Originally posted by Pantless Spency
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To bring a small glimmer of hope to this... we did manage to get a house at the end of March this year. One of my best friends (who I met via BMW meets and drives) is a realtor now and a damn good one I might add. He kept networking with other realtors until he found a solid house coming to market soon, but not yet listed on MLS. He learned through a few conversations with the listing agent that the sellers had a lot of medical bills and upcoming treatments within the family and wanted a quick close to have some liquid cash. He hustled his ass off, and though the official record says we closed in 14 days it was actually 5 business days. The lender was the worst part of the whole deal because they were sloppy with details and didn't communicate as well, but in the end everything went smooth, just fast and STRESSFUL. At 39 I finally have a place of my own, a garage for the cars, and the most peace and freedom I've ever had in my life. Still a long road ahead of us of course, but my little family is super happy.
If anyone needs an amazing person on their side, let me know and I'll share his name and contact info. Yes Cali is expensive, but that's because it's so god damn desirable. Nowhere else can you be in 7 different climates within 4 hours of just about anywhere within the state. The weather is amazing for the most part, we've got every culture in the world represented here, I grew up in San Diego, LA and now the SF bay area and I've never wanted to HAVE to leave. Really glad I didn't give up too easy.
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