JinormusJ]

Have you tried explaining your feelings to her..? I know it sounds corny, but hear me out

Girls work emotionally, so if you stoop down to her emotional level from your logical argument, she might see the light. Guys work logically, so your logic is telling you "I do things with you; You should do things with me", and in a healthy thriving relationship, that's how it is. However, she might not feel that's the case. That's when its your duty to convey your feelings, not just consider the previous statement is assumed and get mad because something happened that contradicted the exchange of trusts.

Pretty much what I'm saying is sit her down and say "Baby, I'm sorry I hurt you because I got mad and we fought afterward. I didn't want to hurt you, and I'm sorry. Really, I was just frustrated because I feel like __________ when you _________, and I just want you to see that when you do __________ I think it's __(unfair, bad, not-cool)___ because I always ___________" give or take lol
Apologize first, explain later. Turn away from "You always" type of arguments and try "I feel" ones instead. "You" arguments always come of accusative that that will shut anyone down no matter who they are. Give her some space and some time to process everything and change. If she's still defiant, drop it like its hot.


Essays FTW

[cmybimmer]

i agree with thisss....

gay!!!

I know.. Whatever I guess, more time for studying? Lol

Just for maybe a week or two while I find a new set of wheels. Sucks ass to find out ALL 4 of my wheels weren't true and needed to be fixed.

The guy cut me a deal tho, 740 is to remove all blemishes (rash&bent areas), powdercoated, mount & balance. Bottlecaps would suffice also as long as i am provided OEM lugs, I has none :(

I got you bruh.. I can do about 2 weeks, was gunna throw on the bottle caps soon bcuz my current tires are worn, but probably wont for a couple more weeks.. I have bottle caps with mismatched tires and like 14 lug nuts lol.