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    confusing woman issues

    *forewarning*
    i came here for an unbiased opinion, only reason i am writing this on here.

    Now, theres this chick who I believe to be the hottest woman in existance, (of course this can be argued many times over). I didnt know what to say to her, so one day she left the computer lab to go pee, so i stole her SN off her buddy list that was still up. Well over winter break about December 10th, i initiated a convo with her and told her i stole her SN ( i know, bad idea). She happened to remember who i was, only because she gave me a survey to fill out for her sociology class. I told her that she probably thought i was a stalker, but Im really not. In this situation i thought she was hot enough to warrant getting her sn by any means possible.

    So after talking a few times she really doesnt seem to freaked out, so i told her i thought she was pretty hot. And she thanked me, yadda yadda, said she thought i was cute, but that doesnt mean shit, she may have just felt obligated to tell me that too.

    So fast forward to like a week or week and a half ago. I asked her out, told her i wanted to take her out to dinner. Ive talked to her on the phone like once, never really talked to her face to face. SHe says that would be fun and she woiuld enjoy that. Well, it ends up not working out b/c she has to work, shes tired, ect. So i asked her if she wanted to come out with me on NYE, and she says she'll calll me back about it. She never did. Weve talked about hanging out since then, but nothing has materialized. But the thing is, if she really does not like me, why will she sometimes leave me messages on AIM when im away and shit. Like I would figure as persistent as I am, if she didnt want to hang out with me, she would block me or at least try not to comtact me. Shes left me several messages through AIM when im away. We dont really call eachother. Im not sure what the hell is going on. Im not much of a dater, coming off of 2 relationships that both lasted 2 yrs or longer.

    What the hell am I supposed to think? Do I keep asking her out or let it drop? I cannot figure her out for shit. Goddamn women!
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    #2
    what is your deal dude
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      #3
      I dont know Im asking you!

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        #4
        1. Dont try and figure her out, its worthless.
        2. Keep trying but dont take it to seriously, she may just be trying to be "nice."
        3. Only No means No.
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          #5
          what's to figure out, ask her out or forget about her. the worst she can do is say no.. she's not going to beat you up or something.
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            #6
            Cute = Not interested in most cases, or she can't make up her mind.

            Chicks can sometimes love attention and at other times play hard to get. My suggestion, ignore the whole thing for awhile. Let her keep iming your away messages and leave your number on it, so if she really wants to talk she can do so. She may just want to be friends at first or that's all she wants, hard to tell. But next time you talk to her, ask her if she wants to go to get coffee and ask her there if she wants to have a relationship with you that's more then friendship. Make sure you and her have fun in person and see how much you two click if you can get her to have a drink with you. Honesty really helps, so perhaps ask her if she wants to have a fling with you or have a long term relationship.


            Or, she's simply playing mind games and is going to rip your heart out.
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              #7
              eh true, idk, the day i told myself i was gonna drop it, she left me an IM. i didnt know what to do.
              Edit: maybe kdzrok or one of the other women can answer acurately.

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                #8
                this is college bag your own bitches!
                Back to my roots

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                  #9
                  When did "I stole your SSN" become a pickup line?

                  Simple dude, toss a party, invite her.

                  -Charlie
                  Swing wild, brake later, don't apologize.
                  '89 324d, '76 02, '98 318ti, '03 Z4, '07 MCS, '07 F800s - Bonafide BMW elitist prick.
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                    #10
                    IMO she wants you but she doesn't want make the first move. If she says on the phone that she's tired and stuff after work you're going to have to find out where she works, go pick her up after work (you can't tell her) then take her out. You have to make a good impression. If she really isn't freaked out by you then she'll go. She's playing hard to get. You're gonna have to be up front and confident. Tell her your intentions and ask her what her's are so there aren't any mixed signals. Don't fall for the woman games. They love stringing men along. Do me a huge favor though, next time you want a chicks SN, don't steal it because even though she probably thinks it's cute, the next girl might press charges lol.

                    Good Luck!!!

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                      #11
                      Originally posted by FifeDog236
                      this is college bag your own bitches!
                      Slackers has to be one of the greatest movies ever.

                      I bombed Korea every night.

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                        #12
                        She is probably all about attention... she likes the ego trip you give her, hence the messages on AIM when you are away. Also, it is safe to leave you a message when you cant talk back and ask her out. She can feed your ego, and not hurt your feelings, as well as not have to say no, or come up with some lame excuse as to why she can't go out with you.

                        What KIND of messages is she leaving you on AIM? I can see how this could be terribly confusing. She obviously gets SOMETHING from talking to you, whether it is an ego boost, or a bit of a guilty pang, I am not sure.

                        BUT I can tell you that she is not afraid to make the first move. The first move has already been made. DO NOT find out where she works and head over there to pic her up! That would be the worst thing you could do. NOT only do you look, AND ACT, like a stalker by doing that, but you also look incredibly selfish. By showing up and expecting her to go out with you, you would be assuming she has nothing better to do than to be with you, regardless of her current plans.

                        I would have to say she is not interested. Is she young? (18-21) If so, that could explain it. She might also be incredibly sweet, and therefor not able to tell you exactly how she feels.

                        If this information doesn't bother you, then keep plugging away! Women CAN be won over. You just have to go about it the right way and be respectful. My roommate/best friend is marrying a man that did just that. She had NOOOOOO interest in him for the first 6 months they knew each other. He kept working and working though and now they are getting married in March!

                        SOOO, you never know.

                        What was she leaving you on AIM... More details might help draw a better conclusion.

                        :)

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                          #13
                          AIM never works. You best be callin her up.
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                            #14
                            Originally posted by DEADZONER1
                            ...you're going to have to find out where she works, go pick her up after work (you can't tell her)... then take her out....You have to make a good impression....If she really isn't freaked out by you then she'll go..... She's playing hard to get.

                            ...next time you want a chicks SN, don't steal it because.......the next girl might press charges lol.
                            Ummm, there is just something REALLLLLY wrong with that piece of advice.

                            A girl will press charges for acquiring her Screen Name, but not for stalking her at her place of work, kidnapping her and FORCING her to go out with you??

                            LMAO
                            :)

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                              #15
                              Originally posted by Charlie

                              Simple dude, toss a party, invite her.
                              That is good advice!

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