confusing woman issues

[trent]

robert, yeah, i said i didnt care, in fact i took her off my buddylist, so if there is gonna be any further contact, itll be on her part. If i see her on campus i dont know what ill do though.

"bitch, you off my buddy list!"

:ohsnap:

:ohsnap:

[Charlie]

The "AIM stalker" thing only works when a chick does it.

I had a chick that I worked with, she had been there 2 days, I had said a grand total of "hi" to her. She looks me up thorough ICQ, which I hadn't used in 3 years, and finds an old defunct email address that I have my AIM name registerd to. She IM's me at 2 am and pretends to be a stranger, I guess who it is in 10 minutes.

I banged her a day later. I'm sure there's a moral to this.

-Charlie

[AdironRider]

I bet she weighed about a duece, duece and a half didnt she charlie

[Charlie]

I bet she weighed about a duece, duece and a half didnt she charlie

Nope, she was actually surprisingly cute, quiet, honor student, wicked kinky and definetly a touch "off" in the head.

Rock & roll.

-Charlie

[bmwannabe]

yeah, ive let it drop. kris, i know i have no game. Being occupied for 4 yrs with 2 different women will turn you into that. My last gf had me trained so that i couldnt even look at/ talk about other attractive girls. Only reason i stuck with it was b/c i was content getting the mad amounts of ass. I guess that would be categorized as whipped, but at least i was getting all I wanted.

[randomtask37]

How did this get 4 pages of replies.

the fuck if I know man.

1. guy has girl problems
2. guy posts about girl problems on internet forum.
3. guy wonders why he has girl problems.

:rofl:
i was thinking the same thing

[Streetspec_iS]

women are gay. did you fail to receive that memo. man up, jerk off and move on.

[Charlie]

robert, yeah, i said i didnt care, in fact i took her off my buddylist, so if there is gonna be any further contact, itll be on her part. If i see her on campus i dont know what ill do though.

I have a number of chicks on my "buddy list" under the heading "CICGHF"

-Charlie

[randomtask37]

robert, yeah, i said i didnt care, in fact i took her off my buddylist, so if there is gonna be any further contact, itll be on her part. If i see her on campus i dont know what ill do though.

I have a number of chicks on my "buddy list" under the heading "CICGHF"

-Charlie

figure mine out!

"HSCrE"

[M42Technik]

women are gay. did you fail to receive that memo. man up, jerk off and move on.

You still having troubles with your younger friend Jake?

;)

My advice is to just talk to the girl until your head falls off. If you wanna fuck, then go to a Delta Delta Delta sorority....

[rwh11385]

Simple dude, toss a party, invite her.

She doesn't show. You get drunk, hook up with another chick......don't give a fuck anymore about e-chixor.

AIM never works. You best be callin her up.

Bullshit. It works, but just treat it more than some weird nerdy guy (dude from Napoleon Dynamite) completely entraced and owned by an e-chixor. If she sees any part of that, she will enjoy the attention and string you along, but think its pathetic. If you don't give a crap about her, she might take more interest in you.

I met my ex through a friend at school and knew her SN through someone and talked to her on AIM because that was the most convient means of communication. (She did want to talk to me though, and didn't really think much about how or why I got her SN.....it was more cool, or assumed it was through a friend and normal and I got it because I wanted to chat) Then hung out in person set up through IMs pretty soon, and included some phone conversations too. You just cannot rely on it solely though.

slackers is indeed one of the greatest movies ever.

indeed.

she is stringing you along. After the 3rd deny, time to move on. "I am tired" is a piss poor excuse. She is trying to be nice.
Plenty of fish in the ocean, dont spend any more time.

I hate the fucking tired line, it's bullshit sometimes and nothing you can do really. Maybe call her out and be upfront why she is blowing you off (but be careful, it might be the truth). Whatever. If you are strung along, it'll keep you from scoring other chicks.

