ill see her tomorrow and well go on a break i honeslty think im really good to her but if she wont do that for me then the best thing to do is end it
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Definitely a cutie, but you'll find some one better if you can score that. Remember, she doesn't need to be the prettiest thing you can find.
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She's right it's not easy to stop, let it go.Originally posted by teh_activ View Post
The last place in the world you want to be is in the wake of that downward spiral.I'm Not Right in the Head | Random Rants and other Nonsense1st Order Logic Failure: Association fallacy, this type of fallacy can be expressed as (∃x ∈ S : φ(x)) → (∀x ∈ S : φ(x)), meaning "if there exists any x in the set S so that a property φ is true for x, then for all x in S the property φ must be true".Comment
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will you promise me to not post reposts in the animated gif thread? will you promise to only post one gif per post?
did you not know this chick smoked weed and did lines prior to getting with her? maybe you need to check your own standards. If I'm out to fall in love with a chick/develop a serious relationship, the girl is not going to fuck around with anything... It's hard enough to nurture a relationship without all the unecessary bullshit.
or maybe it's just a phase, considering she is 19, there's alot more to go through...
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i promise maluco lol
and ill try to get her to stop but if she wont it willl be best if we just stop seeing eachother
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Activ I have been in the exact same situation when my gf asked me to stop blazing. She hated me smoking weed but could see my better qualities, despite repeatedly asking me to stop for her. It is not easy to give up, smoking weed is a lifestlye in itself so your asking her to change her whole lifestyle and the people she hangs out with! I can understand the coke, that shits whack, but weed is really not that bad for you, do some research. Main point is if you love her then see her for the better qualities, just because she is smoking weed now does not mean she will do it for the rest of her life. Maybe wait it out and see what happens. If not then there is tons of other chicks out there, no reason to stress over just one! good luck manComment
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thanks rhys i just feel betrayed dude, and ive smoked too but i realize that i can get it deep shit for it. so ill have to wait it out and see if shes worth it
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and too think I dumped a girl because she got drunk a few times...
What are you thinking? do you really want a relationship that will cost you everything? Are you that desperate that a cute face will leave you hooked and uncertain?
DUMP NOW, and go pimp cruising in your dirty e30 to pick up another hoe.Comment
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Well, man you have 2 choices, 1) let her go and find some one else.
2) Remember you cant help some who dose not want to help them selves 1st, if you do care that much for her, you will have too be supportive of her and allow for slip ups as they will happen. On the flip side of that argument you need to make it clear to her that she needs to make a 100% honest effort to stop. That you will not tolerate anything less than a 100% effort because you will be putting a 100% effort in to help her get clean and you expect the same from her.
If she slips ok, but a slip is just that, they dont occur once a day, once a week, or even once a month. Set her up with with a incentive, that if she stays clean for 6 months or a year you will take her on a vacation or some thing else that she will enjoy, that she can think about to get passed the hard times. Also you need to be some one she can trust to lean on or call when necessary. Spend more time with her, encourage a more healthy life style and participate with her, find things you like to do together and do more of them.
Edit: You too may have to give up the party type life style, if thats not something your not willing to do then you might as well drop her, as you cant ask her to do something your not willing to do your self.
Go on short weekend trips to some where to keep her away from her "friends", (pile in your car and hit up the Catskills in NY for hiking, biking, fishing, or just plain driving. I spent every sunday I had off over there last summer hiking in the catskills and only saw a fraction of the park If you need more suggestions let me know) if you make the effort it may work it may not just depends on if she wants to stop. Like I said though you need to make it 100% clear that you will not put with a 1/2 assed effort, if this sounds like too much work for you then drop her and find some one else.
I have had to deal with a similar situation, not with narcotics but with an eating disorder a very very bad deal for her. We have been together 9 years, and still every once in a while she still struggles with it and needs some reassurance.Last edited by mrsleeve; 04-11-2009, 07:46 PM.The American Republic will endure until the day Congress discovers that it can bribe the public with the public's money. -Alexis de TocquevilleOriginally posted by Fusion
The Desire to Save Humanity is Always a False Front for the Urge to Rule it- H. L. Mencken
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Ask heeters advice"We praise or find fault, depending on which of the two provides more opportunity for our powers of judgement to shine."Comment
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Offer help - if she does not want help - There are other hot chicks that do not do drugs.'89 "is" = M technic II build mode.
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i am willing to do anything for her
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I am sure. Many of us have similar experiences. If she gets sucked in, it will take more than you to save her man. I would make her choose too. If she chooses drugs (like she said) she is not ready for the type of relationship it sounds like you are ready for.'89 "is" = M technic II build mode.
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at one point in my life, i was suicidal and my bestie(a girl) pulled me out of my slump by SMACKING me and saying to me that i'd ruin more lives by ending my own. we were like siblings until she went down to meth introduced to her by her boyfriend(college dropout). i stuck her in rehab and that fucking son of a motherfucking bitch who is the septic tank of the fucking universe just went on to the next poor girl he could find. she has not yet forgiven me for putting her in rehab but i know that she could not have broken her addiction to meth without it.
do what you think is right.
YOU are the last shot she has to clean up.
be proactive, and try to clean her up. would you wanna see her as a crack ho?
do you want her to end up whoring out for crack?
do your best; YOU have to do the right thing.
if something awful happened to her, i dont believe it would sit right in your head knowing you could have done something
so even if you dump her, make sure she's gonna be ok.
i pray you take this to heart. i lost connection to a dear friend, but she still has her life and dignity. i hope that this works well for you
God bless and happy easter.My feedback:
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majority is dead on... theres nothing you really can do... too complicated a situation to expect to fix it and if you try theyll only start to hate you for trying to do the better. regardless, if you just keep going with it your leaving yourself to be used in a way. treating her good is one thing, but continually treating her when she does have enough respect for you or her to know the difference is... weakComment
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