confusing woman issues

[808BMW]

Everyone has good advice :up:

Forget about AIM, it doesn't count. get on the phone, and within 2-3 more phone conversations (preferrably 1) meet her in person. Dating situations where you don't see the other person doesn't really work out.

If she keeps giving you these excuses (read: BS) then invite her to a common event that you're going to anyway, and ask if she'd like to go with you.

If both of those don't work she's leading you on, drop her and look somewhere else. You might want to pursue it more, but hindsight will make you realize that your a stupid idiot and she had you P-W'd without you getting any. Been there, done that.

[DanGillan]

dude, you'll never touch her vagina, give it up...

[bmwannabe]

eh, well we will see. In a little bit ill make a part numero dos about this shiat. time for bed.

[randomtask37]

are you seriously 19 years old?

... and did you seriously ask this?

my vote is to grow up and dont act like your in junior high

[DSchultz325e]

Upon further inspection of your case, I have realized that she is a retarded bitch who is already seeing if you will play her stupid games. You are. You lose. GG no re.

[randomtask37]

EDIT: You must also know the art of dating. Dating is basically pretending you are doing normal activities that couples do like going to the movies and eating dinner, but really just looking forward to sex. Dating = Sex. Relationships = $$$.

I'm so bad. Forgive me.

also, if u are 19 then you are probly in college or at least out of highschool. so what u need to do is look a grade or two below you (nothing more than 2 years younger... that starts to push it) and find ways to hang out with these girls, and before you know it youll be getting some. chicks dig older guys.
:nice: i cant say all that without laughing a little bit though

[DSchultz325e]

Were those girls grabbing your junk in that picture all younger than you? :)

[randomtask37]

Were those girls grabbing your junk in that picture all younger than you? :)

ha ha!

actually no, that was me displaying my big pimpin skizzles :rofl:

[clutterbucker]

If she says "I have to work" and doesnt offer the next time she doesnt have to work, then she doesnt like you. If you does offer that next tiem but doesnt follow through, then most times, she doesn't like you. If she says she's tired...pshhht, no one is ever too tired to find the person of the opposite sex of their dreams.
It sounds liek she's not too into you.
And that's mad wierd that you gpot her screename when she was in the lavvy. Not tosay that I wouldn't do the same thing, but I would definately not be suprised if the girl thought I was a fucking stalker.

[E30ownerwithanopinion]

your pimp game is weak think about it dude who in the right mind would go out with you on e NYE? they would want to be with their friends durring that night.......NYE is not a good date night.

[gstuning]

This is how it breaks down

If you obsess over a girl you will not get her,

I you do nice things for to long without making a strong move you get nowhere

If you become her friend , almost nothing in this world will "fix" that besides, stop obsesing and dating other girls until this one falls into place

NOTE : There is no right one for anybody so don´t think this girl is the one,
I don´t know how old you are but stop obsessing and LIVE YOUR LIFE,
a woman/gf will come along ,, you will not die without one

[bmwannabe]

your pimp game is weak think about it dude who in the right mind would go out with you on e NYE? they would want to be with their friends durring that night.......NYE is not a good date night.

I dont blame her, i mean even I felt uneasy about it. Never having met her, i mean i coulda had a shitty time. I wanted to get smashed and fucking celebrate, not have to impress anyone.

Randomtask, I know what you mean about the younger girls. Ive got plenty of prospectives that ive been talking with. Had one over here a couple times, but it was easy because i already knew her. One of the other ones told me she would come over if i gave her beer and meaningless sex. Hah. Go figure. I guess my luck is good, but not with the exact girls that i reallly wanna be with.

And yes, ill reiterate, stealing her SN was probably a shitty idea, but i probably woulda never talked to her ever again!

[bmwannabe]

NOTE : There is no right one for anybody so don´t think this girl is the one,
I don´t know how old you are but stop obsessing and LIVE YOUR LIFE,
a woman/gf will come along ,, you will not die without one

I dont think shes the one, shes just fucking hot, lol.

[Sean]

She is probably all about attention... she likes the ego trip you give her, hence the messages on AIM when you are away. Also, it is safe to leave you a message when you cant talk back and ask her out. She can feed your ego, and not hurt your feelings, as well as not have to say no, or come up with some lame excuse as to why she can't go out with you.

What KIND of messages is she leaving you on AIM? I can see how this could be terribly confusing. She obviously gets SOMETHING from talking to you, whether it is an ego boost, or a bit of a guilty pang, I am not sure.

BUT I can tell you that she is not afraid to make the first move. The first move has already been made. DO NOT find out where she works and head over there to pic her up! That would be the worst thing you could do. NOT only do you look, AND ACT, like a stalker by doing that, but you also look incredibly selfish. By showing up and expecting her to go out with you, you would be assuming she has nothing better to do than to be with you, regardless of her current plans.

I would have to say she is not interested. Is she young? (18-21) If so, that could explain it. She might also be incredibly sweet, and therefor not able to tell you exactly how she feels.

If this information doesn't bother you, then keep plugging away! Women CAN be won over. You just have to go about it the right way and be respectful. My roommate/best friend is marrying a man that did just that. She had NOOOOOO interest in him for the first 6 months they knew each other. He kept working and working though and now they are getting married in March!

SOOO, you never know.

What was she leaving you on AIM... More details might help draw a better conclusion.

:)

GREAT ADVICE!


I've only ever had one girlfriend. But, since then, I've learned TONS about how to introduce yourself to girls and get to know them.

For one, "stealing" her SN was a VERY lame ass way to get to talk to her. Instead, you should have just walked up to her and started talking about some common topic - think of something. Were you in the same class? Talk about a class assignment or something. Or, maybe just ask a simple question, like how her day's going. That isn't always the best tho, cause it won't lead to much. But, you said she gave you a survey? You coulda brought the survey up and thought of a few questions to ask regarding that.

Once you initiate a conversation, keep with it, and if you get into anything deep, casually throw in, "So, would you like to talk more sometime?" If she says yes, casually ask, "Should I get your number?"

You want to remain anonymous in a way - just some guy outta the blue talkin to her. Quite frankly, i stick by this - if she doesn't give you a means to contact her, DO NOT DO IT. If she gives you her number, then call her. if she gives you her SN, then talk to her.

Also, if you get her number, wait a few days. Don't call her that night, or the next day. Wait for a few days. Then when you call her, be sure to get into a conversation or something. Then just be yourself. It's all about making yourself look free, available, and non-needy. You want to come across that you HAVE a life, and you are not always looking for things to do.

Sometimes, you have to play hard to get too. ;)

Oh, and finding out where she works, and going there - THE SHITTIEST IDEA EVER! DO NOT do ANYTHING along those lines.

You really need to stop relying on AOL to communicate with her. You need to call her or talk to her in person. Talking online does not do anything but exchange simple conversation. It doesn't show the persons personality or tendancies, which are make or break a crush for the msot part.

Confidence is all it takes. NOT TOO MUCH, but JUST the right amount. Be confident, but always remember - you have your own life, it does not revolve around some girl you just met, and there are MORE fish in the sea!

Good luck! :D

[PeterCip]

I can't believe i actually read this post...
learn to whack off and stop obsessing. women llke the game.
asshole card always works for me.
one other thing.. are you fat? youre fat aren't you...