Also, if you get her number, wait a few days. Don't call her that night, or the next day. Wait for a few days. Then when you call her, be sure to get into a conversation or something. Then just be yourself. It's all about making yourself look free, available, and non-needy. You want to come across that you HAVE a life, and you are not always looking for things to do.

Screw that. Screw the days rule. (Swingers......yeah, bullshit....unneccessary) Depends on situation. If its break or summer and there isn't much better things to do, call her the next afternoon if you feel like it. Don't let her think you are some average tool who has a system, a stupid rule he has to follow. If you get caught up, fine, say that, but don't play games. don't stoop to stupid girls level.

The "AIM stalker" thing only works when a chick does it.

. I'm sure there's a moral to this.

-Charlie

This is the truth. There are a lot of pathetic dudes on the internet that don't have the confidence to talk to girls in person, whatever.....don't be one of them or act like them! Shit, I was one.....until I got some self-esteem and some confidence. Got over the shyness so much that people I meet can never believe I was shy, ever. If you are spitting e-game, it's going to make the girl think you cannot spit any game in person. And girls dig confidence. So yeah, you are shooting yourself in the foot. And stealing her SN makes her think you don't have anything better to do.

But shit, if girls want to find me on thefacebook, xanga, myspace, whatever.....and message me, that's cool. Who cares. I don't have to work, just chat a little, and if they want to meet or bang, that's fine. Not a make or break situation.....I meet and grow and date girls not online, and adding to that is fine. Aint no harm in it.

yeah, ive let it drop. kris, i know i have no game. Being occupied for 4 yrs with 2 different women will turn you into that. My last gf had me trained so that i couldnt even look at/ talk about other attractive girls. Only reason i stuck with it was b/c i was content getting the mad amounts of ass. I guess that would be categorized as whipped, but at least i was getting all I wanted.

I know where you are coming from a little. Before my last relationship, I didn't have game. I didn't need it during my relationship either. So I was unlearned. But oh well. I kinda understood things better in the end, and it's simple, even if girls aren't. Just have confidence, be yourself. Crazy right? Well you might not get the girl you want, but you can get the girl that wants you for you, so less stress.

Basically, the good chicks dig nice cute guys that listen, are kind, and aren't preoccupied with sex. (I mean immediately pushing for it. If they are mature, girls ought to appreciate sex, but they do not want to think you see them as all they are good for, etc.) Hot trendy prissy girls like $$$, cars, reputation, etc. Forget those bitches. Find a good chick and be confident. It should be easy fresh out of a relationship. You know there is a reason you had the last gf, and can see yourself with someone else because of that, so go for it. Don't be whipped, get a backbone, but don't be an asshole either.


I had another date the night I broke up with my ex. Your female friends' single friends rock. Or see if they themselves want to take advantage of you. And date around until you find someone you seriously can be committed to, and want to be. Be upfront and don't mislead, you don't want a relationship right now. Don't just pay attention to girls that give out alone......you'll end up fucked in the end, but you could have buddies that you hang out, date, and mess around with, and if you both comfortable, then fine.

That's enough, I'm going to bed. Hope my advice helps, just how I see it. Have Kristin double check that.

[bmwannabe]

I have a similar list to Charlies "Chix i could get head from". Its more appropriately called "hoes"

Robert, thx for the advice. My game sucks, but im working on it.

[Digitalwave]

Wow, Doctor Phil, quit the shit with the mile long posts. You aren't going to help wannabe score.

[rwh11385]

I have nothing better to do but sleep at 4am. Then wake up about now to some girl calling me. Different ring tones pwn you.

isn't not like you have to read it. if he is posting online about girl advice, he might as well get something. (should have known better and posted on bf.c's OT.....and be told to stick it in her pooper already)

[bimmerphile]

I have nothing better to do but sleep at 4am. Then wake up about now to some girl calling me. Different ring tones pwn you.

isn't not like you have to read it. if he is posting online about girl advice, he might as well get something. (should have known better and posted on bf.c's OT.....and be told to stick it in her pooper already)

stop encouraging this shit.